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	TSR : Web boards : Internal Enslavement : "Are you romantic partners first? or M/s first?" 1 2 3 4 5 Are you romantic partners first? or M/s first? (46) This post is on the Internal Enslavement web board. 20 Dec 09, 3:41 AM Umbramajoris_01 US(AL), 2 yrs Y! I had a slave that when we first met she wasn't sure about getting back into BDSM. She had been Vanilla for some time and wasn't sure if she could handle being a painslut for anyone. (I am not a total pain giving Master, I do like the sensual side too.)I collared her a month later and we went through it all. She finally decided she was too vanilla again after 4 years? (Still makes me wonder...) But I had fallen in love with her too, wanted to get married, alas it wasn't meant to be either way/way. I find that I don't know if I could love anyone ever again vanilla, when I have been so deep into someone in BDSM. So I guess from now on, M/s first. Umbramajoris Edited 20 Dec 09, 3:42 AM by Umbramajoris_01 20 Dec 09, 9:12 AM Mistress_Dea UK, 3 yrs I was a professional Domanatrix for several years and when I decided on a career change one of my regular clients begged to be able to become my full time slave. After much discusssion it was agreed and it moved in as a 24/7 slave. There was never a relationship between us other than slave and Mistress. The arrangement suited us both and worked well for a few years when unfortunately it became very ill and died. I have since been very lucky to find a replacement slave via these boards and it is now well trained and an excellent slave. There is again no emotional or vanilla relationship between us at all. 20 Dec 09, 3:06 PM fireflies US(TX), 4 yrs my Master and i started out vanilla but He definitetly took control of my life as we dated. i had never thought of a M/s relationship and lead a very sheltered and limited male sexual partner life! By our second date He told me that He was going to shave my cunt bald because that is what He liked and within 3-4 weeks my navel was pierced, because that is what He wanted for me. i found that i liked His control over me and the way he ruled the roost when we were together. i was falling for Him while He was teaching me how He liked to be pleasured and how i could best do that for Him. He pleasured me like no man had ever done before and with Him i became multi-orgasmic. His love and sexual skills allowed me to trust the direction He was taking my life. Eventually He started my O control training and then having me pierced again where He liked. i found that i loved the attention He was paying to my body and me as i just sort of became His sub/slave along the way, giving myself to Him. We eventually were married and i was collared a little later, so i guess to answer the original question..., we had a 1/2 (me) vanilla relationship which gradually became Master/slave in the course of our meeting, dating and eventual marriage. We are 100% M/s today, very much in love and stonger as a couple than ever! i would not have it any other way!!! i am my Master's tattooed and pierced slave. i am His, He owns ALL of me, i do everything i can everyday to please Him. 20 Dec 09, 3:50 PM slavegail UK, 6 yrs Y! at the time my Master found me i was working in a private bondage sex club. he made me an offer to become slave to him and Patner(Mistress) from the start i was told there would never be any romantic feeling in the relationship and i would be nothing more than a slave. domestically and sexually to both of them that was 6 years ago so for me Owners come first love romance would spoil the relationship. slavegail Property of NG1 21 Dec 09, 9:57 PM 000-671-955 CA, 7 yrs Y! joescunt wrote: my Master and i started out vanilla but He definitetly took control of my life as we dated. i had never thought of a M/s relationship and lead a very sheltered and limited male sexual partner life! By our second date He told me that He was going to shave my cunt bald because that is what He liked and within 3-4 weeks my navel was pierced, because that is what He wanted for me. i found that i liked His control over me and the way he ruled the roost when we were together. i was falling for Him while He was teaching me how He liked to be pleasured and how i could best do that for Him. He pleasured me like no man had ever done before and with Him i became multi-orgasmic. His love and sexual skills allowed me to trust the direction He was taking my life. Eventually He started my O control training and then having me pierced again where He liked. i found that i loved the attention He was paying to my body and me as i just sort of became His sub/slave along the way, giving myself to Him. We eventually were married and i was collared a little later, so i guess to answer the original question..., we had a 1/2 (me) vanilla relationship which gradually became Master/slave in the course of our meeting, dating and eventual marriage. We are 100% M/s today, very much in love and stonger as a couple than ever! i would not have it any other way!!! Your getting together sounds slightly similar to mine, we had been dating for some time, and our sexual scenes were something that i had not ever done before. Master was patient in doing and showing me things, that i realize now that He knew were within me, but i wasn't sure how to approach the subject. We continued for a few years, and eventually got married, and even then Master used the slow and firm approach, as well as educating me on the Lifestyle that He said we would be using throught our marriage. i did have a little nervousness and reservation, but with Master's help and knowledge, i cannot see myself living in any other Style, so that is my story as of entering into Master's service. Master's "o" 671955 27 Dec 09, 5:19 AM lilslave 2 yrs Master and i were friends first. I had been with a "dom" who was far from what i needed who had little interest in training me to be what i am now. After a couple of months i went to my friend (now Master) and asked for advice on what to do... He gave me alot of options and great advice. A couple of weeks later i asked Him if He and i could do a scene so that i could see what it was that i felt i was missing. That day i realized exactly what i needed to do so that i could live up to my potential as a slave. Since that day he has taught me so much about myself and while yes i am in all things HIS slave i love him with all that i am. So for me i think it was that with the M/s came love. 28 Dec 09, 1:22 AM SirJames1959 UK, 2 yrs Y! Romantic first, then the rest happens Slave 391-682-776 belongs to me, I am totally responsible for her well-being 2 Jan 10, 1:06 AM 248-007-363 US(CA), 2 yrs Y! I was and am property first and foremost. Romance hasn't been a part of this, not in the hearts and flowers kind of way, but after eight years of wearing his collar I believe he is fond of me. rachelle 2 Jan 10, 5:15 PM 316-455-508 US(WI), 2 yrs Y! my name is 011269 ,i have never been collared before . My Masters name is SIR Master David Harris. 011269 has been collered and owned since the 30th of december of 2009. 011269 lives in the upper mid west of the usa , My Sir Master lives in the out back of australia or perth. 011269 knows My Master is a whole world away , we have not yet even seen one another except in the pics 011269 must show each day of his shit in the cold snow, 011269s master is the best master in the whole world . My master has made me do things in three days that make me proud to be his piece of shit . My master is very skilled in this art. my Master keeps me so close but we are so far away but my master who is my god now and 011269 kneels aprays to my master 5 or 6 times daily , on my knees out loud if need be . 011269s rules are a lot right now but 011269 has made him so proud to now own me, in htree days i know how greatful 011269 is to have him to shit for and eat if i must. 3 Jan 10, 3:45 AM 996-150-083 4 yrs In terms of timeline, there was a romantic relationship first. it was then given an ultimatum to become owned property and hence the M/s relationship is now paramount. 996-150-083 - Slave and owned property of Mistress Tamara. it exists only to worship and obey it's Owner, Mistress Tamara. Severe discipline is a necessary part of it's slave training - both daily maintenance discipline as well as corrective discipline. Next page