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	TSR : Web boards : M/s and D/s : "Cheating" 1 2 Cheating (17) Tue 23 Jun 09, 1:25 PM His_caethes 13 mths I am not sure if this is the right board I should post on so please feel free to move it if you so desire. I am a collared submissive suppose to be in a closed relationship with my "Owner/Fiance". I have found out recently that when we were having some problems and split for a few months he was "playing" with up to 5 women that I know about and a few I probably don't. This included going to visit one and when I asked him about it he denied it until about a week ago. When I was checking Voice Mail this morning I came across one left at 0704 this morning from one of the women he was playing with who said "Good Morning Sleeping Beauty" and then stated that she was "Happy to Fall Asleep Again With him last night" I can't stay in this relationship where there is no trust. I can't continue with the lies he has told me and continues to tell me. So what happens what do you do when all the trust is gone and you can't trust your Owner to treat the way he should or even be honest with you when you ask a question? in the circle of my arms he shall have all my pleasures all his desires fulfilled. in his heart i shall have all the love i need in his eyes i shall forever be his collared one ~ Aaron's Pet 23 Jun 09, 1:42 PM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 13 mths Aarons_Pet wrote: Cheating When I was checking Voice Mail this morning I came across one left at 0704 this morning from one of the women he was playing with who said "Good Morning Sleeping Beauty" and then stated that she was "Happy to Fall Asleep Again With him last night" I can't stay in this relationship where there is no trust. I can't continue with the lies he has told me and continues to tell me. So what happens what do you do when all the trust is gone and you can't trust your Owner to treat the way he should or even be honest with you when you ask a question? This means he cheated as recently as last night. Since he's cheated on you AND outright lied to you about it, the trust is broken. Personally, I could never continue a relationship where there was no trust. I can't tell you what you have to do - only you can decide that - but I would tell him I wanted to be released from service and end the relationship. Cheating is a MAJOR deal-breaker. Owned by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. Edited 23 Jun 09, 1:43 PM by slave_of_The_Tesh 23 Jun 09, 3:30 PM His_caethes 13 mths I have asked his reply is "NO" in the circle of my arms he shall have all my pleasures all his desires fulfilled. in his heart i shall have all the love i need in his eyes i shall forever be his collared one ~ Aaron's Pet 23 Jun 09, 3:47 PM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 13 mths Sent you a memo. Owned by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. 23 Jun 09, 4:28 PM 333-528-841 CA, 18 mths Your Owner broke his part of the agreement by his continuing actions and lies. In light of this, he has lost the right to keep you if you wish to leave. It is now your right, to do what is best for you. Others can give advice about learning to trust again and rebuilding relationships but as he continues to cheat and lie, this may not be possible for you. It is never easy when you are the one it is happening to. Surround yourself with your family and friends to help you get through this time. They will be a great support for you. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I wish you peace and happiness with whatever decision you make. 333-528-841 Edited 23 Jun 09, 4:30 PM by 333-528-841 23 Jun 09, 9:01 PM His_caethes 13 mths I did just get that he spoke with the woman from the voice mail last night and advised me it was "it wasn't any Of My Business it was between Him and her". I also received "sometimes u need to leave sh*t alone and just trust me... i may not tell u everything.... but i was doing what needed to be done. u didn't need to know" Update I did just advise him that I was leaving the relationship. say a little prayer for me I am gonna need it. in the circle of my arms he shall have all my pleasures all his desires fulfilled. in his heart i shall have all the love i need in his eyes i shall forever be his collared one ~ Aaron's Pet 23 Jun 09, 10:15 PM Kay_kay US(NY), 15 mths Sorry to Y/you both for such a bad time of life. However, for warped, as hard as it is to believe this...when you broke the trust, you put yourself back into the position of earning that trust back in any and every way. Remember this for the next relationship you have, especially D/s. These relationships never function without trust and, once broken, trust is incedibly hard to mend...especially if one of your ex-playmates is playing games in order to break up your relationship. However, as hard as it was to be honest after your mistakes, the fact that you were not allowed this ex-playmate to cause so much trouble even if you are innocent and, personally, I/i don't know if you are or not. For the op, good luck and keep those that you love and trust close through this next phase of your life, no matter what happens. 24 Jun 09, 12:18 AM 333-528-841 CA, 18 mths You both need some time to calm down and talk to each other privately, not though a forum. Emotions are high right now. Warped, you need to be honest and upfront, about everything, no matter how bad you feel or ashamed you are about what happened. Telling your pet to blindly trust and that it does not concern her will not help build that trust again. No one is perfect. Most of us have done things in our past that we are ashamed or unhappy about. It is a part of lifes lessons. I am so sorry and sad for you both and hope you can resolve your differences. 333-528-841 24 Jun 09, 1:10 AM Master_SL CA, 3 yrs Well that was a high flared spat. I guess if it makes you feel better to spill your personal life upon the web so be it. Regards, Master_SL 24 Jun 09, 1:54 AM His_caethes 13 mths My apologies for the things that were said. I did not mean to offend anyone and if I have I am truly sorry. Thank you all for the sound advice. in the circle of my arms he shall have all my pleasures all his desires fulfilled. in his heart i shall have all the love i need in his eyes i shall forever be his collared one ~ Aaron's Pet 24 Jun 09, 3:46 AM JRCs_petk HK, 2 yrs Y! Let's leave this thread to die out shall we? Hopefully they'll sort this out in private between themselves. It's never fun to watch other people's dirty laundry air in public. Best of luck to you both. Next page