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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "What is the quickest way to get you to submit?" 1 2 3 4 What is the quickest way to get you to submit? (35) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 16 Jul 09, 5:21 PM tink838 US(NJ), 2 yrs I'm very submissive by nature, but I'm not always 100% in a sub mood all of the time. Who is? If I'm being bratty, we have recently discovered that a swift slap on the cheek brings me back to my place. It's as sweet as a kiss and it makes me want to be my very best. What works for you? D/O/Ms - I like hearing your side as well. L 16 Jul 09, 11:16 PM MasterPJ UK, 3 yrs for my nika there are a couple of things that "bring her to her subspace"... the first, and I think the quickest, is when I hold her throat and squeeze gently, although to be fair, this has now got to the point where just touching her neck with an open hand sends her immediately into submission... she, quite unexpectedly for both of us, has a real passion for breath play, including we have recently discovered, being tied up and fucked under water!! the second way is grabbing her hair at the back of her head and pulling her head back... you can see her entire body suddenly go limp when I do this, she LOVES it! the third way she responds is with swift sharp wording, such as "shut the fuck up slut!". Again, quite a quick reaction to that one. For super effect, grabbing her throat, squeezing quite hard, while pulling her hair back and talking harshly to her all at the same time.... well, she just melts into a big puddle of goo!!! Owner of nika. She is mine and I love her dearly. 17 Jul 09, 1:43 AM SirSeven 3 yrs I have many ways to signal my girl when she is out of line. Some are very subtle, others not so subtle. 99% of the time all she needs is a look or certain tone of voice to bring her back to her submissive state. For the other 1% of the time when she needs a more "hands on" approach, I grasp her firmly by the arm or by the back of the neck, and she snaps into her "attention" position as she has been trained to do; legs spread shoulder-width apart, arms crossed behind her back, eyes forward, mouth closed. She will remain in this position until I give her the release command. Sometimes I leave her in this position for a while if I feel she needs some quiet time to think about her behavior. Sir Seven 17 Jul 09, 1:35 PM tink838 US(NJ), 2 yrs Hands on the neck work for me as well ::sigh:: 19 Jul 09, 2:13 AM DolcettGirl US(FL), 2 yrs tink838 wrote: Hands on the neck work for me as well ::sigh:: Hands around my neck is how I first experienced a feeling of helplessness and submission. My husband-to-be wrapped his hand around my neck and pulled me close while I was on my knees before him. It surprised me and then sent me into a world of fear and excitement. 19 Jul 09, 4:57 PM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs It depends on why I'm not there. If it's just that I don't feel like it, Master usually corrects it by pulling my head back by my hair and planting either a very rough kiss on my lips or a hard bite on my neck. Works every time. If I'm in an emotional funk - take last week, for example, when I had a run of three days' worth of really bad situations and circumstances and I spent nearly all of Friday crying - it's something more gentle, some kind of reminder that He'll take care of me. I get to feeling very insecure when I'm sad and rough treatment usually makes me worse. Owned by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. Edited 19 Jul 09, 4:58 PM by slave_of_The_Tesh 19 Jul 09, 8:53 PM thineown UK, 5 yrs Him using the words "what I would like...." or "I would love...", just makes me want to do whatever it is 20 Jul 09, 1:46 AM cushlah UK, 4 yrs Just a look or tone of voice can change the dynamics immediately where i just lower my eyes and obey without question. Also when He grabs me by the back of my hair He gets the same instant reaction. These actions from Him alter my mind frame and send a tingle through my body. He loves the power, the possession and submission and so do i. God grant me the SERENITY to accept the things i cannot change COURAGE to change the things i can and the WISDOM to know the difference 20 Jul 09, 10:12 AM 621-847-913 US(KY), 5 yrs Y! The quickest what to get me to submit is to remind me of my station. Words, actions, etc. They all seem to have the same affect. 22 Jul 09, 9:59 AM Lady_J US(CA), 2 yrs blackbeltcherry wrote: My relationship with my Dom is online, and we visit a chat room frequently, and if i get out of my mindframe he jerks on a virutal leash. cherry, I have an online boy, and I am wondering what a "virtual leash" is. I have never heard of this. Thanks, Lady J 22 Jul 09, 10:14 AM Ms_Valentine UK, 4 yrs Lady_J wrote: blackbeltcherry wrote: My relationship with my Dom is online, and we visit a chat room frequently, and if i get out of my mindframe he jerks on a virutal leash. cherry, I have an online boy, and I am wondering what a "virtual leash" is. I have never heard of this. Thanks, You will find that all online and LDR relationship stuff is catered for on it's own separate board under BDSM/ FETISH boards. Next page