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	TSR : Web boards : Internal Enslavement : "Are you romantic partners first? or M/s first?" 1 2 3 4 5 Are you romantic partners first? or M/s first? (46) This post is on the Internal Enslavement web board. 8 Feb 10, 4:43 PM 562-470-768 2 yrs Mistress_Dea wrote: The relationship my slave has with me reflects the fact that I believe it worships me. Seeing me as some sort of Godess. I can assure you I don,t see myself as a Godess but it is how my slave views me. I am happy to accept its service and to use it for my pleasure without offering it any "love" in return. If this is unique then I am then lucky one. may this girl ask then to the Owner who wrote this... you do not offer any love in return, as you state... would you 1. care at all if your slave stops viewing you as a godess? 2. run away 3. choose someone else over you, permanently? if the Owner of this writing is to answer, and she considers anyone of these questions a 'yes' answer, this girl would really like to know and add to her question "Why?" love is but an emotion. Edit: girl also states that she understood this a question directed at a married couple. should she be mistaken she apologise We are all vanilla to some degree - for society will keep a foothold in our lives. We are all Dom/mes or slave/sub on some level, as there is ALWAYS someone weaker or stronger than you... Edited 8 Feb 10, 4:45 PM by 562-470-768 9 Feb 10, 3:29 AM Footcandle US(AZ), 2 yrs Before I ever explored the lifestyle I became wicked friends wth my owner. Our sexual relationship started vanilla because again I was unaware of the situation. (This was for a very short time until the dynamic revelaed itself.) Now as I look back at the very early stages of the advancement of our relationship I know for sure he was master over romance. There are certain things and actions that took place that I can identify now with clarity, that I just took as aggressive and intersting then. I would not change anything. Never has life, my needs and place been more clear. As the relationship progresses I continue to become more fulfilled in my place as a slave, romance just follows suit with passion, trust and thank god for once clear direction in a man. I have taken my place at his feet and feel very fulfilled as a woman who loves to serve and is appreciated and loved for the service I love to provide. 9 Feb 10, 9:52 AM Mistress_Dea UK, 3 yrs 562-470-768. No I do not offer my slave any love. If my slave chose to stop worshipping me or chose to leave, whether for someone else or not, that would be its free choice. I would miss the service and the pleasure I get from using it but would simply start to seek a new slave and I assure you I regularly get requests to become my slave. I am sure many of them are fantacists but there are some who are genuine. 9 Feb 10, 10:07 AM 562-470-768 2 yrs /me nods at the words of the owner and then chuckles to herself softly. romance is not love. but that is truly this girl's thoughts. emotionally, you are attached. there is no doubt in this girl's mind about that. on what level.. we can each convince ourselves the devil is friend. if we say it, it must be true. thank you for taking from your time to answer this girl. We are all vanilla to some degree - for society will keep a foothold in our lives. We are all Dom/mes or slave/sub on some level, as there is ALWAYS someone weaker or stronger than you... 11 Feb 10, 3:24 AM pet_ka_MJ CA, 2 yrs Master and I met through this very website when he answered my ad. Though he has started my training as his slave, there has also been moments of general "get to know you" as well. We have found we share many opinions not only about what a Master/slave relationship needs to be, but also what a romantic relationship needs to be. While the two relationships have interwined for us, and BDSM and vanilla have become blended. We agree that it is our romantic relationship that has truly developed first. We have known almost from the first meeting that this would blossom into a loving relationship. In fact, we will be a loving couple for 5 months when we vacation in Toronto, where Master will lock the collar around my neck, making it a loving Master/slave relationship. PS - this post was dictated by a very patient Master and typed by his adoring slave. With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage is the foundation of integrity. - Keshavan Nair Edited 11 Feb 10, 3:50 AM by pet_ka_MJ 13 Feb 10, 3:38 AM 641-341-071 UK, 3 yrs Mistress_Dea wrote: 562-470-768. No I do not offer my slave any love. If my slave chose to stop worshipping me or chose to leave, whether for someone else or not, that would be its free choice. I would miss the service and the pleasure I get from using it but would simply start to seek a new slave and I assure you I regularly get requests to become my slave. I am sure many of them are fantacists but there are some who are genuine. That's not a surprise (re: requests) the sort of relationship you have with your slave would appear to be fairly rare, and whilst intimidating is also enticing. I envy your slave. 14 Feb 10, 9:56 AM noyeh_JtS_fg 6 yrs My Master and I were Master and slave long before we were Husband and wife. I came to be his slave February 19th 2006. Even now we are approaching our 4th year as Master and slave and we have not been Man and wife a year yet. We got together never planning on love or marriage. It was not even a distant hope. Far as we both were concerned he would never love me and I would be his slave without marriage. Then all of a sudden December 25 2008 he decided he would take me as his wife. There was no proposal. He simply said, "girl we are getting married." And it came to pass. Even now as his wife I am his slave first. Always and forever. The only difference is I am his acclaimed love slave! And he my Love Master. personal slave of Master Jeff the Seeker of Truth His property slave slut and whore Owned and Operated by Master Jeff the Seeker of Truth first girl of the House of the Seeker of Truth noyeh-JtS-fg 24 Feb 10, 11:21 AM diaperboy99 US(WI), 2 yrs slavegail wrote: at the time my Master found me i was working in a private bondage sex club. he made me an offer to become slave to him and Patner(Mistress) from the start i was told there would never be any romantic feeling in the relationship and i would be nothing more than a slave. domestically and sexually to both of them that was 6 years ago so for me Owners come first love romance would spoil the relationship. I can relate to this. My first M/s relationship developed from being purely M/s into a romantic thing and this ruined it as He lost His desire to control me to the same degree, and we ended up breaking up over it. I am now looking for a purely Master/slave situation where there is definitely no romantic connection, in fact I would prefer my Master to be partnered already. 25 Feb 10, 8:25 PM 324-637-811 US(AL), 2 yrs Master has always lived in the M/s lifestyle. W/we were romantically involved first, as i never knew that this life existed. Even so, He was always the Dom and i the sub. It's the way W/we have always been. W/we have been together for a blissful, almost magical 2 yrs. Master has found His slave, and i, ever willingly, have found my Master. i can't lie that it was frightening at first, to know only bleak details (as we all know that you hear the "negative" side of things first), but after a lot of reading and research, i have found that i am right where i belong- His property. i have been collared and will be branded and tattooed, soon. my training has been mental and emotional thus far, and some physical. That, Master says, is coming very soon. He is molding me to His image. i am still who i was before, but "merged" with what He is creating in me. i wish only to be His perfect slave for the remainder of this life. As for the romantic aspect of our relationship, it's still very alive in U/us, a part of U/us, molded with O/our 24/7 lifestyle. 26 Feb 10, 11:27 AM Blissful_Deviant AU, 2 yrs We were 100% M/s to start off with. There was always a bit of friendship, but there was never any sort of relationship until, actually, years after we began things. I think we only kissed on the lips for the first time in 2008 lol The relationship stuff evolved through the M/s dynamic in a way that we are both comfortable with - generally, neither of us seem to be able to sustain relationships but we fit together and work well. Next page