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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "What does a healthy D/s.. M/s.... look like?" What does a healthy D/s.. M/s.... look like? (3) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 4 Jun 09, 3:58 AM sidney 3 yrs My first D/s relationship is slowly coming to a end. I have read a lot of information on the types of relationships but I have never known anyone in these types of relationships that I know of. I'm learning that my own situation was not healthy and I would love to hear about healthy for-filling examples of these types of lifestyles. I don't want to let my bad situation taint me from someday finding the right Master/Daddy/DOM for me. I like the Daddy/babygirl idea the most but it's only because it seems to be more loving.... but this is coming from someone that only knows about the lifestyle from what I have read. I could be way off here. The relationship I was in was a Daddy/babygirl in name only.. It seemed nothing like I read on the subject. I'm not so much into age play (at lest I think I'm not *wink*) but the idea of someone overseeing my care... Helping me or making healthy and positive choices for me... Someone that would never do anything that would truly hurt his little girl... What I would not give for a relationship like that....... Thanks......... Edited Thu 4 Jun 09, 3:58 PM by sidney 4 Jun 09, 10:33 PM Daniel SE, 3 yrs You're absolutely on the right track. Sorry you weren't lucky at your first try. Healthy M/s-relationships are definitely caring and loving. If a person can't love in an intimate M/s-relationship, that person has an emotional deficit. Full stop. It hasn't to be romantic love though. There are many ways of loving. But care is a necessity as I understand it. Sorry that your try didn't work out. But there are many caring owners out there. Don't give up. Wish you the best! ~Still going wrong~ 5 Jun 09, 1:47 AM crystalredroze US(OH), 4 yrs Y! Sidney wrote: What does a healthy D/s.. M/s.... look like? My first D/s relationship is slowly coming to a end. I have read a lot of information on the types of relationships but I have never known anyone in these types of relationships that I know of. I'm learning that my own situation was not healthy and I would love to hear about healthy for-filling examples of these types of lifestyles. I don't want to let my bad situation taint me from someday finding the right Master/Daddy/DOM for me. I like the Daddy/babygirl idea the most but it's only because it seems to be more loving.... but this is coming from someone that only knows about the lifestyle from what I have read. I could be way off here. The relationship I was in was a Daddy/babygirl in name only.. It seemed nothing like I read on the subject. I'm not so much into age play (at lest I think I'm not *wink*) but the idea of someone overseeing my care... Helping me or making healthy and positive choices for me... Someone that would never do anything that would truly hurt his little girl... What I would not give for a relationship like that....... Thanks......... Master and i have been living together for a year and a half and have known eachother for 6 years. W/we do agree on many things and that is that (for us at least) there needs to be some kind of emotional connection. Now as Master has said, its not necessary for a Master to love a slave but He just happens to love me. Which makes me feel good. Anyway, enough about U/us. i also feel respect plays a huge part in the relationship and that goes both ways. Any worthy D/O/M's most important responsability is caring for their property in their ways of guidance and physical care and health. If their property isnt taken care of it not only wont last as long but possible wont be as healthy. 5 Jun 09, 11:45 AM 499-092-972 US(NY), 3 yrs Hello Trying to find the right “Partner” is a daunting task, even for the most experienced. i find that it is like kissing a whole pond full of frogs to try to find the right one. Just be careful, and use the sense i am sure you have. Do not take any unnecessary risks, and if someone wants you to then you know not to get involved with that one. Is there a local group that perhaps you could find a mentor or friend? Someone to help steer you clear of all the bad frogs? The only person who knows what a healthy M/s or D/s relationship looks like for you is you. If it makes you happy and fulfilled then hold on to it. It does not matter what someone says in a book on a website or chat board. Only you know what is right for you. Of course until you find the right Master/Owner. Then that person will be the only person who knows what is right for you. ::: grin::: Take it slow and be careful. You will be fine. linda Edited 5 Jun 09, 11:47 AM by 499-092-972