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TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Types of collars and O&P"

Types of collars and O&P (7)

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Sat 5 Dec 09, 6:43 PM
Zarabeth
UK, 2 yrs
Y!*
I have noticed with interest that some Dominants in O&P relationships have more than one type of collar: for example a personal collar and a household collar, or a permanent collar and a day / guest collar. This tends to (but need not only) occur in poly households.

Although the intentions of the different collars may be divergent, this kind of set-up can still embody many of the keywords of O&P - in particular House, Rituals, and Structure.

I am interested in hearing about others' experiences with this. Do you have more than one type of collar in your household, or have you been in a household that has more than one? How did it work in practice?

Kind regards,

Zarabeth
"Every day is another chance to turn it all around."

5 Dec 09, 7:38 PM
TunaBug
US(CA), 2 yrs
This neko has two collars a metal one (that causes weakness and nausea) and a black leather dog collar. Pretty soon neko will have a permanent collar. :D

I wait day by day for my Death and when He arrives I will welcome Him with open arms. [IN NOMINE DEI NOSTRE SATANAS EXCELSI!]

6 Dec 09, 8:15 AM
Malkinius
US(IL), 5 yrs
Greetings neko....

The OP wasn't talking about physical collars but was talking about types or levels of ownership.

Be well....

Malkinius

6 Dec 09, 8:22 AM
Malkinius
US(IL), 5 yrs
Greetings Zarabeth....

I use a training collar, a house collar and a personal collar.

The training collar is for just that...training. I don't claim ownership, just control. That control can be over just a few hours or days or up to a year at a time for a formal training relationship.

The house collar is what I use with any new slave I own. Also it can be for one who is being trained which includes ownership that can last an indefinite period and they live with or very close to me.

My personal collar is reserved for someone living with me whom I have had in a house collar for at least a year and whom I plan on not releasing for the foreseeable future. And of course...the one slave I put in a personal collar ends up falling in love with someone else and I stood in for her father at their wedding. I also transfered her to her new husband after the reception that night. <grins> As they say, feces occureth.

Be well.....

Malkinius

9 Dec 09, 10:47 AM
windcallersspirit
US(KY), 2 yrs
as of now i am wearing a consideration collar but my master has ordered my perminate collar and it will be here in about a week. At that time we will say our own little ritual and acceptence of one anothere as Master and slave. This will be my house collar and all collars rolled into one. The one i wear now can be worn out and attract very little attention, black leather diamond studded,but we did get some knowing looks in the returant and mall, which by the way made me very proud that they knew i was with my Master, owner and love.......... I have been losing sleep because i am so excited and i cant wait for it to arrive and to have it put on and locked into place by my Master, and trust me on that day every one will know, best wishs to all.

slave spirit

My heart and soul are like the universe, vase and unexplored.....

15 Dec 09, 6:24 PM
825-768-571
US, 4 yrs
windcallersspirit wrote:
as of now i am wearing a consideration collar but my master has ordered my perminate collar and it will be here in about a week. At that time we will say our own little ritual and acceptence of one anothere as Master and slave. This will be my house collar and all collars rolled into one. The one i wear now can be worn out and attract very little attention, black leather diamond studded,but we did get some knowing looks in the returant and mall, which by the way made me very proud that they knew i was with my Master, owner and love.......... I h The Slave Register

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TSR : Web boards : O&P : "Types of collars and O&P"

Types of collars and O&P (5) Sat 5 Dec 09, 6:43 PM Zarabeth UK, 2 mths Y! I have noticed with interest that some Dominants in O&P relationships have more than one type of collar: for example a personal collar and a household collar, or a permanent collar and a day / guest collar. This tends to (but need not only) occur in poly households. Although the intentions of the different collars may be divergent, this kind of set-up can still embody many of the keywords of O&P - in particular House, Rituals, and Structure.

I am interested in hearing about others' experiences with this. Do you have more than one type of collar in your household, or have you been in a household that has more than one? How did it work in practice?

Kind regards,

Zarabeth "Every day is another chance to turn it all around."

5 Dec 09, 7:38 PM HarukosNeko US(CA), 2 mths This neko has two collars a metal one (that causes weakness and nausea) and a black leather dog collar. Pretty soon neko will have a permanent collar. :D I wait day by day for my Death and when He arrives I will welcome Him with open arms. [IN NOMINE DEI NOSTRE SATANAS EXCELSI!]

6 Dec 09, 8:15 AM Malkinius US(IL), 3 yrs Greetings neko.... The OP wasn't talking about physical collars but was talking about types or levels of ownership.

Be well....

Malkinius

6 Dec 09, 8:22 AM Malkinius US(IL), 3 yrs Greetings Zarabeth.... I use a training collar, a house collar and a personal collar.

The training collar is for just that...training. I don't claim ownership, just control. That control can be over just a few hours or days or up to a year at a time for a formal training relationship.

The house collar is what I use with any new slave I own. Also it can be for one who is being trained which includes ownership that can last an indefinite period and they live with or very close to me.

My personal collar is reserved for someone living with me whom I have had in a house collar for at least a year and whom I plan on not releasing for the foreseeable future. And of course...the one slave I put in a personal collar ends up falling in love with someone else and I stood in for her father at their wedding. I also transfered her to her new husband after the reception that night. <grins> As they say, feces occureth.

Be well.....

Malkinius

9 Dec 09, 10:47 AM windcallersspirit US(OH), 19 days Y! as of now i am wearing a consideration collar but my master has ordered my perminate collar and it will be here in about a week. At that time we will say our own little ritual and acceptence of one anothere as Master and slave. This will be my house collar and all collars rolled into one. The one i wear now can be worn out and attract very little attention, black leather diamond studded,but we did get some knowing looks in the returant and mall, which by the way made me very proud that they knew i was with my Master, owner and love.......... I have been losing sleep because i am so excited and i cant wait for it to arrive and to have it put on and locked into place by my Master, and trust me on that day every one will know, best wishs to all. slave spirit

My heart and soul are like the universe, vase and unexplored.....

15 Dec 09, 6:21 PM 825-768-571 US, 2 yrs windcallersspirit wrote: as of now i am wearing a consideration collar but my master has ordered my perminate collar and it will be here in about a week. At that time we will say our own little ritual and acceptence of one anothere as Master and slave. This will be my house collar and all collars rolled into one. The one i wear now can be worn out and attract very little attention, black leather diamond studded,but we did get some knowing looks in the returant and mall, which by the way made me very proud that they knew i was with my Master, owner and love.......... I have been losing sleep because i am so excited and i cant wait for it to arrive and to have it put on and locked into place by my Master, and trust me on that day every one will know, best wishs to all. slave spirit i read Your post and when i saw "excited " and lost sleep i felt a pang , and with Masters blessings and knowledge i would like to comment .

a few months ago Master surprised me with a ceremony and collar that brought tears to my eyes. it is my everyday collar , a pretty piece , leather and some studs . i wear it to work , and out , with or without my Master . rarely do i take it off , and i welcome questions , i am so so proud to be His , i have no problems with anyone asking me anything .

some comment on the fashion , and like it for that reason, and some REALLY get it , but either way , its beautiful because Master put it there .

last week Master collared and leashed me in public , and i am equally at ease with a "dog " type collar , its not the style of collar , its the ownership that matters , and the Owner .

take care friends

the tighter the ropes , the softer the kiss ...

2 Jan 10, 10:04 PM
186-306-559
US(NC), 2 yrs
I have more than one collar. First there is the collar that I wear during my training sessions with Master. The collar that I wear 24/7 is a simple dog chain type collar with a heart locket. Even when I wear my training collar, I put it on over top of my chain collar. Master also gave me a collar with more of a vanilla look to it to wear to work and those places where I need to be a bit more discreet. It is very dainty and elegant looking. I am soon to have my official collaring ceremony, and Master had a beautiful collar especially handmade for me for the occasion. This collar will take the place of my original leather training collar and it will also symbolize our commitment to one another.

marigolde wrote:
Types of collars and O&P

I have noticed with interest that some Dominants in O&P relationships have more than one type of collar: for example a personal collar and a household collar, or a permanent collar and a day / guest collar. This tends to (but need not only) occur in poly households.

Although the intentions of the different collars may be divergent, this kind of set-up can still embody many of the keywords of O&P - in particular House, Rituals, and Structure.

I am interested in hearing about others' experiences with this. Do you have more than one type of collar in your household, or have you been in a household that has more than one? How did it work in practice?

Kind regards,

6 Jan 10, 4:13 AM
slavemichelle
AU, 6 yrs
We have 4 collars in our house, protection, consideration, training and full or permanent. Currently, i have permanent and Master has another under protection.

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