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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "I don't understand why He's angry with me..help " 1 2 I don't understand why He's angry with me..help (12) This post is on the Other Topics web board. 28 Jun 09, 5:42 PM newsubo9 IE, 2 yrs Thanks so much, T, your words only reflect my thoughts...He has stated from the beginning of this M/s realtionship that He will not be questioned on anything He does, and He reiterated today in an email that he is a strict Master in that He does what He wants. Do how on earth could I possibly discuss trust issues with Him? I hope some others comment on my situation because I can't see it objectively, of course, and I don't know what I can do, if anything. Is it best just to try to blank out his other relationships and concentrate on serving Him? I dont even like it when his wallet falls open and I see the picture of his wife in it. The fact that she's beautiful doesn't help! He says they are a team but she isnt into sex much. Other than that he doesn't talk about his primary life and I dont want to hear about it. I don't even know how to ask him how I'll get through the six months in Winter when I won't see him at all, unless I relent and visit him and his wife. I know I'll feel lost and abandoned. Edited 28 Jun 09, 5:43 PM by newsubo9 1 Jul 09, 9:56 PM SgtMajorMaam UK, 2 yrs you have provided slightly more information here than you did when I posted earlier........... I'm with Master PJ on this one. Poly is not for everyone. If your Master wishes to be obeyed without question then he must put himself and your trust beyond such questions. Trust and respect are everything in a M/s relationship, you said this relationship is relatively new so if you don't have trust and he will not give you the opportunity to question exactly where you stand within his Lifestyle, think long and hard about what it is you want. If this is not it - go and find it in someone that will provide what you need. D/s & M/s relationships only succeed if each person is happy with the arrangement. you ALWAYS retain the right to feel secure within the relationship of your choice, and frankly anything else should be considered an abuse of power. SgtMajorMa'am