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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "RIP giolla (Cyndi)" 1 2 3 RIP giolla (Cyndi) (30) This post is on the Other Topics web board. 2 Apr 09, 9:09 PM 520-621-669 US(NC), 4 yrs Y! Will there be a memorial service? If so, would it be appropriate to request for someone in attendance, to take notes or record a writen version of the sevices. This for those that would be unable to attend...although our hearts are with you. If this not appropiate then please forgive me. I know You have too many important arangements to see to and under the circumstaces if must be very difficult. Has any thought be given to sending flowers, making donoations, ect. If you have a moment and have thought about...please direct this slave and others how we might send our condolences. If she would like flowers, which types and colors? If a donation to a charity would be better apopriated...which Charity or organization would you wish the donations made too? Hizslave "i am Master's property. i am owned by Him. my purpose is to bring my Master pleasure and do as he commands. my master protects His property and insures His slave's needs are met. my every action and thought are focused on my Master and His pleasure or desire. yes Master, thank You Master." 3 Apr 09, 12:39 AM submissiveheart US(NY), 6 yrs There are others (besides myself) on this board that have also wondered about sending something in condolences or for the service. 3 Apr 09, 1:30 AM Rolling_Wildheart 6 yrs So far we haven't made any funeral/memorial plans. We are waiting for the autopsy report (hopefully tomorrow). I will ask her mom where a good place for donations would be and get back to everyone. I really appreciate the outpouring of support for my pet (and myself and her family) Wildheart Forsaken/I have come for you tonight/Awaken/Look in my eyes and take my hand/Give yourself up to me. - Dream Theater Edited 3 Apr 09, 1:31 AM by Rolling_Wildheart 3 Apr 09, 5:48 AM 662-935-655 5 yrs Have Y/you ever seen Impatence? A flower, glorious it's true! But once Y/you touch it's petals, it's lovely life is through. You can not catch a spring breeze, it passes through Your hands, like the waves along the beach, treat castles made of sand. it's true the mortal 'coil' can't be kept forevermore And yet she calls to U/us, to Y/you, And waits, on distant shore. she may not return to You, not in this life at least, but somehow, somewhere, she'll find a way, to meet You, when You're called to that feast. Until that day, some part of her, with You will always be, And You will make it through each day, even when You don't want to, You'll see!" From one whose "been there" and "done that" , shed the tears and do so now. (MRS) judith a. LABONTE, 4/2/09 {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} P.S. Pneumonia just plain should be damned to hell! i said it when Master died and i'll say it again! EDITED TO ADD - have had a tree planted with a plaque in her memory - as giolla/Cindi - and i lit a candle and did a Pagan prayer for her to pass into Summeland, Otherworld or whatever h e r tradition of Paganism called a happy after-life. i don't know if Widowers, esp Owners/Doms do this, but i suspect They do. i "talk" to my late Love and Lord and i asked Him to look out for her on the other side as a Protector Pal as Mistress Tiara esp. and almost every Owner/Dom on here and many on Fet-life have done for me here in this world, including YOUR support, WH. i too would like to know where to send the tree certificate. She was so full of life and so i thought something alive, to better this planet, as she did while here, would be best. And let's face it, most of U/us with Pagan inclinations have been know to hug a tree or meditate under one, etc. Yes i know, i'm talking too much - i am freaked out for You, i remeber what it was like! j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! alias "GRANNY" Matrika ye "OLDE" crone, bright blessing! Edited 3 Apr 09, 7:28 PM by 662-935-655 6 Apr 09, 11:19 PM Rolling_Wildheart 6 yrs Just got the word on the autopsy. It was as we thought. A pulmonary embolism (blood clot in the lung). The strange thing about that is she was on a blood thinning medicine. The doctor said only 1% of cases have that happen on a blood thinner. Just goes to show it was her time and there was nothing anyone could do. Several of you have asked about donations. I would say you could choose from the following if you are so inclined: Best Friends Animal Sanctuary http://www.bestfriends.org American Diabetes Association http://www.diabetes.org Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation http://www.jdrf.org National Alliance on Mental Illness http://www.nami.org She supported all of these at one time or another and was very supportive of all of them. The outpouring of support on here has been amazing to me. I (and Cyndi's mother) thank everyone here. We are glad that she made such an impact on people. John (Wildheart) Forsaken/I have come for you tonight/Awaken/Look in my eyes and take my hand/Give yourself up to me. - Dream Theater Edited 7 Apr 09, 7:22 AM by Rolling_Wildheart 7 Apr 09, 7:35 PM submissiveheart US(NY), 6 yrs Thank you for passing on the autopsy report. That is surprising news given the blood-thinners. If was her time to go, as it seems it was, at least you were able to spend time with her these past few months, even if it was within a hospital. Take care. 8 Apr 09, 1:53 AM 110-634-529 US(TX), 6 yrs Sir J... please accept my deepest condolences. As someone that has met you both in person, I will always rememebr the look of joy she had when at your side ... and at your feet. I don't come here much these days but something told me to check in... and this is what I saw. My heart is with you at this time Sir... and I sadly grieve with you. slave jill (of APEX) 14 Apr 09, 2:36 PM VadFarkas US(AZ), 5 yrs Wildheart, my condolences. I was in Mesa at the time due to my dad's passing on the 26th of March. I have been busy and just now saw your post. Easter Sunday a 30 year friend died just as suddenly as your pet and like you said, it was time for them all to leave us. Although some of us think we are in control, this is not the case. I know you will miss her but she will live in your heart forever. Szervus, Vad Farkas, Ringsmith 19 Apr 09, 5:28 AM Rolling_Wildheart 6 yrs More for information purposes only, but we are setting up a memorial for giolla at My church next Saturday (the 25th). Not sure of the time yet. Will have that tomorrow. Just for those who are interested. Wildheart Forsaken/I have come for you tonight/Awaken/Look in my eyes and take my hand/Give yourself up to me. - Dream Theater 23 Apr 09, 5:17 PM 741-498-880 4 yrs I came here specifically to post to this thread.... I am sorry to hear of your loss and she was a good woman, I know my words aren't enough to make it feel less painful for you, but my thoughts are with you through this time.. She will be missed by me too. I wish you well, emma