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	TSR : Web boards : Internal Enslavement : "My kids" 1 2 My kids (17) This post is on the Internal Enslavement web board. Sun 15 Feb 09, 2:35 AM NICOLI US(TN), 3 yrs Y! I know that one day i will want to have kids. The slave i have though wants 24/7 enslavement (i'm still not good with the abbreviations "Ie i think) Well i treat her with great respect but if she misbehaves a punishment is fully expected. Children are curius eventually my future child will find out what kind of life style we live so questions like, Why is mommy in timeout? I came home early from school today and found mommy in a dog kennel while you were showering. things like this make me wonder. How do kids and our master/slave relationship interact? I mean there are many questions i have for this subject but i can only ask so many while still keeping this within reason for reading time. Is there anyone out there who has kids while living with this lifestyle? Anyone with insght or advice would be greatly appreciated. ~Master-Nicoli~ 15 Feb 09, 4:56 AM 276-730-264 US, 3 yrs my Master and i have children, but do not impose our lifestyle choice on them or put them in a position to feel embarassed by it. We live the lifestyle discreetly in front of our children and family. He still owns me and controls me, even in discretion. Good luck to you and yours.-276-730-264 15 Feb 09, 5:02 AM 599-992-073 US, 3 yrs Posted with Masters permission Masters children were teenagers when i became his slave. Master and i were very careful when the children were around and did training and punishments after they were in bed. Master gave me rules for strict slave times when the children weren't around and rules for when the children were around. The rules for when the children were around were more relaxed so that the children wouldn't notice. For example instead of saying "Master" when the kids were around i called Master "Sir". Instead of going face down when entering or leaving a room i would kiss Master. Dealing with kids just takes thought and planning, when you know they are due Master does not do something the kids would not understand, like the dog cage. i hope that helps... Baby Slave 15 Feb 09, 2:10 PM nura_MJM UK, 3 yrs me and my Master have a 18 month old and this is a worry for us, Master will save all punishments and M/s till the little one goes to sleep... i do worry about how much our 18 month will see and try to be discrete i never call my Master infront of her or anything like that. Edited 15 Feb 09, 2:11 PM by nura_MJM 15 Feb 09, 2:37 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs There are three children in the MacCain home, ranging in age from 2 1/2- 11. The kids have an early bedtime and anything they shouldn't see is done then, or behind closed doors. Most of the services i have to do can be done in front of them. Because there are children in the home i'm clothed, but other than that nothing else is different. i call MacCain "Sir" not "Master" at all times... so there is no worry i'll slip in front of them. What the kids see is a very devoted and respectful mother. They just think we have a tradition family. They comment after being at friends houses that they like how our family is, because they like that there is structure and balance. They find other families distressing because they see a lack of respect and order. They are appalled when other kids talk back or they see other mothers behave in a disrespectful manor. Everything has worked well for us. As for you and yours, enjoy this time you have children less. Don't stress out about what may be. If you are committed it will work out. p i breathe because He allows me, indulging Him indulges me. 16 Feb 09, 5:04 PM NICOLI US(TN), 3 yrs Y! McCain you should feel very prud you have the household that you have. It is one that i strive to have one day as well. A structured houshold with everyone respecting everyone. Although i have quite some time to think about this we as adults know almost everything about out parents i mean we live with them for 18 yrs sometimes longer and sometime shorter. Thankyou to all your reponses have more then helpful. I still can't help but be curious. What happens when they find out? because they will. I do look forward though because they will be curious and have questions about it i mean i'm happy ad content with this lifestyle. Maybe they will be to? Once again thankyou all again. ~Nicoli-Johans~ 16 Feb 09, 5:41 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs NICOLI wrote: ... we as adults know almost everything about out parents i mean we live with them for 18 yrs sometimes longer and sometime shorter. Yes, to a degree. There are things your kids don't want to know, so they won't ask. i'm honest with my kids, they know everything i do have consequences. They are aware i get punished. They are aware i don't like to be punished so i try my best not to do anything that would get me punished. They are also aware i adore MacCain...and would bend over backwards to make him happy. They know he likes to hurt me for fun...i never let them see me upset about it, so they don't care. They understand that is just how we play. i don't act upset, so they go on with thier day. NICOLI wrote: What happens when they find out? because they will. In the MacCain house we don't hide our dynamic, so there is no "finding out". Only bedroom stuff is hidden, same as most vanilla couples. Most parents don't have sex in front of thier kids. All kids figure out that thier parents have had sex and move on... i figure ours will as well. i probably won't tell them details... because that would be creepy and unnessisary... same as vanilla parents wouldn't give details. Really, i never asked my parents how they got their freak on, did you? p i breathe because He allows me, indulging Him indulges me. 16 Feb 09, 6:53 PM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs NICOLI wrote: What happens when they find out? because they will. I do look forward though because they will be curious and have questions about it i mean i'm happy ad content with this lifestyle. Maybe they will be to? With the exception of his grandson (toddler) those in our home range from 16 to 21 years of age and they are aware of the distribution of power in our relationship. They're also aware (to the extent they care to) that much of our sexual practice includes S&M. Respective opinions vary but they all know C and I are happy in it and that's really all they want. I think this state of things can be largely credited to approach. We've not "come out" with information, as in sitting them down for an explanatory "talk", but neither have we changed our behaviour around them. We answer questions as they're asked, the way we would on any subject. I guess it can be compared with the varying methods of introducing one's children to sex in general. Those who have always had to access to the information as they developed an interest seem to have a better time of it than those who have it dropped upon them as a package. When I was around 14, while looking for a favourite album hidden by her older brother, my friend and I discovered a stack of S&M porn at the back of her father's closet. I was completely baffled (not in a good way) and I don't know that my friend ever was able to reconcile herself. I don't doubt that her father's actions were with her best in mind, but it was a very bad issue. Camille 16 Feb 09, 10:40 PM NICOLI US(TN), 3 yrs Y! Ok so i think i got a pretty clear understanding now. Master/slave relationships sex wise of course keep it ourselves if wold be weird and creepy to tell your kids about your sex lives...However as long as they see that we are happy and content with our lives and relationships i dont think it would matter. I just hope that they can find something similar in there lives when they grow up and thankyouall again for your responses especially you McCaini have found that you have responded to most everything i have posted they should really put you on the pay roll ~Nicoli-Johans~ 17 Feb 09, 1:14 AM Damsel US, 3 yrs hmm this sounds like a very interesting and difficult situation. Especially since young kids can be so chatty and you wouldn't want to get in trouble. 17 Feb 09, 7:15 PM thegildedlili 3 yrs property_of_MacCain wrote: They know he likes to hurt me for fun...i never let them see me upset about it, so they don't care. They understand that is just how we play. i don't act upset, so they go on with thier day. hi p, i'm genuinely curious about this, i wouldn't have thought young children would really be able to understand this concept, or why you would even care for them to at such a young age, but perhaps it's in the way you present it to them, would you mind giving me a little more information? thanks. i have no need, for such things, but to make you happy... Josh Pyke Edited 17 Feb 09, 9:33 PM by thegildedlili Next page