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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "How to avoid the possible "oops" with the kiddies" How to avoid the possible "oops" with the kiddies (7) Mon 25 May 09, 11:21 PM 779-061-353 US(NY), 2 yrs Y! So what are the strangest ways you used to avoid kids of any kid from seeing your personal events weather they be D/s or vanilla? written kneeling at His feet, leash frimly in place Come check out this girl's writings http://www.freewebs.com/bardic/ Master Silver Wolf approves all this grl's posts they MUST pass his approval before posting 26 May 09, 12:25 PM jakesemma US(WA), 2 yrs Y! Same as everything else. they see the love, affection, caring towards each other, and anything kinky/sexual stay in the bedroom. our dynamic might resemble a 1950's household, or a Christian religious household dynamic wise where the wife is given responsibility over certain things and she submits to her husband.... because of this, there are no power struggles, mommy/daddy seem happy and don't fight.... This is a good healthy dynamic for them to see in my opinion. I personally think acting as if what you do is "weird" or "wrong" is more likely to make the kids notice something is up. Just live your life, keep your sex life in private and be happy. Kids do better when its obvious mom and dad are both happy. 26 May 09, 1:09 PM 779-061-353 US(NY), 2 yrs Y! yes that is correct .. lol i should have explained. i was wondering if anyone had 'unusual' or odd moments they needed covering up. one D/s site i was on had a post saying that a couple had a problem when their 10 yr old daughter wanted to know why there were hand cuffs on the adults bed. The parents 'saved face' by saying " mommie falls out of bed a lot hunny so we use them to keep her from falling out" it seems the child took it but who knows for sure. lol i did find it amusing how they did it though lol :D written kneeling at His feet, leash frimly in place Come check out this girl's writings http://www.freewebs.com/bardic/ Master Silver Wolf approves all this grl's posts they MUST pass his approval before posting 27 May 09, 3:02 AM SeanT70 UK, 7 yrs 779-061-353 wrote: yes that is correct .. lol i should have explained. i was wondering if anyone had 'unusual' or odd moments they needed covering up. one D/s site i was on had a post saying that a couple had a problem when their 10 yr old daughter wanted to know why there were hand cuffs on the adults bed. The parents 'saved face' by saying " mommie falls out of bed a lot hunny so we use them to keep her from falling out" it seems the child took it but who knows for sure. lol i did find it amusing how they did it though lol :D Yeah, funny that, but I never have and never will advocate lying to your kid; if you can't hack telling them the truth about something you do, don't leave yourself open to the question in the first place. Regards, Sean. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 31 May 09, 2:36 AM 373-468-022 US(CO), 21 mths Y! i also don't advocate lying to children. Birthdays and Christmas are exceptions. i think if asked about cuffs i'd tell them we like to play games sometimes. my teen would probably figure it out, the younger one may in times but they sell cuffs in grocery stores around Valentine's Day. Not exactly high quality cuffs but cuffs nonetheless. To prevent serious issues our bedroom door is locked often. When i leave for the day i make sure everything is put away. MGs "It's the submissives that show to others what type of Dom owns them." - Anonymous "If you want to kiss the sky, better learn how to kneel." Mysterious Ways- U2 1 Jun 09, 3:50 PM jakesemma US(WA), 2 yrs Y! Our son has seen my Owner making canes and other BDSM toys because he has the dining room setup as a workshop. When he asked, we just told him we sold them at a store *which we do* and he didn't ask any other questions. I don't advocate lying to a child. Our son has snuck into our room a couple times and asked questions about stuff, unrelated to sex or BDSM or anything else, usually he wants to know why were allowed to have dirty clothes on the floor and he's not... *giggles*... but we usually don't have sex toys lying around... and we have always had whips, rope and other stuff in our room and he's never asked what they were for. Than again, my Owner was raised in a christian household where his dad taught him how to tie knots, and all sorts of other stuff... he grew up playing with whips and still enjoys them as an adult. I don't think of it as weird or abnormal for kids to play with rope, or whips... so for us to have them in the household doesn't seem that weird. -- our son has an indiana jones and pirate theme going on. He likes swords and whips.... Having that kind of stuff around really doesn't make him ask any weird questions.... We don't have any kind of sex toys lying around, as the only real 'sex' toy I have is a vibrator that hides under our pillow... we don't really use anything else sexually. (were kinda boring that way.) I've been pretty careful to put things away before we have guests/company over if they aren't lifestyle-aware or friendly... but I don't intend to lie to my child, or act like what we do is wrong.... Our outstanding rule is : Be careful what you ask if you don't want an honest answer. Edited 1 Jun 09, 3:53 PM by jakesemma 1 Jun 09, 11:20 PM Sklavos_mou_Kyriah UK, 2 yrs jakesemma wrote: (seriously snipped) Our outstanding rule is : Be careful what you ask if you don't want an honest answer. There is an old poem about Cornish smugglers, - I'm afraid I can't remember who wrote it, - but there is a line in it that reads... "Them's as asks no questions isn't told a lie." Sorry for for the slight derail. To be a true slave is to be truly free Slave/Sklavos 2 Jun 09, 11:31 PM Johnnypa US(PA), 20 mths jakesemma wrote: When he asked, we just told him we sold them at a store *which we do* and he didn't ask any other questions. I don't advocate lying to a child. You certainly got that right, and another thing you got right is, answer exactly what they ask, and only what they ask. That's all little kids want. over-explaining confuses them and leads to more questions. At the same time, you gotta know that as they get older, you will not have any secrets. They want and need to know who you authentically are, and they will find out regardless - it's part of how they grow up and away. But then, when they are older they will understand better too. I'm writing as father of 3 and gfather of 5. egad.