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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Focusing the Mind" Focusing the Mind (6) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Fri 29 Jan 10, 5:19 AM 113-741-316 US(MN), 2 yrs Mistress believes that the fastest and best way for Her to get my attention and to focus on Her words is to kick me in the balls. It does get me to focus on Her and I do respond quickly once She has my attention. Mistress would like to know if there are other simple methods like this. 29 Jan 10, 6:59 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs Wow!!! Maybe you should ask yourself why you have such a hard time focusing on your Mistress, that she needs to take such drastic measures. Unless of course you like being kicked in the balls. If that is the case, your Mistress may want to find another way to get your attention that would not give you as much pleasure. Usually Master saying my name firmly, gets my attention immediately. 333-528-841 Life shouldn't be measured by the breaths you take; but by the moments that take your breath away 29 Jan 10, 10:12 AM 842-520-015 US, 4 yrs Y! Usually Master saying my name firmly, gets my attention immediately. [/quote] This one agrees totally, hearing her name and the tone in his voice grabs her attention immediately. No other method is needed. 29 Jan 10, 3:58 PM 741-498-880 4 yrs as I am partially deaf, not good at multitasking and often in my own little world, My Owner tends to find saying "Emma" a couple times tends to get my attention. If that doesn't work, he just walks over and crowds behind me. THAT gets my attention. I hate being trapped in a corner or loomed over. ;o 30 Jan 10, 4:51 AM 113-741-316 US(MN), 2 yrs Actually my Goddess enjoys the "love taps". She says i never look so goofy as when She does it with my face puffed out, my eyes bugged and my mouth in a circle. She always laughs when looking at me, and when She has done it in front of Her friends, they laugh lustily too. As She has said "look at America's Funniest Home Videos, it's always funny to see a guy get hit in the balls>" 30 Jan 10, 4:59 AM Umbramajoris_01 US(AL), 2 yrs Y! 113-741-316 wrote: Focusing the Mind kick me in the balls. It does get me to focus on Her and I do respond quickly once She has my attention. Mistress would like to know if there are other simple methods like this. Like maybe slapping you instead of possibly doing serious damage? Snapping one's fingers...clapping? Stomping loudly? Slapping a whip? (like snapping a belt but with a flogger.) Calling you a nasty name until you focus better? Making you write 1000 times "I will focus on my Dominant for whatever He/She wishes."? I could go on... Umbramajoris P.S. I have used a paddle (ping pong) with a "love tap" to the butt to clear a slaves head of cobwebs... Edited 30 Jan 10, 5:03 AM by Umbramajoris_01 30 Jan 10, 6:03 PM 976-188-983 US(ID), 4 yrs If you intend to have children at some point I would suggest you stop getting kicked in the balls, my husband got kicked in the balls hard one time and does not have the use of a testicle. As has been said there are alternatives. A slap to the face seems the most obvious if a physical reminder is needed. Perhaps part of the problem is in you yourself, I don't know, but I find it disturbing when I miss something Sir has said or done and I always try harder to be extra attentive. All I can say is always be attentive and soon you will not need the reminders to stay focused. Just my opinion. Baby In his eyes I am lost, In his arms I am found, In his soul I am content. Kore ga Watashi no Goshujin-sama Edited 1 Feb 10, 4:34 AM by 976-188-983