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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Am I fated to be alone forever?" Am I fated to be alone forever? (10) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Tue 7 Apr 09, 10:52 AM 407-694-083 3 yrs I've been searching for a Master for two years. Maybe that's not a long time but to me it seems like forever. At first I had a detailed picture in my mind of what my Master would be like: Arabic, not too muscular but not too skinny or fat, a big uncut cock, around 23-35 years old, have a nice place for us to play, a man with strong values, a man that is not afraid of punishing me too harshly or hurting me too much, kind and caring. Why arabic? I don't know, I've always had a thing for arabic men. I was in a relationship with one for about a year and it was the best one that I've ever been in. However, since that time, I've abandoned my idealistic Master and am searching for ANY Master. Sometimes I just say to myself that I should forget about it and maybe one day I will meet someone. But at the same time I know that if I want something I have to go get it, I don't know, I'm just really confused. If anybody would care to share anything in the way of finding Masters/Mistresses it would be GREATLY appreciated.Thanks. =). By the way, I'm new here. 7 Apr 09, 10:10 PM 504-706-726 US(VA), 3 yrs i can understand that feeling of wanting to be owned and for the last 9 or 10 years i was unowned. At first i too had this ideal image in my head about what my Master should look like, be like and such. But in all honesty its not about those things. Its about the quality of character a Master has. As for looking or finding one, well this is most certainly the place to look. Though i found quickly that once i stopped looking and searching so hard i ended up with a wonderful Master. He's everything i ever dreamed of and more. i don't know what your thoughts are personally on what a slave/submissive is but for me its that need and desire to please that One Man. No matter His looks, background(though if you have any fears concerning those then by all means check Him out), how much money He has or who He used to own. For me, i had to have a Master that could get inside my head, be able to not only posses my body but to posses everything about me. Up till just recently i was just aimlessly floating around hoping that one day i would find my right One. And now i have. ~smiles~ Just have faith that you too will come upon or be found by the right Master. Until then i wish you good luck and many bright blessings. 8 Apr 09, 12:56 AM 483-608-929 US(OH), 4 yrs i've found an overabundance of those who consider themselves a Master on several sites that i have profiles on. Even though i am owned, i still get approached by others and some genuinely seem to be looking for someone in their lives. Possibly it is being female that helps me but overall it seems that there are a lot of people looking for someone out there. Don't give up. Don't rush it, either, and end up in a relationship that is totally wrong and undesirable to both. Try to have fun in the meantime, too, by enjoying experiences that come along and opportunities that open up for you. Life is too short to dwell on what you don't have. Written by it with its Owner's permission. Thank you SIR. Ultimately we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a freedom. Marilyn Ferguson Duct tape is like the force, it has a light side and a dark side and it holds the universe together 8 Apr 09, 10:17 AM JRCs_petk HK, 4 yrs Y! Sweetheart, what you're experiencing is not relegated only to Ms relationships. You're 18. Regardless of what it is you're seeking, you're likely to find frustration at this age. Just be patient. Learn yourself, and yes, one day it will happen. 9 Apr 09, 12:42 AM 407-694-083 3 yrs JRCs_petk wrote: Sweetheart, what you're experiencing is not relegated only to Ms relationships. You're 18. Regardless of what it is you're seeking, you're likely to find frustration at this age. Just be patient. Learn yourself, and yes, one day it will happen. I know, but I really want to find a Master. I suppose I should I listen to my elders and just be patient. I just hope I'm not in my 40's or 50's when I find Him/Her, I can't imagine waiting for that long. However, if that's how long it takes, then so be it. Thank you all for your guidance. Edited 9 Apr 09, 3:48 AM by 407-694-083 17 Apr 09, 8:42 AM 520-035-336 3 yrs 407-694-083 wrote: Am I fated to be alone forever? I've been searching for a Master for two years. Maybe that's not a long time but to me it seems like forever. At first I had a detailed picture in my mind of what my Master would be like: Arabic, not too muscular but not too skinny or fat, a big uncut cock, around 23-35 years old, have a nice place for us to play, a man with strong values, a man that is not afraid of punishing me too harshly or hurting me too much, kind and caring. Why arabic? I don't know, I've always had a thing for arabic men. I was in a relationship with one for about a year and it was the best one that I've ever been in. However, since that time, I've abandoned my idealistic Master and am searching for ANY Master. Sometimes I just say to myself that I should forget about it and maybe one day I will meet someone. But at the same time I know that if I want something I have to go get it, I don't know, I'm just really confused. If anybody would care to share anything in the way of finding Masters/Mistresses it would be GREATLY appreciated.Thanks. =). By the way, I'm new here. all I can say is if u get the chance grab it with both hands.. don't spend the rest of your life wondering 'what if' .. plea e take this from a fool that missed his big chance in its early 20's and not approaching 50 knows it will never happen !! 17 Apr 09, 5:43 PM Master_Jesse US(NM), 5 yrs Y! 407-694-083 wrote: Am I fated to be alone forever? However, since that time, I've abandoned my idealistic Master and am searching for ANY Master. I snipped this line from your post as it is the one that was most worrisome for me. I would just like to say that I've seen the results of subs/slaves who were searching for ANY Master...they found them and the results were not pretty. Please do be careful, there are lots of posers out there who would think nothing of harming you, or worse. Jesse "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -- Martin Luther King, Jr. 17 Apr 09, 8:09 PM IsabellaGrace UK, 3 yrs I believe that there is somebody out there for each of us, no matter what our interests or preferences might be. I met Master when I was 17, when I was completely not looking or even thinking of finding someone. Just enjoy all the experiences you can. It is after all our experiences that make us who we are, as well as personal choices. angelbella Without Him, I have nothing, and the world slips away. 19 Apr 09, 1:39 AM allalone47 US(OH), 6 yrs Dom seeking his slave. Been looking for some time as well. And may have one willing but not collared yet vto me. But still looking. You need to not be to spasifick in what you seek as an ideal Owner. It you keep looking for Master perfict you will miss Master right. 19 Apr 09, 3:54 AM kaitlyn 4 yrs I've found that you can find people in the lifestyle in the oddest of places. I met my current Domme through a mutual friend, but i met a lot of people in general just by wearing a necklace with a lock on it (before I was collared) and by having a similar tattoo on my back. People who have heard of the lock/key symbolism, which is popular in my area at least, tend to ask questions about why you like locks which can lead to some interesting conversations. Don't lose hope or faith that you'll find the right Dominant. It'll come. respectfully, kait Edited 19 Apr 09, 3:55 AM by kaitlyn 29 Apr 09, 2:34 AM 691-475-658 UK, 3 yrs As others have said you may be better not looking for a specific type of person and just be open to different people... you may surprise yourself with who you ultimately end up with A lot of people find their 'other' when they're not looking for them as such... so don't be down. Fate can play some fantastic tricks on us... and we never know what - or who - is around the corner. If I'd had a checklist of a Master, and had stuck to it, I'd not be with M right now - he's almost the complete opposite of what I'd have chosen... but we've been together nearly 10 years now. We also met accidentally when neither of us were looking so it does go to show there is hope. And please don't under-value yourself and go for just anyone... I'd hate for you to feel bad if you find someone who takes advantage... or you fall into the wrong hands. This lifestyle is fantastic when you find the right person... and it really is only a matter of time til you find the right one. Maybe not the right one forever... but the right one for you now. I hope that gives you a little hope Take care lw