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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "sex" 1 2 sex (15) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Wed 28 Oct 09, 2:50 AM 741-498-880 4 yrs how many women here besides me hate "making love" and "soft romance"...? My idea of sex is being pinned down, used, dominated. I can't even cum with out him acting aggressive or dominant towards me. I am very sexually submissive and always need an aspect of male authority in the bedroom to turn me on. I prefer being seen as a sex object and used rough and hard. I enjoy being humiliated and degraded, I even like pain during sex, I like being trapped and confined, blind folded, unable to escape as he uses me... yummm... ;o Making love, soft touches, romantic stuff will put me straight to sleep, it doesn't do anything for my sex drive and will frustrate me and make me cranky... i've had to ask past boyfriends to hurt me, and i've had to ask them to be rough with me promising them they wouldn't break me.... Master is the only one who's really understood and not felt offended, bad, or weird by my need to be sexually dominated even in little ways to stay aroused. spank me, pull my hair, bite me, grip me nice and tight, grab my throat, pin me down.... talk dirty to me, these are all the things that get my juices flowing every time. What about you? what gets you going? do enjoy rough sex? is sex a huge important part of your relationship? why or why not? 28 Oct 09, 4:00 AM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs I like both, at different times. Some days I want it to be rougher. When I'm having a really difficult day or a bad run of stress, it almost HAS to be soft - anything rough will just put me over the edge and I'll spend hours crying. We're engaged to be married, so while sex isn't the ONLY thing in our relationship, it is pretty important. His Beloved Owned and loved by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. Edited 28 Oct 09, 4:01 AM by slave_of_The_Tesh 28 Oct 09, 4:40 AM 139-715-032 US(MA), 6 yrs I can get into sweet romantic sex every once in a rare while. (Really rare. Twice a year would be a lot.) But generally, nope, not my thing. I think of the sex Raven and I have as pretty much "vanilla" sex - we do a little SM once a month, but not routinely. But when I say this to Raven he laughs at me. Our "vanilla" sex is pretty rough. I used to really be averse to sweet romantic stuff. Years ago I played with a top who liked to give me a hard time in scenes and would taunt me about using a safeword. (This was all in fun.) When I'd be getting near the end of what I could take, he'd say, "Oh, you're probably done. You don't like this rough stuff anyway. What you want is some sweet lesbian lovin'. Come on, tell me you want sweet lovin'!" The safeword he'd give me was usually "hold me" or "caress me" some squishy romantic thing. He was a character. -- Joshua Raven's Boy, Joshua, is a wholly owned subsidiary of Raven Kaldera. You may contact Joshua directly with any questions or comments at josh@cauldronfarm.com, or contact Raven at cauldronfarm@hotmail.com. 28 Oct 09, 4:55 AM moebius_slave US(LA), 3 yrs jakesemma wrote: sex What about you? what gets you going? do enjoy rough sex? is sex a huge important part of your relationship? why or why not? hm, i guess if i was a 'twue slave' i should say with that blank look on my face 'whatever Master likes' but honestly....im a person with real feelings, likes, and dislikes and he knows...sometimes better than me! my first thought is to say that it depends on my mood, sometimes when im feeling down or having a bad day i think that i want it all soft and sweet and romantic....and at those times, thats usually how it starts out....then thankfully it escalates into Him taking me and just using me until i can't think and everything just goes away and its just Him and me and love, and physical sensations. the longer it goes on, the more i love it, but at around the time i hit that place where i can't even think for myself, i catch myself...er....rather he catches me scooting away or trying to turn over and at that point i get pinned down which is the loveliest feeling ever for me. rough sex...i know what i consider rough would be a swat with a feather for some people, i suppose i am middle of the road for what i like and what i can physically handle just due to some physical ailments along with M not wanting to hurt me. he would much rather give me what i can handle and be able to play continuously over time, instead of giving me too much and having me out of commission for any length of time. is sex a big part of our relationship? you bet your bippy it is!!! its not ALL of our relationship...but its an important part of it, M and i are completely in love. we love the physical part of our relationship as much as the mental and heart parts of who we are. The devil came to me last night and asked what I wanted in exchange for my soul. I still can't believe I said pizza. Friggin' cravings. Edited 28 Oct 09, 4:57 AM by moebius_slave 28 Oct 09, 4:58 AM moebius_slave US(LA), 3 yrs 139-715-032 wrote: The safeword he'd give me was usually "hold me" or "caress me" some squishy romantic thing. He was a character. -- Joshua lol, too funny! The devil came to me last night and asked what I wanted in exchange for my soul. I still can't believe I said pizza. Friggin' cravings. 28 Oct 09, 8:12 AM 634-300-474 UK, 2 yrs i hope a male slave's views are ok as well..... i find that a soft touch from my Owner during a session can be very arousing and very sexual,but to be honest,i do need to be restrained,then spanked,caned and whipped to get near to orgasm. Even before being owned,and when i was leading a mostly vanilla lifestyle,sex was much better if i was underneath the lady concerned,at her mercy so to speak,and asking permission to cum. Now,i'm denied sex,but allowed to cum a set number of times each year,and the denial and eventual orgasm can be very intense,more so again after being treated as her plaything,and serving her fully first. Having savoured that,i wouldn't have it any other way! Mistress Melanie's property. Edited 28 Oct 09, 8:13 AM by 634-300-474 28 Oct 09, 4:52 PM 902-660-194 US(PA), 6 yrs 634-300-474 wrote: i hope a male slave's views are ok as well..... since Joshua replied before you, i think you're safe :D as for me,, i hate the romantic crap. i beg Him for no foreplay, just to take me. soft & slow love makin bores me & i find my mind wondering. ~peace the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession.. 28 Oct 09, 4:56 PM 672-394-817 FI, 2 yrs Hello and greetings from Finland! I, too, love rough sex and enjoy being totally at my Lady's mercy. I also like my hair being pulled, hands and legs cuffed and so on. As a masochist I need a good spanking regularly , but after that I like tenderness and hugs. My Lady sometimes wants vanilla-type sex ,too, but also then She is cotrolling and dominating me. Sex is important and it is the most creative part of our relationship. Still, for me the most important thing is to be Her slave and serve Her as well as I can. slave Anelma 28 Oct 09, 5:42 PM ravenkaldera US(MA), 6 yrs When we have slow romantic sex (rarely) it's because I'm too ill for anything else. On the other hand, we rarely have "scenes", as it were. The house is too small and there are too many people in it; no privacy and no room. And we're very busy and I'm tired a lot. But as Joshua said, our "vanilla sex" is usually rough and always has a power dynamic going on, whether it's Joshua serving and "doing" me, or me doing to him what I feel like doing to him. -Raven Kaldera -If you're in charge, it's all on your head. If it's not all on your head, then you're not really in charge. 28 Oct 09, 6:52 PM 946-002-882 NO, 2 yrs Raven's use of the words "power dynamic" rings true for the relationship we got going on here as well. I think I can count on one hand the number of times we've made "soft sweet love". *giggles* 28 Oct 09, 10:15 PM 650-736-585 GR, 2 yrs Greetings to all, I'm a bit in the same path with you, although, sometimes, depends really, I enjoy some soft sex... But I guess the key is the mood and the partner (currently I'm not in any type of relationship). But so far, vanilla or not, I've come close to believe that I too like to be (ab-)used as a sex object. And I do feel happy after it. Makes me feel sure that I, from my side, did anything possible in order to please my partner/Dom. Spankings, bad words, hair, hands around the neck, or my hands grabbed behind my back while being rammed... All those intensify my horniness immensely... But alas... so far, even asking something light makes them give me the "look": "Boy! What's wrong with you?" *sighs* • I humbly ask for your tolerance and forgiveness to my ignorance. Next page