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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "for those that are married/getting married..." 1 2 for those that are married/getting married... (15) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Tue 19 May 09, 5:47 PM moebius_slave US(LA), 3 yrs just curious, for those couples that are married or getting married... who proposed? was it just decided by your M? i know there are many couples here that were married before becoming M/s or D/s but i was just curious as to how much of a role 'tradition' plays into the actual proposition/decision to become married... have no fear, mobii 20 May 09, 1:21 AM Oysterspearl US(VA), 3 yrs We were already married for many years prior to M/s. Master still proposed to me after about 6 months of dating. He did the typical "male" role. My parents are divorced and my father lives out of state. He picked up the phone and called him to get his blessing. Everytime i think of that it reminds me of how lucky i am to find someone like him. pearl 20 May 09, 2:35 AM SeanT70 9 yrs Ya know, in hindsight, I'm not so sure marriage has anything to do with M/s at all; Phay and I were 'just' a 'nilla couple and got married before the whole M/s thing took off in the way that it has, notwithtanding the fact that there was already a heavy flavouring between us, and a serious hankering for our various roles to start with. Ultimately, 'we' think 'we'd' still be us, regardless, but still very much married, because that was very much the case beforehand anyway, although, in saying that, Phay would've made a very fine *edits out usual word for unmarried woman because she'll throttle me* (lolz) owner too, given that her talents for it, and my traits haven't been any different at all. I don't really see tradition having much to do with it, because this lifestyle doesn't fit well, traditionally; we all do what's best for us, don't we? Oh, I forgot to mention, I proposed, on one knee, after devising somewhat of a ruse and making 'someone's' jaw drop...gawd that jab in the ribs hurt! I did ask for her hand previously, but that's a rather complicated tale best left untold. Sean. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ Edited 20 May 09, 2:47 AM by SeanT70 20 May 09, 9:40 AM Master_Rescoldo US(NC), 3 yrs I proposed to my beloved slave with permanent steel wrist cuffs instead of a ring. We both have kids and that factored into the decision. I suppose that I am pretty old fashioned and traditional anyway… well except for the M/s part! I am still working on the details of the marriage itself though I know that OBEY will part of her public vows. I was thinking about having a smaller collaring ceremony later in that day but I just realized that she won't be wearing her collar for the wedding pictures so I will have to rethink that part. To propose I blindfolded her, cuffed her hands together and wrapped her hands in duct tape because I knew she would feel the permanent cuffs and know what I was going to do. Everything else went on like a normal session except that I wouldn't allow her to orgasm for a long time and waited until I was ready as well. I then pulled her blindfold off, asked her to marry me and ordered her to orgasm. Fortunately it all happened as planned. The only drawback is that we really can't tell the grandchildren (or our kids for that matter) how I proposed if they ever ask! Master Rescoldo 24 May 09, 1:44 PM moebius_slave US(LA), 3 yrs thank you everyone for your replies i know that M/s D/s doesn't have anything to do with marriage. i was just wondering more about the actual proposal. before i moved here to be with Master, He actually had asked me to marry Him over the phone, i told Him i would only answer when we were together, (like He didn't already know what my answer would be, lol), and He said He would allow me that. in chatting, i had said something about although i had been married twice, i had never actually been proposed to, 'traditionally'...where the man gets on one knee and asks. well, when i came to visit in january, He did. actually, He got on both knees. well, of course i had to say yes, :D now....if i can just get my divorce filed and done! hehehehe The devil came to me last night and asked what I wanted in exchange for my soul. I still can't believe I said pizza. Friggin' cravings. 26 May 09, 4:33 PM 779-061-353 US(MO), 4 yrs Y! Master_Rescoldo wrote: I proposed to my beloved slave with permanent steel wrist cuffs instead of a ring. We both have kids and that factored into the decision. I suppose that I am pretty old fashioned and traditional anyway… well except for the M/s part! I am still working on the details of the marriage itself though I know that OBEY will part of her public vows. I was thinking about having a smaller collaring ceremony later in that day but I just realized that she won't be wearing her collar for the wedding pictures so I will have to rethink that part. To propose I blindfolded her, cuffed her hands together and wrapped her hands in duct tape because I knew she would feel the permanent cuffs and know what I was going to do. Everything else went on like a normal session except that I wouldn't allow her to orgasm for a long time and waited until I was ready as well. I then pulled her blindfold off, asked her to marry me and ordered her to orgasm. Fortunately it all happened as planned. The only drawback is that we really can't tell the grandchildren (or our kids for that matter) how I proposed if they ever ask! Master Rescoldo lol that is so cool1 (pardon the childish moment) but if there were a vote for the best proposal that would get mine! written kneeling at His feet, leash frimly in place Come check out this girl's writings http://www.freewebs.com/bardic/ Master Silver Wolf approves all this grl's posts they MUST pass his approval before posting 27 May 09, 9:55 PM slave_su 3 yrs Its over 20 years since my Husband proposed to me - 3 times before I said 'yes', He asked permission of my father before booking O/our wedding. When He recently decided to become my Master and i His slave He didn't need to ask me and certainly didn't ask my father. 14 Jun 09, 1:45 PM kitty_miaow 3 yrs My owner proposed to me after being together for 3 and a half years, he chose that as the moment to put a permanently locked collar on me which was nicely romantic of him. (Thankfully I don't have a nickel allergy!) 14 Jun 09, 2:24 PM Paper_of_the_Pen CA, 3 yrs I proposed to my Master ^_^ I knew it would make him happy. I did it in a really childish goofy way that makes us smile when we tell others about it. 14 Jun 09, 6:49 PM MasterMezs_Rosie UK, 3 yrs Omocha wrote: I proposed to my Master ^_^ I knew it would make him happy. I did it in a really childish goofy way that makes us smile when we tell others about it. OMG! ^_____^ With enough lube and physical effort- anything is possible ^_~ 17 Jun 09, 1:20 PM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs Master still hasn't officially proposed; W/we've been planning bits and pieces of the wedding as W/we go, knowing full well that He plans to propose sometime between now and, well, the wedding (firmly set for O/our second anniversary, November 2, 2010). W/we began the planning long before W/we began the M/s part of our lives but after the D/s part (we got into that fairly quickly, He being fairly experienced and I being fairly interested). I don't know how our adopted roles are going to affect the way He chooses to propose, though I did ask him to please make sure it was a story I could share at least most of the details of with O/our vanilla friends and family, because W/we know they'll want more information than just, "He proposed on this date with that ring." They'll want full details. He agreed. Owned by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. Edited 17 Jun 09, 1:25 PM by slave_of_The_Tesh Next page