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	TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Should unowned slaves ask?" 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Should unowned slaves ask? (63) This post is on the O&P web board. Sun 31 Jan 10, 10:17 AM 773-757-702 US(NY), 2 yrs Y! Should unowned Slaves ask particular Master's or Mistress's to take possession of them? I do not think so. Master's and Mistress's are far superior and smarter than we are and should do their own choosing and i have always been taught to only speak when spoken to. I am not worthy of addressing a Master or Mistress without permission. It is my place to wait until I am asked by a Master or Mistress before I ask to be owned or controlled. 31 Jan 10, 11:43 AM 226-332-326 FR, 2 yrs Y! Absolutely! A slave who shall completely what it is, can not decide anything. The person elected to be its owner, who will decide everything. Ętre l'esclave d'une personne merveilleuse est le plus grand bonheur qui est Being the slave of a wonderful person is the greatest happiness is 31 Jan 10, 1:04 PM 826-531-778 US(FL), 2 yrs My daddy told me I had to ask him if I wanted to be his slave. he refused to take me with a command even thought I begged him. he said it is my choice to do it. and he said if I want him to be my master I need to ask him. so one day I got on my knees kissed his feet looked up at him and asked. he agreed to take care of me forever. so now he asked me to join this site so I did and I am his collared slave. I am happier than ever. 31 Jan 10, 1:47 PM 773-757-702 US(NY), 2 yrs Y! That was what I needed to know. The fact is, I am unowned now and am in need of a Master or Mistress to teach, and straighten out this half feminized sissy boy but my ex wife/Mistress always told me I was never to ask a Master or Mistress anything without being given permission to speak. that was the reason for my post. 31 Jan 10, 2:15 PM SL_precious CA, 3 yrs 773-757-702 wrote: That was what I needed to know. The fact is, I am unowned now and am in need of a Master or Mistress to teach, and straighten out this half feminized sissy boy but my ex wife/Mistress always told me I was never to ask a Master or Mistress anything without being given permission to speak. that was the reason for my post. Hi, Of course you always want to be respectful but as you have said, at the moment you are unowned. This is when you do have say, be careful..not all Masters or Mistresses may be worthy of such blind obedience. Consider it much like 'normal' dating, you want to meet and get to know someone who is compataible with you and who compliments your needs. It is not an easy task but so very worth it when you make that connection with the right person. Be patient, i know it is hard when you just want it now! but if you truly want a lasting relationship with someone who can guide you it may take some time. best wishes SL_precious 31 Jan 10, 4:34 PM 122-687-018 UK, 2 yrs I have recently joined this site and im having problems communicating with people! i mean should we really be contacting masters? should they not be choosing us! 31 Jan 10, 6:09 PM ovseer2010 2 yrs 122-687-018 wrote: I have recently joined this site and im having problems communicating with people! i mean should we really be contacting masters? should they not be choosing us! The norms of human behaviour aren't suddenly suspended just because we have a shared interesting in tying each other up. Male advertisers will continue to initiate contacts in great numbers. Female advertisers will continue to initiate contacts in much fewer numbers, if at all. If the existence of a personal ad doesn't constitute permission to contact someone, then what would? Edited 31 Jan 10, 6:15 PM by ovseer2010 31 Jan 10, 6:29 PM MrDaws UK, 2 yrs ovseer2010 wrote: 122-687-018 wrote: I have recently joined this site and im having problems communicating with people! i mean should we really be contacting masters? should they not be choosing us! The norms of human behaviour aren't suddenly suspended just because we have a shared interesting in tying each other up. Male advertisers will continue to initiate contacts in great numbers. Female advertisers will continue to initiate contacts in much fewer numbers, if at all. If the existence of a personal ad doesn't constitute permission to contact someone, then what would? In the main it is usual for Masters/Mistresses to initiate contact but only when done correctly (and with suitable respect) it is acceptable for a sub/slave to initiate contact and let the Master/Mistress have the choice of whether to reply. Sometimes even the best sub or slave gets overlooked simply because they cant be seen (especially online) and a little 'hello!' can be appreciated. A personal ad by a sub/slave would normally give implicit permission for them to be contacted. Edited 31 Jan 10, 6:32 PM by MrDaws 31 Jan 10, 9:04 PM EricStanton UK, 11 yrs Should unowned slaves ask? Of course. They are no doubt slaves by choice and the title of 'master' ..... well they could have invented it themselves (gasp). How else are people going to notice each other? Nemesis Alive and kicking. Backlash Video peer rope workshops 31 Jan 10, 10:17 PM wittyone 2 yrs 773-757-702 wrote: Should unowned slaves ask? Should unowned Slaves ask particular Master's or Mistress's to take possession of them? I do not think so. Master's and Mistress's are far superior and smarter than we are and should do their own choosing and i have always been taught to only speak when spoken to. I am not worthy of addressing a Master or Mistress without permission. It is my place to wait until I am asked by a Master or Mistress before I ask to be owned or controlled. This is a question I often ask myself, and have learned that it would be better to ask to be owned. However, I always get confused about "when" and "where" I'm suppose to ask. Plus, I also have very old fashioned ideas about dating. Namely, that I still believe that the man (or Dominant of any gender) should ask the girl (or submissive of any gender) out, if they are interested. I feel that if he/she is interested in that type of relationship he should be willing to express interest in this manner (or some manner in general although this particular method is always the most clear to me). I tend to be a little blind when someone likes me, especially if I like them. It's like I need to be hit in the head with the "Yes, I do like you" stick by someone before I *know* that they in fact like me. I also have the huge fear that I'll be told "no". In the many times I've asked friends this question, I am often told a crisp cut answer that "the submissive should ask". However, I think I've often misrepresented my question because, "How will I know?" would be a better way of phrasing it. A very good friend told me this, when I told her that I wasn't sure what to do, "Relax, get to know him and when you're ready to go to the next step undoubtedly he will be too." So far that's been the best advice I've ever received. 1 Feb 10, 8:28 AM Malkinius US(IL), 5 yrs Greetings..... You are really asking two different things here which some of the people who have already replied have caught on to. The first is should the slave/sub initiate contact with a dominant? The second is should the slave/sub beg to be owned by a specific dominant? For the first question, I think they should if they want to talk to someone they should be able to do so. They may start out with a request to speak with them but it is much better than waiting for them to contact you as they may never do so. Personally, I have never had a problem with a slave or sub contacting me out of the blue. As to the second question, yes, the slave/sub should always beg to be owned. That is the point of consensual servitude/slavery. The slave/sub consents to be owned and the dominant consents to own. Everything else is just details. Be well.... Malkinius Next page