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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "How do I humiliate my Slave on public place?" 1 2 How do I humiliate my Slave on public place? (14) This post is on the Other Topics web board. Tue 17 Feb 09, 1:02 AM masterjay4p 3 yrs I'm pretty new here. I'm having nice Slave, then I would like to humiliate him on Public place. If you have good idea, or had good experience before, please post it. Thanks. Edited Tue 17 Feb 09, 1:03 AM by masterjay4p 19 Feb 09, 5:15 PM 599-992-073 US, 3 yrs Posted with Masters permission Master had me wear my collar to a local bar and somteimes has me naked in the car at night. Master has told me He is considering other things as forms of training such as face down or kneeling next to Him in a mall. To teach me that i am His slave everywhere we go, cause Master says sometimes when W/we are out of Masters home i seem to forget. i am working on it and i am determined to fix it for Master. baby slave 19 Feb 09, 5:55 PM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs masterjay4p wrote: How do I humiliate my Slave on public place? I'm pretty new here. I'm having nice Slave, then I would like to humiliate him on Public place. If you have good idea, or had good experience before, please post it. Thanks. Welcome, I haven't found humiliation to be a useful tool, so I don't use it. (If I ever have a slave that it would seem appropriate who knows?) As for using a public place, I would council BSDM public, not vanilla public; just to avoid involving those who have not consented to participate in your personal life. Selah. There is no authority, only responsibility. 19 Feb 09, 6:06 PM anjuli UK, 4 yrs Well said Odin. Remember that your audience in a mall or a street or wherever hasn't consented to viewing your scenes and are likely to misunderstand and disapprove or laugh openly at the very least. It's one of those things that sounds hot but may be less fun in reality. No D/O/M can be entirely in control in a public place... and he or she needs to factor that in to their decision making and risk assessment. I have to say depending on what it was and how in your face I might disapprove and I'm fully informed. You need to consider what an uninformed audience will conclude and how that informs their knowledge and opinions of the community in general. anjuli *** The quality of strength lined with tenderness is an unbeatable combination, as are intelligence and necessity when unblunted by formal education. *** Maya Angelou *** Edited 20 Feb 09, 7:44 AM by anjuli 20 Feb 09, 4:44 AM SeanT70 9 yrs masterjay4p wrote: How do I humiliate my Slave on public place? I'm having nice Slave, then I would like to humiliate him on Public place. Discussing these concepts is one thing; making them happen is another entirely. Remember, you would presumably be in that same place at that same time. I'm wondering who would be more humiliated by the whole experience after it's whole fruition, your 'nice' slave - or you. Having discussed that your slave is 'nice', they could turn quite the contrary having been subjected to something like this (and worry about any punishment after), and moreover, you're asking many more people than just that person under your control (I'm talking about the public at large now if that's not clear) to suffer the open humiliation of having to watch you put someone through something that you don't so much as know if they might be comfortable with. In some places you'd stand to get your head kcked in, let alone be humliated for what you're doing. If you're looking to use humilation as a tool, and why you'd want to, hell knows, then perhaps both of you would be better suited to keeping it privately. A great many people would appreciate it, I suspect. Oh, and you won't so easily get arrested for something that happens there either. A lot to think about for something that's not really worth a econd's thought. Sean Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 20 Feb 09, 1:02 PM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs 000-874-172 wrote: If you're looking to use humilation as a tool, and why you'd want to, hell knows, In the Practical IE boards there is a thread on Emotional Humiliation where a couple of slaves have voiced their desire/need for such. I have no positive experience with it but apparently some have. Each to their own, if it works for them fine by me. My only concern is involving people without their consent. It can only be degrees of bad for the individuals and for us as a group. Selah. There is no authority, only responsibility. 20 Feb 09, 2:20 PM SeanT70 9 yrs Master_Odin wrote: 000-874-172 wrote: If you're looking to use humilation as a tool, and why you'd want to, hell knows, In the Practical IE boards there is a thread on Emotional Humiliation where a couple of slaves have voiced their desire/need for such. I can see that, but I can also see that such methods used on an involuntary basis, where a slave was 'subjected' to them would be anything but productive - and certainly reflects badly on the community as a whole, as you suggest. For me, it was asking for 'handy hints on public humiliation' reminded me of my (non-M/s, and years ago) family asking about how to deal with my unruly brother; and their dealing with him - badly - had consequences. He, for one, became more introverted in private, and in the very few public occasions, was very hard to cope with; this would similarly be where my concern lies on the OP. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 20 Feb 09, 5:04 PM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs 000-874-172 wrote: I can see that, but I can also see that such methods used on an involuntary basis, where a slave was 'subjected' to them would be anything but productive If I understand the posters in the other thread correctly, they were subjected to it on an involuntary basis and were quite surprised to find afterwards that they enjoyed/had a need for the experience. Like you, this has not been my experience but the posters seem sincere. I don't really understand it yet which is probably why the topic has piqued my interest. I am sorry about your brother but there are significant differences between an M/s relationship and a family one. One can reasonably expect different outcomes. Selah There is no authority, only responsibility. 20 Feb 09, 10:39 PM Sir4Ryco 6 yrs Hi masterjay4p, I actually use humiliation as a training and punishment tool. I think that it works well with my particular slave but I would never humiliate her in public. This is because I know her. My slave has a self-esteem problem in public settings and she spends most of her time worrying if everything is O.K. around her. If something goes wrong with anything around her she begins to wonder if people will think it was her fault . . . she is nearly terrified of public judgement. If you plan to use humiliation as a training tool make sure that you know your slave's psychological foibles well or you could create trust barriers that will come back to bite you on the ass. The wrong type of humiliation can cause mild post-traumatic stress syndrom in some people. My daughter put her bag in the wrong place in a line two mornings ago and another child publicly rebuked her for it. She was still hurt and in tears about it when I brought her home . . . she cried while I cuddled her on the couch. She's still talking about how it made her feel judged and she hated that everyone was looking at her. The humiliation of it hurt her little psyche and now she'll be nervous when the class has another cue. Therefore the stimulus of humiliation has had a negative effect on my daughter and conditioned her to dread similar circumstances. I think that humiliation can be used more subtly in a public setting. Something as simple as having to leave the gathering exactly when the owner wants would be viewed as humiliating by most adults in western society. When a slave stays close and attentive in a public setting most people notice and wonder why . . . simple service can bring a separation from the societal norm and induce humiliation. Keep it simple and subtle. Take care. Sir4Ryco 21 Feb 09, 10:37 AM Rolling_Wildheart 6 yrs One time I was in a grocery store with giolla. she pointed out to Me a couple who, whenever the man would stop in an aisle to look for something, the woman would sit cross-legged on the floor beside him. Now, there could possibly be a medical reason for this. Perhaps she couldn't stand in one place too long. Who knows? But it certainly looked as if it was a Master/slave protocol between the two. And no one in the store at that time made anything of it. That being said, I'm not sure I would subject My slave to anything that overt in public. I have made her dress up in the town she lived in (pupulation about 6,500) like a street walker would and make her get out of the car to do things so people would see her (some she probably knew), but that was a part of a punishment for a very serious transgression. As a general rule, I don't engage in that kind of public activity with her unless W/we are at a BDSM club or somewhere of that ilk. Wildheart Forsaken/I have come for you tonight/Awaken/Look in my eyes and take my hand/Give yourself up to me. - Dream Theater Edited 21 Feb 09, 4:49 PM by Rolling_Wildheart 21 Feb 09, 11:57 AM SeanT70 9 yrs Master_Odin wrote: I am sorry about your brother but there are significant differences between an M/s relationship and a family one. One can reasonably expect different outcomes. No-one was ever really sure what his problem was (very complicated to explain), and he's been missing for a good while now, but I simply used that as a model to show that sometimes, 'making' someone doing something against their will really won't cut it. I do realise and understand that the two kinds are entirely different, and as such would have different outcomes - perhaps my reference was misplaced, but nevertheless, all I'm saying is that the effects of any kind of humiliating play or tactic might not have the result someone sets out to achieve, especially in a 'newbie' relationship. Again, older, more seasoned ones are an entirely different kettle of fish. Sean. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ Next page