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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Boredom?" Boredom? (9) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Mon 8 Jun 09, 11:36 AM 660-184-352 US(AK), 2 yrs Y! Since being released girl finds herself increasingly bored with life in general. There's no excitement, adrenaline, girl doesn't even know what to call it. Anyways, girl's question is when without a Dominant do you find yourself bored with life or is it just girl's own reaction? 8 Jun 09, 6:47 PM pyroaquatic 5 yrs I enjoy a good bout of reading myself. Just to sit down with a long book and read... or go work somewhere. Volunteer work, Paid Work. Nothing like making some Paper. Or you could construct a Zen Garden in your back yard and rake rocks in a circular pattern. Surely that would alleviate your boredom. That is what I would like to do someday. do not bore a dom. it is very painful, and quite difficult to do what they need to do being holy and whatnot. Goodluck! :D 8 Jun 09, 7:15 PM slave_belle US, 8 yrs Sorry for your release ~ i know that hurts with every move you make. Boredom is a state of mind. .. . go out and make your own excitement and adrenaline rush ~ possibly things you were not allowed to do while you were owned? Crank it up a notch and find your own rush. Do not leave your boredom unattended ~ the next Dominant you meet cannot be the One to fix your empty moments and take the boredom away ~ that's gotta come from you first. i'm just saying. .. . peace out, slavebelle 9 Jun 09, 1:53 AM 768-253-486 US(MA), 3 yrs Y! been a slave a long time if it had to do it ova a gain it is not alife that it would choose.. boot a gay slave of older age been a a male slav since it eaas 18...was set asice reciently becuse of age ..itds MASTER thought that HE should move to a younger person...and was reliefed of its obligation and contractual funcutions.. it has not ben easy for it but aa an experiences slave of older age it will not 9 Jun 09, 2:57 PM 660-184-352 US(AK), 2 yrs Y! pyroaquatic wrote: I enjoy a good bout of reading myself. Just to sit down with a long book and read... or go work somewhere. Volunteer work, Paid Work. Nothing like making some Paper. Or you could construct a Zen Garden in your back yard and rake rocks in a circular pattern. Surely that would alleviate your boredom. That is what I would like to do someday. do not bore a dom. it is very painful, and quite difficult to do what they need to do being holy and whatnot. Goodluck! :D A zen garden you say. That actually sounds kind of neat. girl realized while at nutrition class yesterday that what she was trying to say is girl is lonely. A zen garden may be just the thing to help girl relax especially at night when the loneliness is at its worst. Thank you 9 Jun 09, 3:01 PM 660-184-352 US(AK), 2 yrs Y! slave_belle wrote: Sorry for your release ~ i know that hurts with every move you make. Boredom is a state of mind. .. . go out and make your own excitement and adrenaline rush ~ possibly things you were not allowed to do while you were owned? Crank it up a notch and find your own rush. Do not leave your boredom unattended ~ the next Dominant you meet cannot be the One to fix your empty moments and take the boredom away ~ that's gotta come from you first. i'm just saying. .. . girl understands what your saying, its kind of like if you don't love yourself no one else can, right? girl once wanted to to go skydiving and Sir wouldn't let her because of the risk or go deep sea diving. girl considered these options but for some stupid reason still has this "what would Master think" in the back of her head. 9 Jun 09, 3:02 PM 660-184-352 US(AK), 2 yrs Y! 768-253-486 wrote: been a slave a long time if it had to do it ova a gain it is not alife that it would choose.. boot While girl didn't choose to be released girl needed to be with her family in their time of need and Sir does not like being alone. W/we are still friends and His new lovely is just that quite lovely she is good for Him. 9 Jun 09, 7:05 PM auralian US(TX), 3 yrs Y! don't know about skydiving or scuba diving myself but find it very helpful to just get out and walk. whether it be the beach or the various parks in my area, getting out and breathing fresh air does alot of good. cleaning and re-arranging the house helps too *laughs* though its not as satisfying without One coming home and laughing at me then telling me how good it looks. Keep your chin up, we can only hope for better times. 11 Jun 09, 1:02 AM sweetie_bird_RML BR, 6 yrs Y! Its quite similar to a vanilla breakup, i believe. If your master was what gave meaning to your former life, isn't it time to find new meaning? Be your own master, at least for a little bit! Its fun and rewarding to set little goals and challenges for yourself, maybe reinvent yourself. The first step out of a rut is always the hardest. The secret after that is to just keep going. Eventually, someone else will come along. Meanwhile, you'll be having fun! And if you're still lonely, how about a pet? Seriously, how can anyone feel blue with a little adorable furry creature begging for attention. A puppy, i mean. Not us. ...divine decadence... Edited 11 Jun 09, 1:07 AM by sweetie_bird_RML 12 Jun 09, 11:58 AM 660-184-352 US(AK), 2 yrs Y! Lately, girl has been looking inside. Examining the past two D/s relationships deciding what it was about them that made it an incredibly journey thus far and what has made it less then. girl has decided to stop and breath for awhile, take the time to redine needs versus wants and then... well, girl believes the next step will reveal itself when the time is right. With the decision to just slow down and not spend so much time frantically searching for Another, girl has calmed considerably. thank you for your advice and support