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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "M/s on hold" M/s on hold (4) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Tue 31 Mar 09, 6:00 AM EilisMoonfire US(WA), 4 yrs Today Master and I decided to put aside our M/s until our relationship became more stable and recovered from the stress of his deployment and financial difficulties. This was the first time I had ever been alone in my life and it was far harder on me than we thought. The arguments got really bad tonight and included threats of divorce and suicide. We finally got everything back together and calmed down, but we unanimously decided to put M/s on hold until we get our marriage back on track and stabilized. Can I still hang around here even though our M/s is on hold? I see no point in stopping learning about the lifestyle. eilis One day soon Master will come home and this slave will be whole again. 31 Mar 09, 6:28 AM 862-203-011 AU, 5 yrs Personally one would be most surprised if you were the first, or only, people here to have put their M/s on hold. Every couple here has their own way of doing things. For some, in times of trouble, there is a need to tighten the grip, for others the opposite applies. Sometimes relationships need to be taken back to ground zero, so things can be reevaluated and a way forward can be found. For now the best thing you can do is have fun with each other, enjoy each others company and be there for each other. As for your right to lurk, well one can only answer for oneself and say you have as much right to lurk here as the next person Good luck with your journey back to each other. Master's piece 31 Mar 09, 11:02 AM Sklavos_mou_Kyriah 3 yrs Hey Eilis My relationship with My Lady is more LD than face to face these days. Sometimes I feel very slave-like and sometimes not. At best this is little more than a compromise compared to those of you in 24/7. But I still lurk around this "submission" board for I can learn much from it. So what I say is keep lurking. BTW in some parts of Northern England we pronounce the word "look" as "lurk". (just a bit of useless information, - smiles.) To be a true slave is to be truly free Slave/Sklavos 31 Mar 09, 1:54 PM 258-321-589 US, 4 yrs EilisMoonfire wrote: M/s on hold Today Master and I decided to put aside our M/s until our relationship became more stable and recovered from the stress of his deployment and financial difficulties. This was the first time I had ever been alone in my life and it was far harder on me than we thought. The arguments got really bad tonight and included threats of divorce and suicide. We finally got everything back together and calmed down, but we unanimously decided to put M/s on hold until we get our marriage back on track and stabilized. Can I still hang around here even though our M/s is on hold? I see no point in stopping learning about the lifestyle. eilis Although i can only speak for myself there are so many knowledgeable and supportive individuals on here who are willing to give insight that invaluable. i look for words of inspiration that only enhances my Master's wisdom. It is good to have a place to talk where others truly understand with judgement or condemnation. ") respectfully Master David's kahlan my body, my mind, my soul given to be nourished and to feed Master David of AZ's hunger and desire 31 Mar 09, 2:19 PM SeanT70 9 yrs EilisMoonfire wrote: M/s on hold Can I still hang around here even though our M/s is on hold? I see no point in stopping learning about the lifestyle. I'm aware of at least one other that has put their M/s-ness on hold but retained their membership (or subscription) to the forum. There are probably plenty amongst the actively surfing and lurking community (here) that merely use the forums as a learning resource as opposed to having an active M/s or D/s relationship of any kind, and as such there'd be no reason for you to go anywhere Not that profiles can't be reinstated later should you decide to delete (de-activate) it, using your same login details - profile names remain yours and always will, btw. There 'is' an awful lot to learn about this lifestyle, true, but then, this is 'only' a website, and will be here whenever you decide to log back in to it - maintenance periods aside that is Good luck on whatever happens Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~