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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Breaking of a slave" 1 2 3 Breaking of a slave (27) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Fri 16 Oct 09, 5:41 AM Master_Eric2271 US(RI), 3 yrs Y! Below is something I read recently and I wonder what opinions others have on the subject. I'd appreciate feedback anyone has. To be “broken”...not a bad thing really. In order to be “broken” you have to really trust the one who is trying to take you there. To “break “ someone I am referring to breaking of one's spirit in order to build it back as He deems appropriate or necessary for training and growth. However, one's spirit is usually highly guarded and hard to reach. True breaking of ones spirit can only happen when one fully submits to another's control, to another's authority. For some this requires giving up of something they hold dear or necessary. For others, having to give up certain pleasures or privileges is enough to break them. However, for some it is quite a bit more difficult, even if they really want to be broken, to the very core of their being. Some are already submissive and freely giving of most things, with very few exceptions. For some to be made to feel certain emotions, and be forced to show them, this is too much and will often break them. For some, they can handle moderate amounts of pain and never shout or shed a tear; they use their mind to control their initial impulses. But…this talking of being broken, well, it is different for this type of person. For instance , something such as a true otk spanking and being made to take it and take it , as the giver increases the velocity and the quantity while using different implements and holding the person in place is well, very humbling as well. This is when the pain and the heat soon become unmanageable and the receiver is forced to give into the giver and forced to give into the pain and accept that things are no longer in their control. They are forced into a space in their minds that can be a very frightening place, a place where they are no longer in control of their impulse reactions. They get confused by the adrenaline, the pain, and the thoughts racing around in their mind. They begin to move from body and mind to spirit and they must give in. It is no longer a choice; it is no longer their decision. They agreed before the play or scene began that this point may come and no safe words would be used. This is trust in its most sacred form, in my humble opinion. It is at this point that they allow the “One” they trust so very much, to see them at their most vulnerable state and it is at this point that tears freely flow and words come out trying to fight it as they can no longer be hold it in . It is at this crucial point that things must continue and progress until the receiving one has completely given in and the cries die down and they are no longer aware of how they look, what they sound like, or even where they are. They are simply in a space in their minds that few can ever experience. They have given in to another and they are truly and indisputably “broken”. There is a release in knowing one can let go. There is then an openness that was not there before and a willingness to try, to comply, to do nearly anything the One they trust would ask of them. This usually creates a new point in the relationship or a new direction in the relationship, deeper... stronger than before. 22 Oct 09, 11:42 PM darlenemarie1965 US(OK), 4 yrs very good i learned from it thank you for sharing . Ddonslave 587-663-411 31 Oct 09, 6:35 AM Master_Eric2271 US(RI), 3 yrs Y! Ddonslave wrote: very good i learned from it thank you for sharing . You're very welcome. Master Eric(Owner of slave tesla) 31 Oct 09, 7:09 AM Vickie US(WI), 7 yrs Y! Thank you. I also learned from it and will be looking for these qualities when I look for a master. 31 Oct 09, 9:34 AM Sklavos_mou_Kyriah 3 yrs Master_Eric2271 wrote: Breaking of a slave Below is something I read recently and I wonder what opinions others have on the subject. I'd appreciate feedback anyone has. To be “broken”...not a bad thing really. In order to be “broken” you have to really trust the one who is trying to take you there. However, for some it is quite a bit more difficult, even if they really want to be broken, to the very core of their being. Some are already submissive and freely giving of most things, with very few exceptions. There is a release in knowing one can let go. There is then an openness that was not there before and a willingness to try, to comply, to do nearly anything the One they trust would ask of them. This usually creates a new point in the relationship or a new direction in the relationship, deeper... stronger than before. Very interesting thread this. I have snipped quite a large chunk as I am not really qualified to comment on those aspects. However I agree with, "Some are already submissive and freely giving of most things, with very few exceptions." I already fall into that category and being My Lady's slave fulfills me. My Lady only asks obedience and service of me and of course, loyalty. My Lady tells me she sees no point in pushing a willing slave to their breaking point if they are already as she needs them. I think there is a release in "knowing one can let go" But so far I have not been taken there. For now.... To be a true slave is to be truly free Sklavos 31 Oct 09, 1:30 PM 957-909-675 US(PA), 3 yrs girl offers greetings Master, she really liked this article and did learn from it too. her Master told her that she came to Him already broken, but that there is more than one kind of that 'breaking' that is done to people. there is the breaking of heart and spirit completely (girl was taught that it can make someone submissive if it is done early enough) and then there is the breaking of an Owner to their property. that can be more of a sacred breaking to bring T/them in a closer relationship and a more permanent bond. slave offers her words with deep respect & offers well wishes ~*~ Master Xamp's little squirrel ~*~ 'What are you?' I inquired. 'A slave girl,' she said. 'What is your duty?' I asked. 'Absolute obedience,' she cried out." Hunters of Gor, page 258 8 Nov 09, 4:11 PM Master_Eric2271 US(RI), 3 yrs Y! Vickie wrote: Thank you. I also learned from it and will be looking for these qualities when I look for a master. You're also very welcome Vickie. It seems you found a Master rather quickly after your post. I hope it helped. Congratulations and good luck with your new position. Master Eric(Owner of slave tesla) 8 Nov 09, 4:14 PM Master_Eric2271 US(RI), 3 yrs Y! Sklavos_mou_Kyriah wrote: Master_Eric2271 wrote: Breaking of a slave Below is something I read recently and I wonder what opinions others have on the subject. I'd appreciate feedback anyone has. To be “broken”...not a bad thing really. In order to be “broken” you have to really trust the one who is trying to take you there. However, for some it is quite a bit more difficult, even if they really want to be broken, to the very core of their being. Some are already submissive and freely giving of most things, with very few exceptions. There is a release in knowing one can let go. There is then an openness that was not there before and a willingness to try, to comply, to do nearly anything the One they trust would ask of them. This usually creates a new point in the relationship or a new direction in the relationship, deeper... stronger than before. Very interesting thread this. I have snipped quite a large chunk as I am not really qualified to comment on those aspects. However I agree with, "Some are already submissive and freely giving of most things, with very few exceptions." I already fall into that category and being My Lady's slave fulfills me. My Lady only asks obedience and service of me and of course, loyalty. My Lady tells me she sees no point in pushing a willing slave to their breaking point if they are already as she needs them. I think there is a release in "knowing one can let go" But so far I have not been taken there. For now.... Glad you liked it. Master Eric(Owner of slave tesla) 8 Nov 09, 4:30 PM Master_Eric2271 US(RI), 3 yrs Y! 957-909-675 wrote: girl offers greetings Master, she really liked this article and did learn from it too. her Master told her that she came to Him already broken, but that there is more than one kind of that 'breaking' that is done to people. there is the breaking of heart and spirit completely (girl was taught that it can make someone submissive if it is done early enough) and then there is the breaking of an Owner to their property. that can be more of a sacred breaking to bring T/them in a closer relationship and a more permanent bond. slave offers her words with deep respect & offers well wishes ~*~ Master Xamp's little squirrel ~*~ Greetings girl, I'm pleased you liked it and that you learned from it. I would agree with your Master's explanation. I appreciate slave's respect and her well wishes. I offer her & her Master the same. girl is quite respectful and He should be proud of her. Be well. Master Eric(Owner of slave tesla) 8 Nov 09, 11:41 PM socair UK, 3 yrs Master_Eric2271 wrote: Breaking of a slave Below is something I read recently and I wonder what opinions others have on the subject. I'd appreciate feedback anyone has. That sounds more like facilitating surrender than breaking the spirit, although maybe that's just semantics. My apologies if this offend anyone, it isn't meant to. But the whole concept of breaking someone's spirit doesn't sit well. Push? Mould? Encourage? Force? Challenge? Stretch? Temporarily “destroy”. Yes to all, except break. There's no suggestion of damage in your quote, so maybe we're saying the same thing in different words anyway 13 Nov 09, 9:53 AM Master_Sensei FR, 5 yrs I feel that sort of "breaking" absolutely relevant and fair. IMHO I think that there is no need of damage except the "damage" done to the old self of the slave that is forced to vanished recognising its useless means of being. In those circumstances, the slave is born to herself at last... The question is do you think that "breaking" needs to be lived regularly to be kept in shape ? thanks for this that is very close to what I feel about it. Sensei Next page