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TSR : Web boards : Internal Enslavement : "Are you romantic partners first? or M/s first?"
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Are you romantic partners first? or M/s first? (46)

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15 Apr 10, 3:43 AM
Bella_Ragazza
US(RI), 6 yrs

Master and I were romantic first though M/s was always on the table as my offering to him, I just had to wait for him to pick it up when he was ready. He new I was a slave, though he was blind ton the Master that was within him. As time went on he learned that he did not want to to be vanilla anymore but that he wanted to own me as his slave. Quite romantic really, in my point of view.

Bella

10 May 10, 12:35 PM
shewhoobeysher
US, 2 yrs
I am in love with my Mistress but she doesn't know it how do I address this issue
10 May 10, 4:28 PM
703-817-797
GR, 2 yrs
deviantsub is married (vanilla) whereas Master is also in a relationship. There is certain bonding and affection between us but we try to keep it in the context of the M/s relationship. It's not easy, but it's the only way this could happen. ds

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Edited 29 May 10, 7:30 PM by 703-817-797

10 May 10, 6:03 PM
curious_bina
US(TN), 2 yrs

898-443-818 wrote:
Are you romantic partners first? or M/s first?

How many of you started out with M/s first? Would you describe the romantic part or the M/s part as "first" when describing your current state?

This slave started out with her Master as M/s first. She also agrees with you that if not for the M/s part, it might not have progressed to anything romantic. Definitely can't stand wimpy or submissive men (romantically) ;)

-s

Always the curious one ~ s

10 May 10, 11:19 PM
mutable
2 yrs
We met as dom/sub but things did not quite work out that way.

So, I would say we are romantic partners first, but with a need within each of us to also incorporate those aspects of Ds (etc.) we enjoy and reach fulfillment from. It's a slow process, which suits him and (surprisingly) me, but he is in the driving seat and reminds me 'better right than right now, we have forever'. :-D

Caveat : Non offensive and always learning.
'We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are' Anais Nin

21 Aug 10, 11:33 PM
bitchgirl
DE, 21 mths
Y!*
As Y/you can see in girls profile she isn't owned right now. by that she cant say anything about her relationship and doesnt know what to expect in future. In the past girl and till now, girl is dating with people, who clearly know her desires and will meet them. Every relationship was M/s first till now. This girl cant imagine to fall in love with someone, who doesn't be a M. being a slave is such a big part of girls life, she can't hide that. Being romantic is wonderfull, dont get girl wrong, but it's an add-on to them domination. Domination as an add-on to romance wouldn't work for girl.

 

 
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