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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Should unowned slaves ask?" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Should unowned slaves ask? (63) This post is on the O&P web board. 20 Aug 10, 12:56 AM MSilas US(VA), 21 mths Y! Greeting's I feel that a unowned slave can initiate contact. It let's the Master know that said slave is interested in serving them. I do not believe on first contact a slave should ask to be a Master's slave. You should take some time to learn about the Master, as should the Master take time to learn about the slave. Once one or the other feels comfortable, then a offer should be extended by either side. It is foolish for a slave to blindly offer themselves to anyone. 29 Aug 10, 7:51 PM DapperDom 2 yrs 773-757-702 wrote: That was what I needed to know. The fact is, I am unowned now and am in need of a Master or Mistress to teach, and straighten out this half feminized sissy boy but my ex wife/Mistress always told me I was never to ask a Master or Mistress anything without being given permission to speak. that was the reason for my post. NB. Highlighting by me That may have been part of the protocol she set out as part of your M/s agreement with her when that agreement was active. But it isn't representative of protocol or etiquette generally. To give an example, it is correct etiquette (for a Dom/me) not to speak to or treat subs other than one's own as his/hers. That is an example of protocol/etiquette that is unanimously agreed upon (though, unfortunately, not always acted on). But the clause that your ex-Mistress included is not a standard one that necessarily continues by default once an agreement has ended. Not least because you are now free. 30 Aug 10, 1:30 PM mia UK, 11 yrs 773-757-702 wrote: Should unowned slaves ask? Should unowned Slaves ask particular Master's or Mistress's to take possession of them? I do not think so. Master's and Mistress's are far superior and smarter than we are and should do their own choosing and i have always been taught to only speak when spoken to. I am not worthy of addressing a Master or Mistress without permission. It is my place to wait until I am asked by a Master or Mistress before I ask to be owned or controlled. If you're already in a relationship with a dominant, but you are yet to be taken as their possession, it might be worth asking if this is something you are aiming towards, or if they want you to be your own free person, who also submits to them. You need to know that you share similar relationship goals. If it is someone you are interested in, from the ads or the boards, then i don't see any harm in letting them know that you like them/are interested in them/etc. I would, however, refrain from asking them to 'take possession' of you, not because they are smarter or superior, but because they will want to get to know you first and see if you are suitable for them. It would be sensible for you to find out more about them before becoming their possession too. It's a big thing and can affect all areas of both of your lives, so it's not something to be done lightly. m, x 12 Oct 10, 10:29 PM 136-731-776 US(PA), 23 mths Y! I think a slave in the role as a true slave (just property like any other livestock) does not pick a master -- the master selects a slave. 13 Oct 10, 12:25 AM Master_Of_U UK, 20 mths In my view you may ask, but, the Master decides wether to accept or not. In my case you ask for an application form, i scrutinise that form plus other documents you fill out, if i think you may be useful to me you will complete a 3 month traing course which you refer to me as Sir, after completion and you pass you may refer to me as Master, be prosented with your collar and recieve your tattoo. Master_Of_U 13 Oct 10, 3:38 AM Sir_A_Griff CA, 3 yrs A slave or sub especially here and in Fetlife but also elsewhere can express an interest to a Master or Domme to see if they are compatible. Griff 136-731-776 wrote: I think a slave in the role as a true slave (just property like any other livestock) does not pick a master -- the master selects a slave. 13 Oct 10, 2:17 PM pirate528x US(LA), 6 yrs Y! It would make things alot simpler if unowned slaves would politely greet the Master/Mistress.Upon doing so,inform the Master/Mistress of the slaves unowned status.After telling the Master/Mistress this information,the slave should wait to see if there are any questions.If none, the slave should excuse itself and move on.Let's face it,most of us Masters/Mistresses aren't mind-readers.It's easier for an unowned slave to approach us than it is for most Masters/Mistresses to approach some vanilla person,who might freakout and call the cops or worse. MT Edited 13 Oct 10, 2:19 PM by pirate528x 13 Oct 10, 2:30 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs In regards to wanting a Master to take ownership of you, i would think you could approach it as a job interview. The rules of a good job interview would be to dress the part of the job you want, behave in a manner suited for the job, ask questions to see if the job is one you'd like, and always remember to ask for the job. Masters are not mind readers. p 14 Oct 10, 12:46 AM LovingDom 2 yrs property_of_MacCain wrote: In regards to wanting a Master to take ownership of you, i would think you could approach it as a job interview. The rules of a good job interview would be to dress the part of the job you want, behave in a manner suited for the job, ask questions to see if the job is one you'd like, and always remember to ask for the job. Masters are not mind readers. p perfectly said 16 Oct 10, 6:06 AM Kinkypupper 6 yrs Bestway to find anything or anyone.. ASK Kinkypupper Next page