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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Piercings and jingling" Piercings and jingling (7) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Fri 27 Mar 09, 8:49 PM decomissioned 6 yrs Opinions please.... Having just changed to larger gague- they seem a bit noisy ..... I would love another few opinions Edited Sat 14 Aug 10, 2:52 PM by decomissioned 27 Mar 09, 9:16 PM Master_Teel US(TX), 4 yrs I would think you're being overly sensitive. My pet has the same "problem", in fact, probably even moreso since hers are segment rings (no bead to mess up the resonance). If it bothers you, maybe she just needs to be more conscious of how she walks in public settings. Master_Teel Use Google to search SD: http://www.google.com/advanced_search?q=+site:se... Edited 27 Mar 09, 9:17 PM by Master_Teel 27 Mar 09, 9:39 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs What you're describing sounds like a 6 gauge (4.1mm= 6ga), i wouldn't think others could really hear them tinkling together. If it is really audible, maybe you might consider a different shaped piece of jewelry. Maybe instead of a ring style more of a short bar bell? MacCain wears 00ga (in his ears) and they are hefty enough to make some noise if they clanked together, so he just wears tunnels, or plugs. There are so many different materials that jewelry can be made of as well. Maybe a different material would be less noisy? Also, could she walk with her legs closer together? (i haven't seen her walk... so naturally, i don't know if that is the issue). If all else fails you could have her wear bells around her waist, ankles, and wrists... then she'd make so much noise nobody would know where the jingle was coming from! p i breathe because He allows me, indulging Him indulges me. 28 Mar 09, 1:52 AM 373-468-022 US(WA), 3 yrs Y! Shamanic wrote: Larger gague below the belt Opinions please.... Am I overly sensitive to the thought that very ocasionally someone unkinked could make the connection and realise? ..... I would love another few opinions This used to concern me too, but i've found a way to rationalize to myself at least. MG states he never noticed the jingling until i mentioned my concerns. So i wonder if since we know the rings are there and make a noise that we don't "hear" it louder, from *that* area too. Unless it was a very quiet place with no other noise and she walked i think most wouldn't notice it, and if they did not even consider it could be jewelry *down there*. But, as i said, that is only my way of rationalizing the same situation. MGs "It's the submissives that show to others what type of Dom owns them." - Anonymous "If you want to kiss the sky, better learn how to kneel." Mysterious Ways- U2 28 Mar 09, 4:34 PM 483-608-929 US(OH), 4 yrs If it is noticed in a public setting, and someone puts two and two together, they evidently have some experience with the lifestyle and You may get an envious sigh or chuckle but there will be no damnation. A person who does not realize will assume it's change in a pocket, a necklace they cannot see, or something in her purse. They will not comment or speculate - in one ear and right out the other. Proper society does not think of such things and would not speculate on that. You would have to have a kinky mind to put that together. If You and she are ok with it, it should be ok. She might even have fun with others speculating (i know i would ). Written by it with its Owner's permission. Thank you SIR. Ultimately we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a freedom. Marilyn Ferguson Duct tape is like the force, it has a light side and a dark side and it holds the universe together 28 Mar 09, 9:35 PM fireflies US(TX), 4 yrs i agree with what everyone has said so far. i am cognisant that my rings are there so i hear them, while the sound is probably oblivious and too faint for others to notice. NO ONE has ever said to me, "What is that sound?" or "Do you hear a clinking sound?" In fact, even i do not hear them that often anymore, but have them twist around each other, and i KNOW they are there! edited to add my labia ring size... they are 8 gauge segmented rings i am my Master's tattooed and pierced whore, slut & cunt. i am His, He owns ALL of me, i do everything to please Him. Edited 28 Mar 09, 9:37 PM by fireflies 7 May 09, 11:28 AM 133-893-224 DE, 3 yrs Well, i´m really convinced, that >out there< are many >non-kinked< people wearing intimate jewellery as a part of their personal lifestyle, probally in even larger gauges then 4mm. And they might also >sound< a little. Ordenary people might think a lot of things, make a lot of judgements and have a lot of prejudices. Intimate jewellery is surely not >ordenary< and >common<. This means, that Piercings are at least a bit >kinky< anyhow, even if there is no BDSM-Context behind at all. Even with small Rings the decission is made not to stay common any longer. Therefore >normal< charakters will chatter anyhow. If You like the intimate jewelery of Your toy so much - why don't You leaveist as ist is right now? To get marked is easy for a slave/submissive. But to bear its mark with pride - that can sometimes be a real challenge for the object. Won't you let your toy the gift and grace of such a challenge? 27 Jun 09, 11:30 PM Drummer_Dom US(IN), 4 yrs Y! there is a lot of truth in all these replies, as there are in the replies to the recent thread about wearing a collar in public. We as humans tend to "clump" other humans together. we assume they know what we know, they hear what we hear, so on and so forth. Many people are happy to accept the simplest explanation for something. In this case, the jingling is far more likely to be pocket change than her jewelry. Furthermore, you may be "forcing" other to experience your/our kink, but plenty of women out there have genital piercings simply because they like it. Nothing kinky about it, and no one has complained about that.