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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "What is too much to expect from your sub?" What is too much to expect from your sub? (6) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Fri 12 Jun 09, 9:05 PM verlngng US(TX), 2 yrs Y! I was just wondering what would be too much to expect from your sub? I know there are hard limits and also soft limits, but what I am really asking is more of from the home life. As far as chores and such around the house. If I could get some guidance or examples from everyone that would be really appreciated. I already have some idea of what I would want from my sub, but I dont want to expect too much!!! 13 Jun 09, 3:49 AM ravenkaldera US(MA), 6 yrs Anything that makes them clearly ill to do. That includes giving them so much work that they do not have adequate sleep and mental down time. Also, anything that they are not physically able to do. Anything else, it's fair game. So long as you let them know in advance exactly what they're in for, so they can decide whether this is something they want or not. -Raven Kaldera -If you're in charge, it's all on your head. If it's not all on your head, then you're not really in charge. 14 Jun 09, 3:00 AM Oysterspearl US(VA), 3 yrs Here is a guideline that Master uses with me. He will never give me something that he knows i either can't do or won't have the time to do. He doesn't want to set me up for failure. So when Master tells me what he expects done in regards to chores, this guideline always is in the back of my mind so i know it's something that i can accomplish. pearl 14 Jun 09, 1:01 PM verlngng US(TX), 2 yrs Y! Thank you for the insight Raven and Oyster. Your help is very much appreciated. I am finally experiencing what I have been feeling for the larger part of my life and have not been able to express. It feels so good to be able to finally let it all out and be open here on this forum and in life also!!! 15 Jun 09, 3:25 AM Nanu_Civet US(KY), 4 yrs The only way I can think to answer your question is to give you an example of what is expected from me. I am expected of me:to insure the home is clean at all times, to insure that all the bills are payed on time, that all past creditors are take care of in the most efficient way possible, that dinner is ready when Master arrives at home (sadly he is currently away due to military), that the cat is in perfect health, schedule all appointments and insure we arrive on time, all shopping including for Master's clothing, I could continue but it is sufficient to say I am a personal assistant and shopper, an accountant, a plumier, a maid, a sex toy, and anything and everything Master might need of me. To some it might seem like quite a bit but it pleases Master thus brings me great joy to do these things for him. Master's Little Kitten 15 Jun 09, 3:53 PM verlngng US(TX), 2 yrs Y! Well im away also cause of the military. I will be starting my first D/s relationship once i get back from here in Iraq. Im coming home in 43 days. But thank you for the input everyone. Its appreciated. Since this will be my 1st D/s I just dont want to expect too much or be far fetched with my ideas once we write and sign our contract and all. Thank you all once again!!!! 16 Jun 09, 1:23 AM Oysterspearl US(VA), 3 yrs verlngng wrote: Well im away also cause of the military. I will be starting my first D/s relationship once i get back from here in Iraq. Im coming home in 43 days. But thank you for the input everyone. Its appreciated. Since this will be my 1st D/s I just dont want to expect too much or be far fetched with my ideas once we write and sign our contract and all. Thank you all once again!!!! Hope the relationship is all that you expect it to be. Just wanted to say thanks for your service and welcome home (in 43 days) pearl