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TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "A day in the life of" 1 2 3
A day in the life of (28)
This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board.
Fri 3 Jul 09, 1:09 PM Mistress_Dea UK, 3 yrs |
I often wonder how other's slaves serve them.
My slave's day starts when I wake and give it permission to unshackle itself from the foot of my bed. It brings me a cup of tea in bed and then prepares my bath at the temperature that I like. Whilst I bathe it lays out the clothes which I have chosen and starts to prepare my breakfast.
Whilst I eat it has a cold shower and then thoroughly cleans the bathroom and toilet. (It must thoroughly clean the toilet every time it is used whoever has used it, even when that is the slave of one of my friends.)
It may then have it's breakfast, eaten from it's bowl on it's mat in the kitchen, before thoroughly cleaning the kitchen. It must of course at any moment respond to any request from me for coffee, the newpaper, the post etc.
It must then change my bedding and do the laundry and ironing and clean the bedroom. The bedding must be crease free on the bed and therefore must be ironed in situ.
It must then carry out any other cleaning duties before preparing and serving my lunch. It may then have it's lunch on it's mat before cleaning the kitchen again.
At any time when my slave believes it has nothing to do it must present itself to me and will either be given a task or sent to it's mat.
From 3pm to 4pm every day is scrotum and anus stretching time. The slave will wear a pin lined parachute (fitted below the chastity device) normally weighted with 8 pounds weight. It will also stretch it's anus using larger and larger butt plugs. (it can currently easily accommodate the fat man in a barrel plug and is trying to stretch to the next size up.)
My slave will prepare and serve my evening meal and when I have finished will eat it's own meal on it's mat. The kitchen must again be thoroughly cleaned.
In the evening the slave may be sent to it's mat or may serve as my footstool or may be allowed to kneel at my feet.
At any time day or night the desire to inflict pain may overwhelm me and then whatever it is doing my slave will be sent to prepare whatever equipment I choose and must then kneel and await my arrival, so that I may use it to satisfy my sadistic needs.
What service do others expect or give?
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3 Jul 09, 1:51 PM Paper_of_the_Pen CA, 3 yrs 
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This just seemed like a weird attempt at erotica to me...
It seems unrealistic. Ie: neither of you seem to work. |
3 Jul 09, 2:35 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 4 yrs  |
Mistress_Dea wrote:
A day in the life of
I often wonder how other's slaves serve them.
My slave's day starts when I wake and give it permission to unshackle itself from the foot of my bed. It brings me a cup of tea in bed and then prepares my bath at the temperature that I like. Whilst I bathe it lays out the clothes which I have chosen and starts to prepare my breakfast.
Whilst I eat it has a cold shower and then thoroughly cleans the bathroom and toilet. (It must thoroughly clean the toilet every time it is used whoever has used it, even when that is the slave of one of my friends.)
It may then have it's breakfast, eaten from it's bowl on it's mat in the kitchen, before thoroughly cleaning the kitchen. It must of course at any moment respond to any request from me for coffee, the newpaper, the post etc.
It must then change my bedding and do the laundry and ironing and clean the bedroom. The bedding must be crease free on the bed and therefore must be ironed in situ.
It must then carry out any other cleaning duties before preparing and serving my lunch. It may then have it's lunch on it's mat before cleaning the kitchen again.
At any time when my slave believes it has nothing to do it must present itself to me and will either be given a task or sent to it's mat.
From 3pm to 4pm every day is scrotum and anus stretching time. The slave will wear a pin lined parachute (fitted below the chastity device) normally weighted with 8 pounds weight. It will also stretch it's anus using larger and larger butt plugs. (it can currently easily accommodate the fat man in a barrel plug and is trying to stretch to the next size up.)
My slave will prepare and serve my evening meal and when I have finished will eat it's own meal on it's mat. The kitchen must again be thoroughly cleaned.
In the evening the slave may be sent to it's mat or may serve as my footstool or may be allowed to kneel at my feet.
At any time day or night the desire to inflict pain may overwhelm me and then whatever it is doing my slave will be sent to prepare whatever equipment I choose and must then kneel and await my arrival, so that I may use it to satisfy my sadistic needs.
What service do others expect or give?
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Well each to their own, I suppose. My relationship with paul which is nowadays exactly like that of mistress/slave, although I do not use the word slave as I dislike it , is very very different to the life described in the OP.
P and I are in a romantically based D/s relationship and so we much more intimate, loving, friendly and less into protocol and ritual than Mistress Dea and her slave.
For a start apart from certain ritual and rules, every day with p and I is quite different. We do not do the same things every day. Whilst it may work and or very good reason with others, I would find my life too rule bound and stifling.
Paul and I both work and so cannot have a regime quite as strict and similar as Mistress Dea.
Paul serves me by going out to work and bringing him a good salary which then allows us to have the good life we lead.
Although paul makes my breakfast and two cups of tea every morning, he eats with me from normal crockery and we have no elaborate dressing/bathing rituals.
We often go out together and socialise as a couple in vanilla company or on the bdsm scene so although he has no rights in the relationship, our outward appearance is one of normality.
I also like to do my own housework as firstly I actually enjoy it and secondly so when pa comes home from work I can have fun with him and he is not stuck doing chores all the time. His company and conversation are extremely important to me and I never like him to be away from me when it is not necessary.
I read a book once by a Dutch Mistress about her life with a slave and I gave it a very bad review as it seemed it read like erotic fiction, not real life.
Whilst I am not suggesting what Mistress Dea has said is untrue, to me it is not the way I want to live my life. I like spontaneity, freedom and having such a rigid regime would make me feel as though I were a slave, a slave to my own inflexible regime. Edited 3 Jul 09, 2:36 PM by Ms_Valentine
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3 Jul 09, 7:05 PM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs 
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Omocha wrote:
This just seemed like a weird attempt at erotica to me...
It seems unrealistic. Ie: neither of you seem to work.
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I was thinking the same thing. Oh well, maybe one day Master too can be independently wealthy so we can both quit our jobs.
I will ask Master about buying some lottery tickets.
333-528-841
Edited 3 Jul 09, 7:07 PM by 333-528-841
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3 Jul 09, 7:35 PM masters_little_toy UK, 6 yrs 
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333-528-841 wrote:
Omocha wrote:
This just seemed like a weird attempt at erotica to me...
It seems unrealistic. Ie: neither of you seem to work.
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I was thinking the same thing. Oh well, maybe one day Master too can be independently wealthy so we can both quit our jobs.
I will ask Master about buying some lottery tickets.
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It's so far removed from my daily life, I share your thoughts on the lottery tickets.
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4 Jul 09, 7:57 PM tony72 UK, 3 yrs |
Mistress Dea,s slave is very fortunate to know a life of servitude to such a dominant superior. I enjoyed this glimpse into a normal day in the life and we should all be grateful that such a goddess feels benevolent enough to share this with us, and long may it continue |
5 Jul 09, 5:14 AM crystalredroze US(OH), 4 yrs Y!
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my day starts when Master wakes me either to let me know hes hungry for breakfast or that the dogs need to go out. W/we usually eat meals together at the table and of course throughout the day i'm to keep the house up and any other cleaning tasks need to be done. the biggest rule of the morning is that before i leave the house( if i need to that day) or as soon as breakfast is cleaned up after that the bed must be made. i deal with fixing all the meals and all the cleaning and of course and expected to stop whatever i'm doing if He needs anything. All in all W/we lead a fairy simple and free schedule. Neither of us have to work outside the home so there is alot of free time for us both. and i have to say that if one of us did work i'm not sure how our situation would work out.
As weird as this may sound but its odd writing this out, i'm so used to it that it just all seems so second nature to me. While our lifestyle is what brought us together and even though we do have the kink and all, in many ways we are more like the 50's style household. Master and i have discussed that and are both in agreement that its just how it works for U/us. |
5 Jul 09, 11:23 AM Mistress_Dea UK, 3 yrs |
I hadn't realised that my financial situation would be of such interest to some people. I didn't think it was relevant. I do have some independant income but also work at home as a writer - which made it even more embarrassing to receive a memo correcting my grammar in my original post!
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6 Jul 09, 3:44 AM 957-909-675 US(PA), 3 yrs 
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a little squirrel offers greeting to You, Mistress
this one also agrees with the O/others ... it would be wonderful to win the lottery to be able for my Master and i to have a relationship like that.
my Master has my cook the meals for him, and the house must be clean everyday before i can go out to do anything other than the absolute necessities (like work and graduate school)... she has to make sure everything is always to His likings, especially on the nights that He wont get home until very late
she offers well wishes
~*~lil Squirrel ~*~ 'What are you?' I inquired.
'A slave girl,' she said.
'What is your duty?' I asked.
'Absolute obedience,' she cried out."
Hunters of Gor, page 258
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6 Jul 09, 8:14 AM tony72 UK, 3 yrs |
i find it strange that everybody seems fixated on Mistress Dea,s financial situation, it is her business and she shouldnt have to explain herself to anybody in that regard. I find it natural that a dominant person as herself would extend that dominance out into the vanilla world, where she could make enough money to live comfortably. as i said earlier i enjoy all Mistress Dea,s posts and constantly find inspiration in her profile. |
6 Jul 09, 3:15 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 4 yrs  |
tony72 wrote:
i find it strange that everybody seems fixated on Mistress Dea,s financial situation, it is her business and she shouldnt have to explain herself to anybody in that regard. I find it natural that a dominant person as herself would extend that dominance out into the vanilla world, where she could make enough money to live comfortably. as i said earlier i enjoy all Mistress Dea,s posts and constantly find inspiration in her profile.
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You are the one who keeps on mentioning Mistress Dea's financial position now. It had only warranted a slight sideways mention by other posters and only then in relation to the relatively unusual situation of two people of working age apparently being at home all day and not working. Mistress Dea has explains she writes for a living and so that explains some of what seemed incongruous in her original posting.
Surely the matter is now finished.
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