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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "how do you cope?" 1 2 how do you cope? (16) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 26 Jun 09, 12:33 AM kaitlyn 4 yrs I'd like to introduce you to the "edit" button. It's great so that you don't have to keep a conversation going with yourself. First, I was commenting not your ability to have an opinion... we all have them obviously... but on your absolute lack of social grace and your attitude towards a situation you can't fully understand. If you would like to talk about why I have problems with your posting behavior feel free to Memo me about it. Second, don't assume you know me. You don't and you never will. Thirdly, allow the OP to have her topic back. Thanks, Kaitlyn 28 Jun 09, 1:58 PM MasterPJ UK, 3 yrs kaitlyn wrote: I'd like to introduce you to the "edit" button. It's great so that you don't have to keep a conversation going with yourself. I've tried this advice to PT before now, you're wasting your time, he's so far up his own that he'll just ignore and and all advice. He knows everything and is so perfect that both his poly wives left him... go figure. If that seems cruel, well he doesn't respect political correctness, so don't see why I should either! To the OP, it does sound like poly isn't for you, but that's ok, it isn't for everyone. Having said that, a Master wanting a poly relationship in no way reflects on you as a slave. This is a topic that nika and I have discussed several times as I have a desire to "poly play" and see what happens, but that doesn't mean I'm not completely happy with her, because I am. I have a desire to experience the dynamic of two slaves playing with each other, and with having multiple girls which is something I can't get with nika alone, in no way is it a reflection of her service. Discussion between yourself and your Master is the best way forward. He may well be able to alay your fears and worries. I wish you the best of luck in your plight. Owner of nika. She is mine and I love her dearly. 28 Jun 09, 5:54 PM PolygamistTestament US, 3 yrs MasterPJ wrote: To the OP, it does sound like poly isn't for you, but that's ok, it isn't for everyone. For my benefit you got specific, but for poor auralian you failed to be specific. Is reason only to be shared with those who offend you? What proof do you have that poly isn't for her? At least try to enunciate. You are relying on an appeal to authority where you claim to be with the in crowd which doesn't really make for a logical argument. What seems more likely to me is that you and the crowd are motivated by political correctness or at least this communities notion of it. You are trying to play it safe for yourselves. Are you genuinely interested in auralian or what is perceived to be for the best for the community and yourself? How does the crowd benefit from saying, Poly isn't right for you? It is called playing the nice, but specious, guy. Specious is my new word for the day. Specious 1. apparently good or right though lacking real merit; superficially pleasing or plausible: specious arguments. 2. pleasing to the eye but deceptive. specious. (n.d.). Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Retrieved June 28, 2009, from Dictionary.com website: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/specious 29 Jun 09, 9:52 AM PolygamistTestament US, 3 yrs MasterPJ wrote: ... PT knows everything and is so perfect that both his poly wives left him... go figure. If that seems cruel, well he doesn't respect political correctness, so don't see why I should either! Grin, you seem to fail to realize how much I have suffered. My wives were most expert. Next to them what are you? They are your superior and I theirs. My love was beautiful and my suffering exquisite. Only a great man can endure so much and feel proud. My love is sublime. Glory Be 29 Jun 09, 10:16 AM PolygamistTestament US, 3 yrs PolygamistTestament wrote: Grin, you seem to fail to realize how much I have suffered. My wives were most expert. Next to them what are you? They are your superior and I theirs. My love was beautiful and my suffering exquisite. Only a great man can endure so much and feel proud. My love is sublime. Glory Be I moved Heaven. 29 Jun 09, 10:33 AM PolygamistTestament US, 3 yrs I have to admire fundamentalist women. Many out live their husbands after many years of marriage and had what it takes to have remained faithful and dutiful wives to the bitter end, in sickness and in health. Such women aren't weak. How many of you are genuinely interested in strength? With such women you can build a future with. They bless you and recognize that man was made in the image of God. What should I prefer as a real man? Something weak or something strong? I admire women who can put out and they put out.