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(43) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 7 Feb 09, 7:46 AM Mistress_Paris 3 yrs 119-812-164 wrote: slave names ... i was re-reading the 'what does your Master call you thread' and began wondering how much ritual or 'process' is involved in the naming and/or reference to slaves, here. beyond what a slave is named, how have Masters/Mistresses named their slaves and why? does He or She use your given name? is there any ritual or process by which Y/you gave or 'received' a name, or will. for slaves, are you nameless, and if so, why (in the dynamic of your realtionship specifically)? have you ever had a 'change' of name and how or why did that come about? i am an owned and un-collared slave. my relationship with my Master is young, and my service from one Master to the next was seamless and continuous, but one great difference is my naming. while my former Master had a collection of names he called me unceremoniously, my current Master has 'references' for me, but i am not as yet named and will not be until i earn my name. He has used my given name very few times, and frankly, as i recall, only when i have tried His patience. He has not discussed with me when He might name me, nor how He will do so except that our time together is a process that will help Him to arrive at my name. in the meantime, His references generally conform to our scenario:-- slave, bitch, lil girl, baby etc. thanks in advance for sharing your stories. smiles, grl Actually, it's quite funny to me. I'm a switch. my Master has, in a way, given me three names. my official slave name is officially nicolette, but He has never called me that and i don't think of myself as such. He calls me pet and that's who i am in my heart where He is concerned. pet, that's all. However, He also unintentionally gave me My domme name, Paris (that I use here since, when I joined, I planned to be learning and posting mostly as a dominant and will probably post more in that role when I have My own slave, but for now I do realize a lot of My posting has been from my sub side) when He referred to me as such using it as a diminutive of My nickname. He very rarely calls me by my given name. I've thought about whether I will rename My slave and, right now, I think it would depend on the person. "When we come to the end of all the light that we own and take the first step into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing that one of two things is going to happen: there will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly." Patrick Overton 9 Feb 09, 8:07 PM melanie 4 yrs £ My Master, Alpha_Omega_Master56 just as of last month took me as his, so he calls me SLUT. And it is very ironic that I have found this thread this particular day because we just had this very conversation this morning. And I am allowed so many questions per day. One of which was will you ever call Melanie which is my birth name and of course Master say's in his 6'7 255 lb voice that you can hear online, no I will never call you that I will call you only what you are and that is a true slut. And my reply was and I was surprised I did not get punished for this. Thank you Master my other nickname once was CUNT lol!!! and he replied lol !!!! So, there it goes I suppose it is now written in stone that my new name is SLUT... and that is fine by me.. Although being the redhead that I am I had to push the envelope and ask wehat he will be calling me in public and he said anything I damn well want. And of course my reply was of course Master as you wish.. ps.. I would really like to come up with something pretty in Gorean just for me and my submissive sister's n my munch group though, any suggestions maybe a nice short spin on my birth name.. Would be appreciated I don't think Master would mind that. ty be well everyone, omega1955sjoy/srln:654-049-049 9 Feb 09, 9:16 PM 119-812-164 US, 3 yrs 800-595-840 wrote: Master Sean was the first to call me miss excell a few years ago when we met in a chat room. The name stuck in the internet world. He's carried it over into the real world. However, he calls me by my given name when we are out in public and close enough for others to hear... or when I've disappointed him, which has not been very often. I don't care much for hearing my given name fall from his lips. excell 800, I was just thinking about this thread a few nights ago because I too usually only hear my given name when Daddy is short with me ... And so, when I heard 'ruthie' first fall from his lips, as you say, I was startled but then again and moreso when he went to the more proper 'ruth" ... I literally had to catch my breath! So, I share your feelings very much and understand !!! It makes me think of another thread that poses the question of 'when do you know your M-type *really* means business, as in, you've worked his or her last nerve. Like you, when I hear my given name, I freeze. smiles, grl There's no dearth of kindness In this world of ours; Only in our blindness We gather thorns for flowers. --(Thomas) Gerald Massey 10 Feb 09, 3:03 AM JRCs_petk HK, 4 yrs Y! This is rather interesting, as I'm seeing a pattern whereby even the more liberal Ms relationships rarely use the sub/slave's name. I rarely hear my Owner speak my name (kim). In fact, the only time I do hear him call me kim is when I'm really misbehaving or blocking him out, or when he is speaking about me with other people. We generally call each other darling out in public (yes, soppy!) and at home it's a range of names for the both of us, depending on our moods and what we're doing. By simply switching the name the whole atmosphere changes. For me, I enjoy the range of names, as it's a great indicator for what my Owner is seeking at that present moment. There is one particular name that I detest for it's humiliating characteristics, and my Owner takes great joy in using this name at his whim. I guess he enjoys my reaction! He often says it in such a syrupy tone that I'm now beginning to find the name endearing. Grrrrrr 'His little cumbucket' 10 Feb 09, 7:31 PM Mistress_Tiara 5 yrs I have not 're-named' my slave in any formalised way. I tend to mostly refer to him just as 'my boy' in some form in daily life ie 'and how's my boy'? or 'what's my lovely boy up to now'? or even 'I love my darling boy'. I doubt I will ever 're-name' him per se. I would like to change his surname to mine, but will not do so at present so as not to inadvertantly hurt his family. I do occasionally use his given name, but not very often; mostly it's just when talking about him rather than too him. ...Even then it tends to be a modified version which has arisen through a rather amusing source. My 3 year old could not pronounce his name for a long time and thus re-named him with a very cutesy abbreviated version. This has now caught on and is what all of us in the household and now many of our friends also refer to him as - so after a fashion he has thus been 're-named' (with a suitably cliched immasculating 'cutesy' name) by one of the females to whom he is beholden. She's only three - I'm very proud 'If the first woman God ever made was strong enough to turn the world upside down all alone, these together ought to be able to turn it back and get it right side up again'. Sojourner Truth. 10 Feb 09, 11:11 PM JRCs_petk HK, 4 yrs Y! Apple doesn't fall far from the tree? Gorgeous! 10 Feb 09, 11:36 PM crystalredroze US(OH), 4 yrs Y! Actually my name was given to me right after i moved in. i was still under a different name that He hadnt given to me and i felt that out of respect to Master it needed changed. He didnt want an actual name and just wanted me to change it to JJ's slave. Most of the time when we are together W/we just call each other hon or something to that affect and when around others or out in public W/we just use O/our first names. 11 Feb 09, 2:33 AM Zeros_sweet US, 3 yrs Y! First, let me say I have waited DAYS to reply to this, having to wait my seven day grace period. Second, Master allows me to type with proper punctuation and grammar with respect towards Him and other Tops. Re: slave names I am simply "sweet". It just happened, I believe because we at one point discussed my submission as "sweet surrender" In chat, forums, and profiles it is amended to "His sweet" in some form or fashion. This is what I am called in home and in public. I rarely hear my given name from him unless I have totally spaced out and he needs to get my attention. If I have earned his wrath I hear "SWEET" in a tone I have learned to regret hearing, especially since earning his displeasure hurts more mentally than the punishment does physically. Eternally, Master Zero'z sweet ~The greatest gift I can give Thee is myself to command... Edited 11 Feb 09, 3:41 AM by Zeros_sweet 16 Feb 09, 2:38 PM Hesperus US(CT), 3 yrs Y! I feel that a slave should be renamed. In my opinion the name a person is given at birth is used until they are collared. This is because the name they are given at birth is for a person. I name my property, it is my right and I claim it. baby slave only uses her vanilla name in the vanilla world. 16 Feb 09, 4:19 PM XxTrickxX UK, 3 yrs My previous master and i agreed he would call me slave until i earned my name (trick) obviously it isnt my real name but it fits my personality x Next page