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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "What do you tell friends/family when questioned" 1 2 3 4 What do you tell friends/family when questioned (37) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 29 Nov 09, 8:44 PM TunaBug US(CA), 2 yrs Usually when out with neko's mom and family we're almost like a vanilla couple but He orders neko's food, makes sure neko eats said food. But since Owner and neko dress some what gothic, neko's collar goes some what unnoticed unless someone very curious asks why neko has it and either Owner or neko replies "Because she/(i) like wearing it." and that's it. I wait day by day for my Death and when He arrives I will welcome Him with open arms. [IN NOMINE DEI NOSTRE SATANAS EXCELSI!] 6 Dec 09, 12:48 PM windcallersspirit US(KY), 2 yrs I like the advice and had the same worries about my masters children, who are young adults.... the other night after reading this one of his daughters friend, asked me if i always wore the collar on my neck,( black leather with fake diamondes ) and i just waoked by and casually said yes thats where it belongs,. There was no was nothing else said be her or I. I think she understands the concept, she is a well known artist in Vegas.... The thing is i dont and wont flant it in there faces but if it comes up i now know how to handle it, thank you. Master sky eyes slave Spirit 8 Dec 09, 1:44 PM moutas FR, 3 yrs I think that the best reply must be very simple. It must be the same for all the questions! "WHY NOT? I LIKE IT!" with a little smile... 10 Dec 09, 2:25 AM ElenaS UK, 4 yrs My Mother told me recently that Sir was very commanding. I smiled and said: Yes, He is. I had to reassure her a little after that saying that Sir was very particular about things like eating, washing and going to bed on time (I have schizophrenia so that would be 'healthy' even by vanilla standards) but that He let me pursue my happiness. That was both truthful and didn't reveal to much. Nothing more has been said. Edited 10 Dec 09, 2:26 AM by ElenaS 11 Dec 09, 3:34 AM caethesMasterspet 2 yrs i have found that the answers i give are highly dependent on who is asking the questions. Having just had this discussion with someone, most people don't want honest answers to the questions they ask. They want safe answers, they want expected answers, they DO NOT want honest answers. i tend to answer personal questions with my own question "do you REALLY want to know?". i am lucky in that most of my family simply says "not really" when given time to think about it. They know that the honest answer will most likely not be the comfortable one. Edited 11 Dec 09, 3:37 AM by caethesMasterspet 12 Dec 09, 8:43 AM 826-163-795 US(VA), 2 yrs Y! All i have to say is thankfully my closest part of my family is just as kinki as i am. i was raised in a not so normal environment. But it is a big part in who i am today. It is a great relationship i have with that side of the family. Needless to say i am a very lucky sub. As for the rest of my friends...well my babysitter is my girlfriends daughter and my best friend, so no questions there. Mm... the ONLY person who gives me shit for being in this type of relationship is my step-dads ex wife... she only hates it because Sir is 48 and i'm ... *cou*20*gh* hehe But i really don't confront that much. So other then that its all good here. If anyone asks about my collar or cuffs that i wear....its a security thing. If they want to go into detail about that then they get to listen to 20 years of bullshit that i've been though to make me insecure...even though i am not insecure anymore. *mental note...next thread* hope this helps....ok so i didn't really hit an answer more of ramblings at 340 am my time. oh well... i do have an answer though.... Who cares. Its not you (them), its me (well you) and if you (them) don't like it...don't look or listen. Simple...time for the next thread. The Loss of control; a new sense of security. An experience that i have always craved. Sir, you gave it to me. Safe within your arms, as your little girl. Having that moment of losing all feelings and gaining the security of your being. Sir, i will always love and respect you. 12 Dec 09, 9:20 AM rednwhite00 CA, 4 yrs Well I am very out spoken about what I like. The friends that know about me/us accept it but they think I and crazy as they really dont understand or are closed minded. Their are some friends and most family on my side that does not know and will never know. Why because they just will not understand. My sub is not out spoken about our life style but has told a few of her friends who do understand and are not closed minded.