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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Master cheating" 1 2 Master cheating (16) This post is on the Other Topics web board. Mon 15 Jun 09, 7:01 AM darci_SD US(KY), 2 yrs what a night. my heart is breaking into. Tonight, i got a message from another girl that said my Master had been camming with her and calling her on the phone for the past couple of weeks. my Master???? nooo way!!! i asked for evidence and she gave me chat logs. So, it was true. i asked Master about it and He did finally admit that He had got caught up in her and had talked to her for a couple of weeks and just told her yesterday that He had made a mistake. The reasoning why she told me....she was pissed He broke it off. Master and i do NOT have a open relationship and even online play with anyone else is a no no for the both of Uus. i guess what i want to know is how do i forgive, forget and still be able to submit to Him and trust Him with all my heart?? i am so deeply hurt... He is not into any type of poly relationship so its not the case of Him wanting another. i keep asking myself what i did wrong, why i wasn't enough??? i just don't understand it. i gave myself to Him completly. The collar i have around my neck does not hold the meaning it did... right now, i'm pissed, hurt and so confused. Do i have this right?? i am not ready to ask to be released, i love Him, but right now i don't trust Him. Please help me understand darci 16 Jun 09, 3:49 AM MasterOmerta88 US(IA), 3 yrs Y! Hunny.... I really don't know what to tell you. I don't know your personal situation so I cant help you know where to place blame. I can tell you that it does sound like you really want your relationship to work. All you can do is sit down and talk together. Express your feelings back and forth and see what happens. Trust is the main key so if you can't regain that then the relationship has no basis.. Believe Me I know. I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need a shoulder to cry on or just someone to bounce thoughts off of My door is always open. All great things must first wear a horrible and monstrous mask to inscribe themselves on the hearts and minds of humanity 16 Jun 09, 4:12 PM Hesperus US(CT), 3 yrs Y! I completely agree with omerta88. Communicate with Master and then search your heart, can you trust your Master again? This is the only question that needs answering. This will not be easy but we are here for you... do not hesitate to lean on any of us if you need it. We will all be there for you. Chin up, things will work out. Hesperus 16 Jun 09, 9:43 PM 333-528-841 CA, 3 yrs I would be curious to know how the other girl knew your contact information. Your Master must have told her something about you and she obviously knew that he was in an ongoing rlationship or else why would she bother to reach you and make sure you were told? If it were me, I would be asking more questions first before deciding what to do. 333-528-841 17 Jun 09, 1:13 AM darci_SD US(KY), 2 yrs 333-528-841 wrote: I would be curious to know how the other girl knew your contact information. Your Master must have told her something about you and she obviously knew that he was in an ongoing rlationship or else why would she bother to reach you and make sure you were told? If it were me, I would be asking more questions first before deciding what to do. She knew my contact info because she came into my and Masters online Home. That is one of the things that makes me mad, i befriended her. This is just my opinion but i believe she told one because Master had broke it off with her and she was angry and two because she thought it would split Uus up either so she could have Him or so He would be alone not sure which. darci 17 Jun 09, 1:15 AM darci_SD US(KY), 2 yrs omerta88 wrote: Hunny.... I really don't know what to tell you. I don't know your personal situation so I cant help you know where to place blame. I can tell you that it does sound like you really want your relationship to work. All you can do is sit down and talk together. Express your feelings back and forth and see what happens. Trust is the main key so if you can't regain that then the relationship has no basis.. Believe Me I know. I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need a shoulder to cry on or just someone to bounce thoughts off of My door is always open. omerta Thank you for your reply. i do really want O/our relationship to work. i love my Master with all that i am. i know He is human and can make mistakes, even though this first mistake on His part is a doooozy of one. i want to work thru this. i'm just not sure how too. darci 17 Jun 09, 1:23 AM darci_SD US(KY), 2 yrs Hesperus wrote: I completely agree with omerta88. Communicate with Master and then search your heart, can you trust your Master again? This is the only question that needs answering. This will not be easy but we are here for you... do not hesitate to lean on any of us if you need it. We will all be there for you. Chin up, things will work out. Hesperus Hesperus Sir Thank You for Your reply. Master and i have been talking and talking and talking. i do think i can trusts Him again, but it won't happen over night. When i first heard what Master had done i was ready to walk away. i was unable to do this. How does one trusts again, especially in a relationship that is mainly based online and the telephone. Master and i see one another once a month in real life (W/we live 6 hours apart). The next morning after all this happened i removed my collar from around my neck and now i regret that, but will not put it back on until i see Master on Saturday and He can do it Himself. i appreciate E/everyones help in this. i still feel lost and dazed and confused, but will get thru it. Thanks!! darci 17 Jun 09, 2:29 AM SirSeven 3 yrs darci_SD wrote: 333-528-841 wrote: I would be curious to know how the other girl knew your contact information. Your Master must have told her something about you and she obviously knew that he was in an ongoing rlationship or else why would she bother to reach you and make sure you were told? If it were me, I would be asking more questions first before deciding what to do. She knew my contact info because she came into my and Masters online Home. <snip> What is an "online home" exactly? Sir Seven 17 Jun 09, 3:56 AM MasterOmerta88 US(IA), 3 yrs Y! darci_SD wrote: omerta Thank you for your reply. i do really want O/our relationship to work. i love my Master with all that i am. i know He is human and can make mistakes, even though this first mistake on His part is a doooozy of one. i want to work thru this. i'm just not sure how too. darci As far as "working" throught it I'm not sure that I could really give you any advice other than what I have. I have never been one to overlook infedelity. I personally cant. My friend Brian puts it best when He says, "A whore is a whore and she'll tell you she's a whore but you can NEVER trust a liar." I realize that thats a pessemistic way to look at it but I've been burt more times than I care to share. I really do hope that the 2 of Y/you can work things out and as I said before My door is always open. All great things must first wear a horrible and monstrous mask to inscribe themselves on the hearts and minds of humanity Edited 17 Jun 09, 3:59 AM by MasterOmerta88 17 Jun 09, 4:32 AM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs Of course you have the right to feel wronged in this instance. After all, though you are a slave, you are also still human. You had expectations for your relationship that you thought your Master shared, and He broke those expectations, as well as your trust. What I suggest is that you talk to Him and try to work out the level of trust that you're at now. You may need to suspend the M/s part of Y/your lives for the time being, until trust is regained. If you cannot trust Him, you cannot submit to Him wholeheartedly, if at all. Good luck to you; if you need anything, even just a shoulder to cry on, I'm here. Owned by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. 17 Jun 09, 10:47 AM Sklavos_mou_Kyriah 3 yrs This is the obverse to other threads about unfaithful slaves in online relationships. The same criteria apply. For it to work, there has to be trust and honesty on BOTH sides. I could add my bit of practical advice but I would simply be repeating what has already been said. Hope this all resolves. Be careful. To be a true slave is to be truly free Slave/Sklavos Next page