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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "An essay I found online..." 1 2 An essay I found online... (15) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 30 Aug 10, 11:00 PM chrystal_HMLK US(IL), 5 yrs PolygamistTestament wrote: It is possible that he or she did not know how to put it simply. People often do not say what they mean. I would be concerned with loss of basic life skills if you are kept indoors too much like what happens to people who are in solitary confinement for long periods of time. It has been found that it can result in a form of brain damage where certain abilities are lost permanently. You might be at a higher risk of getting in an automobile accident due to lack of recent experience for example. Being kept indoors a lot does not necessarily mean that you are going to lose basic life skills. I stay indoors pretty much most of the time due to chronic pain, but my mind is fully functional. My body is too, but hurts more with more activity. There are plenty of things a slave can do to keep her mind and body active, even if it is her Master's wish to keep her in doors all the time. 4 Sep 10, 5:21 AM Deviants_slave AU, 21 mths 298-517-980 wrote: I discussed the article with my Master last night, and he said the author doesn't understand the dynamics of a good, stable Master/slave relationship. As the author makes clear, he believes that a "friend-friend" relationship is much better than a Master/slave relationship, so the author is inheriently biased. While both you and your Master raise some very good points, I think you may have missed the part of the article at the top where the author is describing the relationship of a Master/Slave (please note the deliberate capitalization of Slave). This article is not written from the perspective of our lifestyle. It is not geared towards people like us at all. It is aimed towards vanilla people who are attempting to understand why their friendships/marriage/work life is falling apart. It is talking about relationships in general, and the terms Master and Slave are not used with the same meaning we attach to them. In fact, he even makes a point of noting that he chooses those titles because of the emotional response they invoke in the general populace. I would suggest that you go back and read the article more closely. In regards to your psychiatrist saying that "you are selling yourself short by being a 24/7 sub", are you certain that he/she was not just implying that you were selling yourself short in this particular relationship or parts thereof? Maybe they were just pointing out that you don't value yourself highly enough? 4 Sep 10, 2:45 PM Master_Rescoldo US(NC), 3 yrs @paper_of_the_pen - Thanks I enjoyed the article. I agree with many of the view points already expressed. I can always find benefit even in dissenting views. 4 Sep 10, 3:02 PM 112-104-945 UK, 22 mths do you think im good looking enough to be a slave for a mistress? 5 Sep 10, 2:50 PM chrystal_HMLK US(IL), 5 yrs 112-104-945 wrote: do you think im good looking enough to be a slave for a mistress? No offense, but that has what to do with this topic?