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TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "How often are you allowed?"
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How often are you allowed? (20)

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Thu 4 Jun 09, 2:29 PM
S_Kitten
UK, 4 yrs
Sorry if this is in the wrong place, i didnt know whether it should be submission, domination, or service.

Master asked me to post a question about slaves/subs cumming.

How often are you allowed to cum? How often do you allow your slave/sub to cum?

Is it once you've finished with them? when they have earned it? or another reason?

thank you

kitten x

Masters little Kitten. I serve to please

5 Jun 09, 2:24 AM
SL_precious
CA, 3 yrs

S_Kitten wrote:
How often are you allowed?

Sorry if this is in the wrong place, i didnt know whether it should be submission, domination, or service.

Master asked me to post a question about slaves/subs cumming.

How often are you allowed to cum? How often do you allow your slave/sub to cum?

Is it once you've finished with them? when they have earned it? or another reason?

thank you

kitten x

hehe...whenever Master wishes for me to... but i am a lucky girl and Master enjoys my orgasms .. they are His to take or deny..He just happens to like taking them more often then not ...;)

SL_precious

5 Jun 09, 11:16 AM
SeanT70
9 yrs
(A 'comparing answers' question isn't something I'd normally subscribe to, because it's what happens in your M's regime that's important, but in this instance, I'll make an exception)

I'm not allowed to cum; cumming is a punishment in itself, and 'if' I cum, I 'would very probably' be punished, regardless of whether Phay made me do so, or wanted me to cum in the first place; of course, like all M's, she reserves the right to be lenient when she feels like it.

It's a game she plays with a fetish of mine, over and above my not being able to touch myself and her having me eat my cum when the mood takes her.

Sean.

Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~

6 Jun 09, 5:37 AM
996-150-083
4 yrs
I am only allowed to cum with Mistress Tamara's permission and this is only ever granted as a reward; also I am only allowed to cum while rimming Mistress. I am not allowed to touch my penis so masturbation is not an option and my penis is not allowed to enter Mistress's pussy.

Spanked Slave 996-150-083

7 Jun 09, 7:05 PM
slavegail
UK, 6 yrs
Y!*
as my Owners pratice strict orgasm control i am not allowed to cum or play with myself with out permission (only 4 orgasms this year) with a damaged clit this is not so hard for me as it takes quite a time to make me cum when allowed

slavegail Property of NG1

8 Jun 09, 3:06 AM
133-893-224
DE, 3 yrs
To cum regularely is a duty to me. With this the owning Mistress disciplines and contolls my sexuality. At least twice a day i have to masturbate till >the end<. i have also to have sex when ever posible. And of course the Mistress likes it very much to let me cum under Her eyes.. So far to these very pleasant duties. ;-)

9 Jun 09, 4:06 PM
blue_eyes
US(KY), 4 yrs

I am very thankful that my master likes to see me cum. I just can't go until I have been given permission. Master has denied me the option to cum many times but it has also been used as a form of humorous torture for Master when he chooses. I thank my Master for every single opportunity that I have to cum or not and enjoy the decision that he makes b/c I live to serve him.

There are a hundred ways to kneel and kiss the ground

12 Jun 09, 10:39 PM
000-844-137
US, 7 yrs
Y!*
Master asked me to post a question about slaves/subs cumming.

How often are you allowed to cum?

[/quote]

When i was living and serving as a bondage slave to my MASTER, i was forbidden to masturbate or to cum except by permission from my MASTER and then only under HIS direction and observation. HE loved having me horney and frustrated and to cum without HIS permission would find myself being punished by being locked into a chastity device for somewhere between 7 and 30 days.

In chains i feel free

13 Jun 09, 7:33 PM
kitty_miaow
3 yrs
My owner loves it when I cum he actively encourages it I think he sees it as a power thing over me but I always ask before I do. I am not allowed to play with myself though as he disapproves of me obtaining an orgasm without him being there

=^o^= xx

14 Jun 09, 1:10 AM
996-150-083
4 yrs
To ensure that I do not cum without permission, Mistress locks a chastity pouch on me whenever I leave the house and also whenever I am home unsupervised.

Spanked Slave 996-150-083

19 Jun 09, 11:12 AM
Ms_Valentine
UK, 4 yrs
S_Kitten wrote:
How often are you allowed?

Sorry if this is in the wrong place, i didnt know whether it should be submission, domination, or service.

Master asked me to post a question about slaves/subs cumming.

How often are you allowed to cum? How often do you allow your slave/sub to cum?

Is it once you've finished with them? when they have earned it? or another reason?

thank you

kitten x

Well, I guess all our situations are unique.

paul is not allowed to masturbate or do anything sexually unless I permit or instigate it.

He comes as often or as few times as I feel is what will please me.

I do not necessarily link his being allowed to have an orgasm as a reward but he certainly will not get an orgasm if he has been disobedient. Luckily that is so rare as to be hardly worth bothering about.

So, his cock is used by me for what I want, when I want, for as long as I want and so on.

I do not want him thinking he knows what will 'earn' him an orgasm. There is no logic like that. It is just how Mistress feels.

I am lucky with paul in that he is 100% trustworthy where his masturbation ban is concerned so I never have to use chastity devices as a means of physical control but I do use them as a reminder of his complete submission to me just because it is fun.

I also do not have to worry about how many orgasms paul has, because he remains just as submissive if he is horny and desperate as he does if he has been given several orgasms close together. Sexual release in no way lessens his submissiveness.

Controlling his sexual life is an enormously important element in our relationship for me. I like him not knowing what might happen or when. It keeps him on his toes and neither of us get bored with our particular regime, even though it is not about total orgasm denial or living permanently in chastity.

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