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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Hello!" Hello! (8) This post is on the Other Topics web board. Sat 28 Mar 09, 4:46 AM Dominnie US, 3 yrs Greetings to everyone on these boards. I am Dominnie and this is my first post. (>O.O)> <(O.O<) Dance, dance! Anyway, a bit about myself... I am almost twenty, live in the US and have plenty of interesting hobbies and interests. One of the biggest interests I have is learning more about D/s, bondage, tying rope, new techniques, you name it... I am a female, a lesbian and a Dominant. I am always happy to find new friends (and friendship is ALL I am looking for and I will get to more about that in a second...), male or female, young or old, straight or non-straight and everything in-between. My slave is also my wife. At the moment, she is in a man's body... She was born male, though her mind, heart and soul is that of a female. She is looking into taking hormones, as well as having surgery in the future. She has a wonderfully feminine face and a beautiful hourglass shape which helps with this. She is, however, VERY shy and does not have a lot of confidence that she looks good as her true, feminine self. This is something I am going to help her overcome, I hope. If there is anyone transgender on this board, or anyone that is in-the-know, we would love to hear any advice, etc. that you have to offer. As for what I am seeking... Friendship. There are so many in this lifestyle and sadly, a lot of what may be common, day-to-day conversations between us, just isn't something you can share with vanilla friends right off the bat. I have been a Dominant and a wife for a couple of years now and a lesbian for even longer. So if anyone is in need of advice, or just would like someone to talk to, I would be glad to help or listen or just talk. ^_^ Other then that... At the moment, I am VERY interested in learning to tie rope bondage. Does anyone know any helpful sites? Thanks for reading and looking forward to getting to know everyone! Edited Sat 28 Mar 09, 5:19 AM by Dominnie 28 Mar 09, 8:16 AM boston UK, 12 yrs Yet AGAIN may I point out the dedicated "hello" thread for anyone wishing to say hello http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178297/ 10 Apr 09, 4:25 PM Nemesis_x UK, 4 yrs New members are never going to be aware of old posts or know how things work here straight off the cuff. Isn't that the point, to learn? i thought people who were generally interested in M/s, D/s lifestyle were welcome, why put them off by being hostile? is it so hard to be nice to new members? or is that me being a little too submissive? Dominnie, i'll memo you with regards to your post lucy x 11 Apr 09, 1:21 AM 902-660-194 US(PA), 6 yrs yeah im kinda agreeing here. my gram always said you have to pick & choose your battles and it seems this is one your never gonna win. i know when i first came here the first thought in my head wasnt "let me look for an introduction thread" tho i never really introduced myself to begin with lol. maybe if there was a way Tanos could lock an intro thread to the top of the list? that would solve the problem & if people didnt intro there, then you could go get em ~peace the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession.. 14 Apr 09, 8:13 AM M_Shea US(CA), 3 yrs 902-660-194 wrote: maybe if there was a way Tanos could lock an intro thread to the top of the list? that would solve the problem & if people didnt intro there, then you could go get em What you're describing is called a sticky, and they also almost never work :-/ At least in my experience. It is a good idea, however, and it helps the people who actually put some time into it. Plus, as they are often forum rules, it would totally justify ripping into newbs (edit:which I should add I consider myself here ) who violate them Edited 15 Apr 09, 3:00 AM by M_Shea 14 Apr 09, 5:49 PM Bella_Ragazza US(RI), 6 yrs I second that for a sticky thread, I think people will use it and all the threads we have now on intros alone seems to be a lot. Bella 15 Apr 09, 1:06 AM Dominnie US, 3 yrs Honestly, because of the first reply I got in this post, I did not want to keep using this forum. However I logged in to check and see what was going on and I had a really nice memo. So I am staying here for now, since many people can be quite nice. 15 Apr 09, 12:42 PM 902-660-194 US(PA), 6 yrs Dominnie wrote: Honestly, because of the first reply I got in this post, I did not want to keep using this forum. However I logged in to check and see what was going on and I had a really nice memo. So I am staying here for now, since many people can be quite nice. im glad you're stayin ~peace the sting of His whip~ the welts from His crop~ the warmth of His kiss~ the click of the lock~ assures me i am His most cherished possession.. 16 Apr 09, 5:32 PM SeanT70 9 yrs boston wrote: Yet AGAIN may I point out the dedicated "hello" thread for anyone wishing to say hello http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178297/ Ya know, n offence, but even though we do have the intro threads up and about the place, and I'm a great one for chewin' a newb's head off if they discuss something in the wrong light, this OP 'was' in Off Topic, and so, wasn't this a little harsh b? It's not as if an LDR topic got sprawled all over the place in Submission or some such. Extending a hand and re-directing with a reason why is more the way, even for me - and that's saying somethin' (the 'AGAIN' made it a bit hostile, see, as the others said) Jeez, I must be gettin' old... Welcome, btw Dominnie. Sean. 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