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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "cheating Master" 1 2 3 4 5 cheating Master (48) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board (moved from Service). Sun 28 Jun 09, 1:07 PM 284-122-181 US(MO), 2 yrs Y! I am at a loss, my Master recently met this girl online and he really likes her alot and has recently started having cam sex with her and ignores me completely and doesn't want me online when he is with her, they met in second life. And He even collared her on there. I have lived with Master for almost a yr now and he recently took my collar away due to my jealousy of this other girl who is a married Gorean slave in real life to another Master. He constantly tells me he is going to replace me with her and kick me out due to my jealousy. I don't know what to do because of all of this. 28 Jun 09, 1:21 PM MasterPJ UK, 3 yrs to be honest, your Master doesn't really seem like a Master at all. I suspect you've already thought this yourself, but I think you're better off out of that relationship, he really doesn't seem worthy of your service. Turn the tables and kick him out!! Even if he were to leave this gorean girl, which I doubt he would do, I think it would only be a matter of time before he got another... Owner of nika. She is mine and I love her dearly. Edited 28 Jun 09, 1:22 PM by MasterPJ 28 Jun 09, 2:52 PM fireflies US(TX), 4 yrs i agree, kick the bum out or leave and do not look back! To paraphrase an old saying... "There are too many good Masters in the sea" Good luck, let us know how you do. i am my Master's tattooed and pierced slave. i am His, He owns ALL of me, i do everything i can to please Him. 28 Jun 09, 3:15 PM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs I agree with both of the above posts. If he took your collar away, he may as well have released you, and he obviously doesn't have what it takes to have a stable relationship if he's cheating with another (MARRIED!!!) woman; send him packing. Owned by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. 28 Jun 09, 3:25 PM allalone47 US(OH), 6 yrs Looks like you know what is going on. He wants soneone else, and yes you are jelous 28 Jun 09, 10:46 PM Kay_kay US(NY), 3 yrs I/i agree with the others. his behavior is inappropriate and not that of a master. A real Master does not simply take away a collar and tell you that you will now be replaced because of jealousy. A real Master that wants a poly relationship would help you work through this jealousy and help you to get to know your new sister submissive. This twit (I/i just can't call someone like this a Master) decided 'hey, i'm goign to add this person without any consideration of my current commitments and i'm not even going to make it poly because i'm not going to let girl a meet girl b' he needs to get his act together before he ever deserves the title of Master or Sir again. Best vengence you can have, is kick him to the curb especially since, like was said before, he took your collar, you're released. Then let them have each other. she can't stay true to a rl collar and neither can he so it will only be a little time before he cheats on her and she does the same on him and they'll tear each other apart. Meanwhile, you go be with your friends, heal and realize that you deserve a real Master not some poser and go find Him. 28 Jun 09, 11:58 PM 284-122-181 US(MO), 2 yrs Y! she knows about me we have met on second life plus there is another who lives here as well she is His sub and he even treats her better then me He fondles,kisses and has sex with her alot more then He does with me and at times I feel like he flaunts her in front of me to see what I will do and I feel like a 3rd wheel most of the time just watching them 29 Jun 09, 12:34 AM Kay_kay US(NY), 3 yrs Then you already knew he was going to be like this and, if he's already poly, he might not be thinking of the sl girl as cheating...though telling you he's going to replace you is just really really low considering no sub can just be replaced. Each sub is an individual and saying they can be replaced is just naive. one can have a new relationship but it's not a replacement because it's not hte same. Anyway, back to the new information. If you did not like the way he treated you already in a poly relationship then it's not surprising you don't like the new girl either. So you need to take a little responsibility here since you already knew how things were going to be or at least had a reasonable idea. Now, you have to make a decision. Is it just how he behaves that you don't like or is it that you are not a poly person? There is absolutely nothing wrong with not being a poly person, with needing the relationship to be only one to one. Not everyone is right for a poly relationship Not everyoen is right for a monogamous relationship. Just liek not everyone is a Dominent or a submissive. However, at this point, it's in your court. you have to make a decision to stay and learn to deal with your jealousy or to leave and seek a monogamous relationship. If he was already poly before sl then he's not going to stop beign poly wether it's with this girl or another. If he did not alter his behavior with the girl that lives nearby already, he's never goign to alter his behavior. And, honestly, the fact that he uncollared you...you're already one foot out the door. 29 Jun 09, 1:27 AM 284-122-181 US(MO), 2 yrs Y! I knew He was this way and I love my sub sister that lives here very much but He spends all His time with the girl online and we get an hour a day with Him when He isn't online I was okay with second life but when he started camming with her that is when it started hurting my feelings He brought her out of the pixel world and that is when things went bad He constantly tells me He is gonna replace me with some girl he met online it has been going on for months now th sub that lives here has been with Him for 4 yrs now and btw he was trained to be a Master by a sub not another Master so I don't truly consider Him to be a true Master 29 Jun 09, 3:23 AM Sir_A_Griff CA, 3 yrs Good, you have finally seen the light and I hope you find a Master worthy of you. Sir_G 284-122-181 wrote: I knew He was this way and I love my sub sister that lives here very much but He spends all His time with the girl online and we get an hour a day with Him when He isn't online I was okay with second life but when he started camming with her that is when it started hurting my feelings He brought her out of the pixel world and that is when things went bad He constantly tells me He is gonna replace me with some girl he met online it has been going on for months now th sub that lives here has been with Him for 4 yrs now and btw he was trained to be a Master by a sub not another Master so I don't truly consider Him to be a true Master 29 Jun 09, 4:43 AM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs If he took your collar and is constantly telling you he is going to replace you, he is showing no respect for you or looking after the basic need for your emotional health. You know this, or you would not have posted, so you know what you should do. If someone fed me with negativity all the time, I sure would not be sticking around. All the best with whatever decision you make. 333-528-841 Next page