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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "I'm not sure if this is safe..." 1 2 3 4 I'm not sure if this is safe... (35) This post is on the Other Topics web board. 7 Dec 09, 7:12 AM 826-163-795 US(VA), 2 yrs Y! Sir tied me up to the bed. blindfolded me and put the vibrator straped to my leg on my clit and left the house to go drop off a few things to the baby sitter. i freaked out. hurt myself getting out of the ties but i got free. We decided that next time He will just go to the computer for a bit and wait. It is very scary. i dont think that i will let Him do that again. Please talk with your Master about this. being that scared is not good. It takes quite a bit longer to recover from that. Maybe He should just lock you in a box tied up and go outside or something as long as he is near enough for a baby monitor to reach. and dont forget a safe word. hope this idea works for you. *HUGS* 7 Dec 09, 10:05 PM 186-306-559 US(NC), 2 yrs This is beyond safe, sane and consensual. No Master is worth dying for. His_little_one wrote: I'm not sure if this is safe... Hello...I'm new to SD and new to M/s. I met my first master almost a year ago and he's been slowly showing me how to be his perfect slave. Up until recently things had been slowly progressing towards scarier and scarier situations for which I have no control over which I've happily complied with but now he wants to tie my hands behind my back, stuff my dirty panties in my mouth, put tape over my mouth and lock me in a box. As if this isn't unsafe enough in my opinion he talks of leaving me there for hours and leaving the house. Am I being stupid or can't we consider this beyond safe & sane? I wouldn't mind the box itself or being bound but gagged and locked and left can't something go wrong being gagged like that? What if I swallowed my panties? Is that possible in a panic? I've tried to talk to him about it but he brushes off my concerns. Up until recently hes always been safe and trustworthy and never given me cause for concern. Help! 13 Dec 09, 8:59 PM 995-821-007 UK, 2 yrs 826-163-795 wrote: Sir tied me up to the bed. blindfolded me and put the vibrator straped to my leg on my clit and left the house to go drop off a few things to the baby sitter. i freaked out. hurt myself getting out of the ties but i got free. We decided that next time He will just go to the computer for a bit and wait. It is very scary. i dont think that i will let Him do that again. Please talk with your Master about this. being that scared is not good. It takes quite a bit longer to recover from that. Maybe He should just lock you in a box tied up and go outside or something as long as he is near enough for a baby monitor to reach. and dont forget a safe word. hope this idea works for you. *HUGS* Im sorry but "I wont let him do it again" if even mentioned that to my owner I think I would lose the sense of feeling when she was finished safe words annoy me to people always go on here about they get whipped or whatever to understand there place well what place are they talking about because i'm pretty sure a slave has to obey there owner not try and change things for there gain Sorry for being a bit of a protocol freak :/ 13 Dec 09, 9:11 PM Sevdah US(MN), 2 yrs 995-821-007 wrote: 826-163-795 wrote: Sir tied me up to the bed. blindfolded me and put the vibrator straped to my leg on my clit and left the house to go drop off a few things to the baby sitter. i freaked out. hurt myself getting out of the ties but i got free. We decided that next time He will just go to the computer for a bit and wait. It is very scary. i dont think that i will let Him do that again. Please talk with your Master about this. being that scared is not good. It takes quite a bit longer to recover from that. Maybe He should just lock you in a box tied up and go outside or something as long as he is near enough for a baby monitor to reach. and dont forget a safe word. hope this idea works for you. *HUGS* Im sorry but "I wont let him do it again" if even mentioned that to my owner I think I would lose the sense of feeling when she was finished safe words annoy me to people always go on here about they get whipped or whatever to understand there place well what place are they talking about because i'm pretty sure a slave has to obey there owner not try and change things for there gain Sorry for being a bit of a protocol freak :/ i think she meant that she would freak out so bad he wouldnt be able to tie her up, not, that she would be the one in control. if her master cant overpower her then he simply cant do it. thats all with respect, Sevdah. i am still new here i mean no offense to anyone. 15 Dec 09, 2:42 AM Umbramajoris_01 US(AL), 2 yrs Y! I would consider doing the same thing to you, BUT I would make sure that you had a way out of it in case of an emergency. Maybe you need to discuss this idea with you Dom/Master about how you feel about safety issues, it is NOT dishonorable if you have real concerns. I DO use safe words, and body signals. Safe, Sane (to a point *wink*)and consentual, is always better in any situation. Umbramajoris Edited 15 Dec 09, 2:50 AM by Umbramajoris_01