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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Younger Dominant - Older s type" 1 2 3 Younger Dominant - Older s type (25) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 17 Jun 09, 6:43 AM slave_of_The_Tesh US(FL), 2 yrs I am four years older than my Master. The oddest thing, though; even before W/we began the M/s aspect of O/our relationship, the difference never seemed apparent to me. He seems a lot older than He is. When W/we first met, I would have SWORN that he was about 22, 23 years old. Surprised me when I learned He was only 19. It almost made me give up on the idea of a relationship with Him. In fact, I spent the first two months I knew Him trying to deny my attraction because of the social stigma of an "older" woman with a "younger" man. I'm thankful to whatever power allowed me to let that go every day, because He is easily the best thing that's ever happened to me (or at least, He shares that honor with my son). But now, it doesn't really feel like a big issue. I've NEVER been one of those "age is just a number" types, but I suppose it really all depends on one's perspective and on the people involved. Don't get me wrong, He definitely has His moments where there's just no way around the fact that he's younger than I am, and in some ways more immature. But in most of our relationship, it doesn't matter in the least. In the M/s aspect, He's the more mature one, mostly due to His having more experience. Owned by The_Tesh This post has probably been edited for spelling/grammar because I'm weird like that. Edited 17 Jun 09, 6:45 AM by slave_of_The_Tesh 20 Nov 09, 4:13 PM 679-314-368 US(PA), 2 yrs Sir is 9 years younger than i. It makes no difference. He is mature man who knows how to care for me. That's all that matters. The 3 tenants of my D/s marriage: love, honor and submission. 20 Nov 09, 11:56 PM 976-188-983 US(ID), 4 yrs Sir is 26 and I am 43. This age difference means nothing to us. He, like others, is a very mature man and seems wise beyond his years. Sir is a natural dominant and needs little "coaching" (this is his first D/s relationship). I have taught him some things like protocol and such but have not had to teach him how to tie me up or how to use a flogger which he took to like a fish to water As a side note he makes me feel young at heart again. I don't think that age matters when there is love is involved. Baby In his eyes I am lost, In his arms I am found, In his soul I am content. Kore ga Watashi no Goshujin-sama 23 Nov 09, 1:51 AM slaveofMark US(TN), 4 yrs survey #1 results If you click this, it shows the results for a survey that i posted awhile back. I think it's question 5 or 6 that shows of the M/s dynamic that took the survey, which were older, the M or the s. Both my Owners are older than me and that works for U/us. After reading this thread, i think that age, just like in a vanilla relationship is only bothersome if it bothers the individuals in the relationship. Take care! slave sage ~ my freedom lies within Their control and my lack of choice. 25 Nov 09, 3:30 PM 000-531-259 US(KY), 9 yrs Y! "Some, however, have the reverse, where the Dominant is significantly younger than their s type, as is the case in my own relationship." I have served four Mistresses over the last nine years and all of them have been younger than myself. One, the one I was in service to the longest, was 22 years younger. The long life experience I brought to them was regarded as an asset that offset the age factor. madpoet451: Hard Sci Fi Scribe