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	TSR : Web boards : Internal Enslavement : "Babies..." 1 2 3 4 5 6 Babies... (55) This post is on the Internal Enslavement web board. 16 Nov 10, 2:28 PM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs jakesemma wrote: Picking a compatible Owner goes a long way for getting through the good times, AND the bad together... and having similar life goals. I think this is the key to any successful M/s relationship. Good luck on your home birth. "With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity." ~ Keshavan Nair 16 Nov 10, 6:10 PM mutable 2 yrs Personally, I feel that having children is a lifestyle choice all by itself. It is life altering, time consuming, responsibility creating and financially challenging. One never knows what 'kind' of child one will get either, regardless of parenting skills. I have the utmost admiration for those who are able to raise a happy, healthy child and if you can do this within an uncompromised M/s dynamic, then more so - because you are juggling more balls. It seems reasonable to say "find a partner who has the same desire for kids" but, if one is 'young', you don't always know that having kids will (may) become an issue in future. I was 33 before I had my son and even at this age I didn't feel 'ready'. Only now that he is 12 do I feel somewhat capable in this area and that it would be nice to have more, but I'm too old. It would certainly be nice to have a child with he, but we are of the same opinion so, theoretically, it's not a problem. 978-291-889 wrote: As IE deepens and progresses, does it become easier to listen to the biological clock inside? Is it possible to make the broody feeling go away completely through submission? I would say that IE lessens the broodiness because the nature of IE makes the slave think in the same way as the master (simply put). Is the motherhood instinct stronger than this? I don't know, but it's an interesting question 889. 'We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are' Anais Nin 17 Nov 10, 1:21 PM Vickie US(WI), 7 yrs Y! 978-291-889 wrote: Babies... Having children is a massive decision in any relationship. It is difficult when one person wants children and the other doesn't. I am wondering if any slaves have had to relinquish their dreams of having children as part of IE? Have any Owners supported their property through this due to having different/changing goals in life? Have any slaves experienced the 'need' for a child being greater than the 'need' to be owned? Or vice-versa? Are babies a 'need' or a 'want'? As IE deepens and progresses, does it become easier to listen to the biological clock inside? Is it possible to make the broody feeling go away completely through submission? Thank you in advance for your thoughts on this. This slave has discussed children with her Master and we both agreed that until this slave has a better job and can support herself that a child isn't necessary, although she does want one. This one has had to ignore the biological clock many times and tell herself that even though a child would fill the want it would also devastate her financially which she cannot and will not let happen. In bondage I am made free. 21 Dec 10, 10:10 AM 870-487-403 US(NC), 17 mths Owner and i talked a lot about having children. Actually, while i did have that urge to have them, it was Owner that decided that He wanted them very much. So I gave him two, pudgey little cherubs, and while it is hard in a sense to be in a M/s relationship at home with kids, its not impossible.There are ways to to still be that way 24/7, with out the kids knowing. I am a house girl and always will be, so now i am a house girl and a stay at home mama. I don't serve my kids obviously, and i am still their Mama. But I do stay at home, and my Owner is the ruler of the house, really much like some "normal' households. I have friend, a male slave, that is a house boy, and also a stay at home dad.Their family works in the since that his Mistress, their mother, is the head of household. Everything works out. I am very happy Owner wanted babies, and picked me to have them. 24 Dec 10, 10:51 PM zimzam UK, 17 mths Just visiting this discussion, wife is a sub rather than a slave. I have decided that we should have another child. She accepts her duties as a good sub: I am therefore using her daily with the aim of my impregnating her, and I am monitoring and recording her periods. wife routinely invites me to use her (occasionally I will let her get pleasure too). Subject to any fertility difficulties, she WILL have my child. I have told her that we will never use any contraceptives again.