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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "'Yes Sir/Maam' vs 'No Sir/Maam'" 1 2 'Yes Sir/Maam' vs 'No Sir/Maam' (15) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Mon 26 Jan 09, 5:37 PM moncherie US(CA), 3 yrs i have often thought about the correct way to answer specific questions from my Master. i have responded with yes's and no's at different times and either seems to be acceptable by Him but i am curious what others are doing. If Master tells me... "Don't be late!" i can respond with an affirmitive "yes Master/Sir" to acknowledge that i understand and agree with the concept of being on time or i can respond with a negative "no Master/Sir" to acknowledge that i understand and disagree with the concept of being late. I think i got that right (lol)..... 26 Jan 09, 5:50 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs Funny! i never really thought about it before but i answer "Yes,Sir" all day long. i don't recall saying "no, Sir" ever. Not to mean i've never hesitated, but if there is something i think should take precedence prior to doing what MacCain asks, i say something like "yes, Sir, i will Sir, but should i finish X first? " i don't think i'd like his reaction if i said "No, Sir." Oh, i have said "i won't, Sir" if he tells me not to do something. p i breathe because He allows me, indulging Him indulges me. 26 Jan 09, 7:44 PM 276-730-264 US, 3 yrs "Yes Master" and "No Master" are the only ways I am personally allowed to respond to yes or no questions (unless family is around). I don't say "No Master" to dispute or defy him, but only to answer a direct question that warrants that answer. I answer, "Yes Master" to yes/no questions, orders, and a lot in conversation. I am not required to "Yes Master" everything that he says. It rolls off the tongue so easily that at times when family or non like minded people are around I have to really think HARD about responding to him so not to respond appropriately. My Master doesn't like "okay" to be spoken by me as an acknowledgement of an order or generally in response to anything that he says. If on occassion I do not respond to him to his liking he will simply say, "Answer correctly." or not speak to me until I have caught my mistake. I suppose he may let a time or two slide here or there, but I don't think I mess up too often. 26 Jan 09, 8:29 PM 373-468-022 US(WA), 3 yrs Y! i made the mistake of saying "okie dokie Master" once, just once. It won't happen again. There is the old joke about who really has the last word, which is the sub/slave when they say "yes Sir/Master". With this in mind i often say "yes Master, i understand", or "yes Sir, i will", which of course really isn't an option but acknowledges that i understand. When being scolded or having one of those serious talks i seem to say "yes Master, i do understand......" then often repeat the rules. This is his rule, that i must repeat so he knows there isn't any confusion. There has been a few times i've said "Master, i am not sure i understand" but i don't think i could say "no Sir" in many situations. One would be "Did you buy anything not on your shopping list"..then No Sir, i didn't, is the only answer. MGs "It's the submissives that show to others what type of Dom owns them." - Anonymous "If you want to kiss the sky, better learn how to kneel." Mysterious Ways- U2 26 Jan 09, 10:58 PM panda_sub 3 yrs i also say yes Master/Sir or no Master/Sir. not to disobey but to answer a question that requires a no answer. Words like, okey, yup, yah are definatley not acceptable and will get me a glare from Master or a "what was that you said" from Him. This is usually enough to remind me to always act like a lady and not to use slang words at all. i think im doing much better as i have not gotten that look in a while. 27 Jan 09, 1:58 AM Oysterspearl US(VA), 3 yrs i also respond with yes Master/no Master whenever he gives an order to acknowledge that i understand. This has been a hard transition for me. Yes Sir/no Sir is the way i was raised so to go from saying yes Sir to yes Master was a big step for me. It took several hard looks from Master or a "what did you just say" for me to finally get it right. Saying yes Master just rolls off now without a second thought. 27 Jan 09, 5:24 AM Bella_Ragazza US(RI), 6 yrs Usually I will just say ok, or yup. If I some question has me saying no then I say no. but if Master really wants to get through to me something important and I say yes or no, he will then say "yes what?" or "no what?" and I will reply with yes/no Master. Its basically a way for him to get me to take note at what I'm sating and for him to know im not just saying yes because I'm "yessing" him. Bella 27 Jan 09, 6:17 AM 826-659-267 US, 4 yrs property_of_MacCain wrote: Funny! i never really thought about it before but i answer "Yes,Sir" all day long. i don't recall saying "no, Sir" ever. Not to mean i've never hesitated, but if there is something i think should take precedence prior to doing what MacCain asks, i say something like "yes, Sir, i will Sir, but should i finish X first? " i don't think i'd like his reaction if i said "No, Sir." Oh, i have said "i won't, Sir" if he tells me not to do something. p i too can relate to not liking Sirs reaction to me saying " No, Sir". if it is a direct order....actually no has been removed from my vocab when it comes to direct orders.<giggles> i generally reply with just a simple yes or no, adding Sir when i know that it is something serious, but on a daily normal basis, the Sir is not added.He knows that he is my Sir, just like i do. i wear his mark of ownership in more than one way, being formal is not needed all of the time. ~~slave jessi 27 Jan 09, 7:35 AM 427-222-624 5 yrs 373-468-022 wrote: i made the mistake of saying "okie dokie Master" once, just once. It won't happen again. MGs Oh, that made me giggle. For this one, Yes/No Sir is good, unless Master is feeling particularly.. particular. In these cases, though, He'll just correct me, and this one'll know to add the Master to the end. =) "Sometimes you wake up, sometimes the fall kills you, and sometimes when you fall, you fly.." 27 Jan 09, 11:18 AM sassybutt UK, 4 yrs I "almost" always say, Yes Master or No Master. On occasion I say Sir, but very little. If I slip or get irritated, I say "Yeah". Then I get the WHAT???????????? Then you know where that usually goes........ sassybutt~Property of Master J Edited 27 Jan 09, 11:19 AM by sassybutt 28 Jan 09, 1:19 AM crystalredroze US(OH), 4 yrs Y! W/we dont get that formal for the most part. However i have learned not to say i wont do something, usually its a slip and i'm quick to correct myself as Master usually asks " are you asking or telling me you wont do ( whatever it is)??" my reply is usually that i meant to say i would prefer to do such and such or not do such and such. Master accepts that as long as i can explain myself. Next page