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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Master Love Lost somewhere" Master Love Lost somewhere (6) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Mon 2 Mar 09, 9:28 AM chelle_Moon US(CA), 3 yrs I would like to know from some other Master's on what a Slave needs to do to get her Master to be with her. I did something wrong and I got punshed for it but I still feel like I am beening punished. I have not had my Master to make love to me or spank me or whip me in about a month now. I got in trouble going to someone else because he has not been with me. I don't want to lose him but I need some love from him. Please help me keep him and making him understand I need his attendation real soon or I am going to go wondering again and I will lose him. 2 Mar 09, 9:38 AM JRCs_petk HK, 4 yrs Y! I'm not sure this is something somebody can offer a bandaid for. Different relationships have different styles, and different methods of coping. What works for one couple, may not work for you. I'd suggest your best option is to speak to your Master about your feelings, and try to solve it between the two of you. Communication can work wonders. 2 Mar 09, 11:35 AM Oysterspearl US(VA), 3 yrs JRCs_petk wrote: I'm not sure this is something somebody can offer a bandaid for. Different relationships have different styles, and different methods of coping. What works for one couple, may not work for you. I'd suggest your best option is to speak to your Master about your feelings, and try to solve it between the two of you. Communication can work wonders. i agree with this totally. Every realtionship is different but the best advice that can be given is to communicate with your Master. Hope it all works out 3 Mar 09, 1:45 AM masterfiremaam US(WV), 5 yrs If you really want to learn the life lesson that's involved with this, you need to look at WHY you "need" physical attention. Do you need it because this is your love language (i.e. how you need others to say they love you) or is it because you base your self worth on the acceptance of others and you've come to believe that men show their acceptance/approval by having physical relations with you. Master Fire **The power of who we are can be intoxicating.** **The power of who we could be is humbling.** **Yet, we are assured we are exactly as we should be.** 3 Mar 09, 10:44 PM Hesperus US(CT), 3 yrs Y! I am probably going to make some people angry here with this answer. If so inclined anyone can memo me their disapproval. :^) I do not see how abandoning a slave is useful. Ignoring a slave for a short period maybe but a month seems excessive. In my opinion, my opinion (again), a slave learns more with a Master teaching them rather than leaving them alone. When baby slave has a problem we go into intensive training to work out the issue. If she could work it out alone she would have already. It is My job to teach her using all the tools available to me in this lifestyle. Anyhow, I really do hope I did not offend anyone. This is just my two cents worth. 4 Mar 09, 1:39 AM Lord_Laraby US(NY), 6 yrs Y! 151-648-868 wrote: Master Love Lost somewhere I got in trouble going to someone else because he has not been with me. I don't want to lose him but I need some love from him. Which came first, the chicken or the egg. It sounds like you acted out first and broke the bond of trust by being unfaithful to your D/O/M. Now ehn he is having trouble coming to terms with your infidelity you want to lambaste him in a public forum for not fucking you? It sounds to me like you are learning nothing from your experience. I hope you take this as a suggestion, but you need to go to him and talk about what you did and how you feel about it. Ask for forgiveness and then stop whining. Call me LL 4 Mar 09, 1:51 AM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs 151-648-868 wrote: Master Love Lost somewhere I would like to know from some other Master's on what a Slave needs to do to get her Master to be with her. I did something wrong and I got punshed for it but I still feel like I am beening punished. I have not had my Master to make love to me or spank me or whip me in about a month now. I got in trouble going to someone else because he has not been with me. I don't want to lose him but I need some love from him. Please help me keep him and making him understand I need his attendation real soon or I am going to go wondering again and I will lose him. While I tend to agree with Hesperus that the time here might be excessive, I don't know what it is that you did, nor the context of it in your relationship. I also want to caveat that what follows: I am only responding to what I can find out about you and your situation here on this list. There are any number of pertinent facts that I don't/can't know that may totally negate anything said here. I have two basic observations: 1. The description of what you say indicates to me that you didn't just disobey your Master, but hurt him, perhaps deeply. If you did only he can help you undo it. (If you did, letting him know that you are about to 'stray' again isn't helping.) 2. Several statements you make here, on your profile and in another thread make me question your understanding of submission/slavery. You say you have yielded to him heart, mind, body and soul, yet you went to another. That doesn't say “owned” to me. You say you need to know how to “make” him understand your needs and respond to those needs or you will go wandering again. That doesn't say “owned” to me. In the thread on branding a slave you ask why someone would brand their slave. You love your Master and that aught to be enough for him. That doesn't say “owned” to me. You can't make him love you or Master you on your terms. The only thing you can MAKE your Master do is decide to release you. My suggestion is to search your heart, mind, body and soul and determine if a slave is who and what you are. If it is, and this Master is where you need to be, go to Him, explain yourself, beg His mercy and expect to be pushed past your perceived limits to prove you are sincere. Again, I don't know your situation or enough about either of Y/you to say if any of my observations are fact, but you asked for opinions and observations of Masters and these are mine. Selah. There is no authority, only responsibility.