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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Cheating" 1 2 Cheating (17) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 25 Jun 09, 2:52 PM Nomadd 2 yrs I would also like to extend my apologies to A/all...One of the curses of being a Scorpio is my temper overrides my brains sometimes. Things are being ironed out between Myself and caethes...some very sound advice was offered about letting tempers cool and I thank that individual for that advice. 25 Jun 09, 4:48 PM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs I am glad to hear you both are communicating and working to smooth things out. That put a smile on my face this morning. Happiness to you both. 333-528-841 27 Jun 09, 4:54 AM His_caethes 2 yrs W/we are working on it. i will have to learn to trust again and he will have to be completely honest about everything if he wants that trust back with a little time and communication anything can happen. Thank You all in the circle of my arms he shall have all my pleasures all his desires fulfilled. in his heart i shall have all the love i need in his eyes i shall forever be his collared one ~ Aaron's Pet 13 Sep 09, 7:54 AM 494-837-943 2 yrs hello everyone, after reading this discussion i am wondering, if there was nothing in our contract about cheating, but verbaly says He will not. isnt that like a givin? could a slave not release themselves? just curious, am new to the life style and am in the process of learning all i can. 14 Sep 09, 1:29 AM Kinkypupper US(OR), 6 yrs Y! In a M/s relationship the "s" is SLAVE... GET IT...the slave has nothing to say about what their Master does or does not do. If you are not at a comfort level to accept that with them you have no business in the relationship to begin with. Sorry, think of s M/s relationship like a marrage without a "get out of relationship free card".. 14 Sep 09, 1:35 AM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs Kinkypupper wrote: In a M/s relationship the "s" is SLAVE... GET IT...the slave has nothing to say about what their Master does or does not do. If you are not at a comfort level to accept that with them you have no business in the relationship to begin with. Sorry, think of s M/s relationship like a marrage without a "get out of relationship free card".. Just so you know... there are a number of people who disagree with you on this point. Even slaves have to know when a relationship is no longer safe to be in, and cheating for many of us is a dealbreaker because it isn't safe. Furthermore, a relationship, be it vanilla or M/s, HAS to have trust, and if trust is not present, the relationship is in bad shape. If a cheating master means that the trust is broken, then the slave has every right to be upset over it and, yes, even to leave if the trust cannot be rebuilt. OP and her Master are working things out (good for them), but not everyone can get back to "normal" following infidelity. Just because YOU treat YOUR slaves like they have no right to be hurt if trust is broken doesn't mean that EVERY master does. Also, when a marriage dissolves, it is rarely a "get out of relationship free" type of thing. Divorce usually brings with it pain, expense, and a period of readjustment. Nothing "free" about any of that. His Beloved Owned and loved by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. Edited 14 Sep 09, 1:38 AM by slave_of_The_Tesh 15 Sep 09, 8:44 PM MasterSeveryn 2 yrs As a Master, I believe that your Owner has breached the most important part of a D/s (or any for that matter) relationship: Honesty. As a Dominant he can freely choose to 'play' or Own as many women as he can, as long as he can provide for them and Master them all properly. What bothers me the most with this situation is: #1: He did it behind your back, without discussing the possibility of 'play' or desiring other women (for whatever reason #2: He denied it. Of course I don't know the full story, and there are always 3 sides to every story (His, Hers, and the truth)but this is also one reason why it's important to have deep discussions and writing up a contract between M/s. If anyone breaches the contract you go your separate ways. I wish you the best, ~Master Severyn~