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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Meeting 2nd slave with or without 1st slave?" 1 2 3 Meeting 2nd slave with or without 1st slave? (26) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 25 Jun 09, 1:16 AM 957-909-675 US(PA), 3 yrs girl offers greeting to You, Master my Master as talked to me a few times about adding another slave to our family, when He first presented the idea to me he said it was to not only add to His pleasure but to also help me with His demands and His requirements for the upkeep of the home and other parts of my service. it was a bit hard for me to understand at first. but W/we are still talking about it to see if it will work for U/us my Master said that He wants both of us to keep our minds out to look for another slave that will fit well in with O/our family. He said that in the end the decision is His, but i will get some say in it ... He doesn't want to get another girl that will not work well with me, i am His first slave... a very important position to Him... and absolutely to me that's how W/we have talked about it hope it helps ~*~lil squirrel ~*~ 30 Sep 09, 3:47 PM Master_Sensei FR, 5 yrs Hi to all... I AM in this exact situation before meeting with the second one... I have talk on the web chat and phone with the second and we have to plan our first meeting soon... I, first, thought to go alone to this first meeting, but, reading Your answers to this very actual question to Me, I have changed My mind... My first slave has wished often to have a sister in slavery, now that it seems close to happen she has few doubts about her concern.... I have told her that she will come with to the first meeting and that, if this second fits Me, we will begin with temporary stay with U/us and see how it goes... My first slave just asked Me "ok, but what will You do if I do not feel secure with this second slave ?" My answer was just "well, W/w will talk about it if it happens... W/w cannot go faster than music... " I will tell you the way it will happen... 1 Oct 09, 5:55 PM Daniel SE, 3 yrs ErosPower wrote: Hi to all... I AM in this exact situation before meeting with the second one... I have talk on the web chat and phone with the second and we have to plan our first meeting soon... I, first, thought to go alone to this first meeting, but, reading Your answers to this very actual question to Me, I have changed My mind... My first slave has wished often to have a sister in slavery, now that it seems close to happen she has few doubts about her concern.... I have told her that she will come with to the first meeting and that, if this second fits Me, we will begin with temporary stay with U/us and see how it goes... My first slave just asked Me "ok, but what will You do if I do not feel secure with this second slave ?" My answer was just "well, W/w will talk about it if it happens... W/w cannot go faster than music... " I will tell you the way it will happen... ErosPower: Thanks for riviving this discussion! I think that I would have done the same as you describe, in your situation. "Feeling secure" is probably the core issue concerning poly. I think security can be created, learned and maintained to a certain extent. But in the end the persons involved all have to be suited to the basic idea. In your case it seems that you both are. In my case...hum... We're still exploring it slowly. ~I always wanted to be somebody, but I should have been more specific...~ 4 Oct 09, 9:19 AM Master_Sensei FR, 5 yrs I have talked on phone with the second three times during last week.. My first cries a lot the first time, I have talked a lot with her showing that, as W/we live together this will not change... I AM 45 I have divorced (after 18 years marriage) for this clochette, MY first, and I do not want to change My life again... I know that I want to live the rest of My life with her and that has been said... The second call she was more calm... The fact is that this second slave in 10 older and than the first and that she is very masochist and need to be as she is : the painslut I need. My first slave know this, I have accepted and anwered with deep truth all her questions and this contribute to the confidence and trust she needs to feel ok facing the propably arrival of the second... the first ask Me to flogg her after use and it has been months that she refused it... But as I read in her journal maybe it because the future new one maybe not... I do not care a lot, I appreciate flogging her gently... And we will meet the second next week... I have to read, here, how does it works to train a painslut next to the artist slave I own firstly... Will tell you... 17 Oct 09, 10:54 AM Master_Sensei FR, 5 yrs So I have talked on phone with this second... I have told her to go and see the blog and the site I own (in french) and she was very impressed... she wrote Me that she felt very under Me and she was in fear to deceive Me... I gave her insurance that is My opinion and that she does not have the right to imagine what I may think... she said she was impressed regarding My talents in psychology and My culture and knowledge... she said she need time before encounter... she said that one week ago and did not call back... Maybe I have talked a little too much... My first slave have asked regular soft whipping during this week that I adore to give her... 12 Aug 10, 12:51 PM 870-625-812 NZ, 23 mths had no other way to contact....k