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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "how do you treat a new/old slave" how do you treat a new/old slave (4) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sun 19 Apr 09, 1:17 AM slave_najah_of_VARR CA, 3 yrs Our family has accepted the petition of a girl who was a slave elsewhere,then wasn't a slave for a time. the family has always taught new slaves,by example and explanation should we treat our new sister as a new slave,or rather assume it knows most everything? 19 Apr 09, 1:25 AM kaitlyn 4 yrs I'd recommend being patient but firm. I've been collared before and it's hard sometimes to change old habits and training if your new Domme/Owner/Whatever doesn't like those habits, but it's important. I'm sure she will want to be exactly what your family wants/needs her to be and it's important to help her get there without making her feel like she's doing everything wrong. The most important thing would be making sure she is dedicated to the change. Just my oppinion though. Respectfully, kait 19 Apr 09, 1:52 AM 483-608-929 US(OH), 4 yrs It might be best to start the slave from the beginning, from scratch, because each Master/Mistress has Their own expectations and Their own desires for Their slaves. If there is something that the slave knows well already, the Master/Mistress can make sure it is done to Their satisfaction. The whole process of the training can set the right mindset for a new slave and help them to feel comfortable in their role and help them to know they are doing things as expected. The slave can know they are meeting the desires of their Owner. Written by it with its Owner's permission. Thank you SIR. Ultimately we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a freedom. Marilyn Ferguson Duct tape is like the force, it has a light side and a dark side and it holds the universe together 19 Apr 09, 6:53 PM slave_emma US(OK), 6 yrs Y! Hi najah, It is very likely that your new sister slave was trained differently than the Varr family standards. I know that when I left my former Master; I had to start over to some degree with training when I came to Master Howard. My Master does admit that undoing prior training is much more difficult that teaching someone from scratch. So I wouldn't assume that the new slave already knows everything and she may take longer to adapt to policies and procedures than a new slave. Just be patient and understanding. All good things take time. Best wishes, slave emma Master Howard's little girl 26 Apr 09, 9:58 AM MasterDelvin US(TX), 6 yrs Y! A brand new out of the box slave is one thing completely different from someone who has experienced the life. Though they are experienced, they are still new, as mentioned, to the home, the rules, the people involved and really should be treated as such. Depending on how the Master sees this new slave and to what extent he has pre-screened her, she may have to start completely over. The one and only (and huge) benefit is that the experienced slave has an idea of what to expect, the brand new slave has all her fantasies and illusions to be dispelled, a very real fear to step over the line and onto this road and an even bigger fear that her fantasies and illusions will be dispelled. D