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	TSR : Web boards : Website help : "Newcomer to the boards with question." 1 2 3 Newcomer to the boards with question. (25) This post is on the Website help web board. 7 Mar 09, 6:45 PM ClairesCO UK, 3 yrs 996-777-778 wrote: At this point, we have a submissive that wants a SLRN and that wants to express his submission with people that think in SIMILAR ways. I am sorry if I have challenged the given perception of submission. It was never my intent to go against the board. #996-777-778 I'm not sure you have challenged the perception of submission, I think most of the replies are saying "Welcome, but there's a time and a place." I didn't actually say that, so welcome from Claire and I. My own view is that there have been times when Claire's posted here when she's needed a friend. Many threads are from people needing support and advice. On those type of threads she wouldn't welcome anything that made light of whatever was on her mind. If you wanted to reply to her on those threads then I'd appreciate it if you replied as yourself. On a clearly marked thread, or a more light hearted one where she knew what she was getting, neither of us would mind what you posted. If you can find a way of striking that balance then I'm sure you'll make friends here. Will 7 Mar 09, 7:01 PM 996-777-778 3 yrs If I may be so brave as to call this issue for what it is. All of us that post here has a given idea of what "Real" means. That "Real" has split off from most people. Indeed, if you ask most Vanilla people what a "Real" slave is, you would get an answer that would be different from your own. Does one "Real" get to trump the other? Yes. I used the word "Fiction". I will not deny that. Better diction would have been "Vehicle". My Views remain the same, and arrive at the same destination. I could be boring, and still get my thoughts across. Personally I will not argue that your "Real" is fiction, there are a lot of Vanilla people who hate us and argue that none of this is truly "Real". I am not trying to split this community apart. You don't want me to post my view. You suggest that I become "real" by adopting your "real". It is very hard to balance that I can be myself, if only I become just like everyone else. I am not denying what we are, we can never forget that for most people (Vanilla - and indeed most of society) we are at an arm's legnth away from "Real". To those people, and not me mind you, all of this remains a fiction. Our disenting views are both treated as false. Edited 7 Mar 09, 7:02 PM by 996-777-778 7 Mar 09, 7:28 PM 996-777-778 3 yrs ClairesCO wrote: If you wanted to reply to her on those threads then I'd appreciate it if you replied as yourself. On a clearly marked thread, or a more light hearted one where she knew what she was getting, neither of us would mind what you posted. If you can find a way of striking that balance then I'm sure you'll make friends here. Will As I stated: -------------------------------------- I am not owned, yet I would like to maintain being submissive. Most of us here have a D/O/M and with that a given set of rules we live daily. These include but are not limited to constraints on how we post and indeed if we can post to SD. I am no different, and beyond that, I wish to also provide my rules along with my posts and threads. To be sure, I know that I have a gap to bridge with my idea to the vast majority of ideas on display here. -Including the rules that I intend to post by. I have methods of doing that ready to go as soon as Admin says I can proceed. --------------------------------------- I intend to acclimate to this board. If you do not believe this, then you have lost sight of the intent of the OP. I figured it would be interesting for you all to see how I do this, given the constraints I have placed for myself. These measures will actually ensure that I am ""Real"" to you, and that I can still cary on my ideas in their correct time and place. 7 Mar 09, 7:51 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs So are you saying you are a three year old Raccoon who suffers from delusions in real life? Is THAT your reality? For a raccoon i must say your English and keyboarding abilities are SUPERB i must say. Kudos. Look, these boards are for everyone. No one is trying to run you off. But suggesting that your "Meeko" story has ANYTHING to do with possession is ludacris. Lets stay on topic and talk about possession relationships. i'm only allowed to post here because there are others here that can understand. If the board becomes about fantasy, i will loose this place as a place to connect with others. MacCain has no interest in allowing me to have contact with fantasists. Do you intend to drive away people in M/s relationships so that you can continue this experiment? Again talk about your experience with submission, by all means... just leave your stories off topic. p i breathe because He allows me, indulging Him indulges me. 7 Mar 09, 7:57 PM Bella_Ragazza US(RI), 6 yrs My opinion is based upon the OP. I think that it would be a wonderful idea to post this things, that is if Tanos says OK, in the off topic section. People post all kinds of things there and I don't see posting something like this "bad". I think it will be interesting and entertaining. This world is so serious, I think something like this is good for the boards once and a wile. Though it will be all up to what Tanos says. Bella 7 Mar 09, 8:01 PM Sir4Ryco 6 yrs Hi 996-777-778, This isn't a debate about whether differing opinions exist it's about whether or not the 'vehicle' of fiction is appropriate to a board about 'real life' M/s relationships. Without your need to launch into some discussion about epistemology . . . for humans what is real exists within the system that defines it. You have joined a forum with a system in place for expression and interaction and have simply said, "I will express myself how I like and in the manner I desire." On a social justice level . . . good for you. No one here is saying you don't have the right to express yourself but it is also appropriate to have social graces . . . to not feel the need to dominate a forum with your literary need to fictionally express a submission that may or may not be real. It's one thing to explore yourself in fiction and completely another to explore yourself in a 24/7 relationship. The relations you fictionally believe you might have with another person, who may or may not exist, might not even be related to the reactions that you will have in a flesh and blood relationship. So then . . . no I don't find any interest in myself to read a piece of fiction in which an un owned submissive expresses a fantasy of what his being owned might be like. Write your fiction if you must but don't get wrapped if some of us treat and perhaps (if you are a lousy writer of fiction) critique you as a purveyor of (bad) fiction. I'd rather learn about the 'real' you (and in my epistemology such a thing as a 'real you' does exist . . . there is no pluralism in my perception). Take care. Sir4Ryco 7 Mar 09, 8:20 PM 996-777-778 3 yrs property_of_MacCain wrote: i'm only allowed to post here because there are others here that can understand. If the board becomes about fantasy, i will loose this place as a place to connect with others. MacCain has no interest in allowing me to have contact with fantasists. I am perfectly fine with MacCain telling you what you can and can not do. I respect that. Please respect that MacCain does not tell me what I can and can not do. Do not act as if he does. I have no control over what you do, or not do. Do not act is if I do. Indeed, we both know who has that power. I never wanted it. Edited 7 Mar 09, 8:21 PM by 996-777-778 7 Mar 09, 8:20 PM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs 996-777-778 wrote: It would seem that even now, I am amazed that I still have to wait for an "official" response. Even if that never comes, I can not ignore what I have heard already. I don't understand why you are amazed. The idea of a website, although for public use, being the property and responsibility of its owner is not new. Neither is the idea that the way in which it is used is ultimately the owner's prerogative. I think he will answer your request for exception as his time allows but until then it isn't unreasonable that you accept and follow the rules as they are posted. 996-777-778 wrote: Is this idea ok? Do I have the go ahead to continue? I took this question to be sincerely asked, and to my understanding of what's been posted, the answers are both "no". But you've refused these answers by attempting to systematically invalidate any reasons given. Had I expected this sort of response, I would not have taken the time to post to your thread. Whether you are allowed to proceed is up to Admin. But my feeling (more strongly put, this time) is that what you are proposing is theatre. This is not the place for it nor is it welcome. Eva (The property formerly known as Camille ) Edited 7 Mar 09, 8:22 PM by EvaMaria 7 Mar 09, 8:40 PM ClairesCO UK, 3 yrs 996-777-778 wrote: Please respect that MacCain does not tell me what I can and can not do. Do not act as if he does. I have no control over what you do, or not do. Do not act is if I do. Indeed, we both know who has that power. I never wanted it. You're crossing the line into rudeness with your responses to p, so forgive me if I become a little more blunt myself. Your desire to post fiction is neither here nor there for me. I'm neither interested nor offended, so long as you are able to tell when something is appropriate or not. Your earlier reply to me asks me to trust that you do know when something is appropriate, some of your replies on this thread are making me doubt that. Will Edited 7 Mar 09, 8:41 PM by ClairesCO 7 Mar 09, 8:42 PM Admin 12 yrs 996-777-778 wrote: Putting these ideas together, I decided to start a fiction of how I became 996-777-778 along with a method of """treatment""" (Yes, three quotes.) A majority of my posts will take the form of Internal Memos from the treatment facility I am currently a patient of. Is this idea ok? Do I have the go ahead to continue? No, that wouldn't be on-topic for any of the SD! boards, apart form Off-topic which is a place to put stuff that really should be somewhere else. Why not start a weblog on Livejournal or Blogger, and post your story there? 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