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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "slave names ..." 1 2 3 4 5 slave names ... (43) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Sun 18 Jan 09, 2:37 AM 119-812-164 US, 3 yrs i was re-reading the 'what does your Master call you thread' and began wondering how much ritual or 'process' is involved in the naming and/or reference to slaves, here. beyond what a slave is named, how have Masters/Mistresses named their slaves and why? does He or She use your given name? is there any ritual or process by which Y/you gave or 'received' a name, or will. for slaves, are you nameless, and if so, why (in the dynamic of your realtionship specifically)? have you ever had a 'change' of name and how or why did that come about? i am an owned and un-collared slave. my relationship with my Master is young, and my service from one Master to the next was seamless and continuous, but one great difference is my naming. while my former Master had a collection of names he called me unceremoniously, my current Master has 'references' for me, but i am not as yet named and will not be until i earn my name. He has used my given name very few times, and frankly, as i recall, only when i have tried His patience. He has not discussed with me when He might name me, nor how He will do so except that our time together is a process that will help Him to arrive at my name. in the meantime, His references generally conform to our scenario:-- slave, bitch, lil girl, baby etc. thanks in advance for sharing your stories. smiles, grl The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions.-- Alfred Lord Tennyson To live a creative life we must lose our fear of being wrong. --Joseph Chilton Pearce Edited Sun 18 Jan 09, 3:49 AM by 119-812-164 18 Jan 09, 3:30 AM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs - The story does make me smile. One day, after staring at me long enough that it caught my attention... Me: What? / C: Eva Maria Sybilla. / Me: Who? / C: Eva Maria ...Sybilla. / Me: What? He slapped the arms of his chair, got up and left the room. He gave me a loud smacker-type kiss on his way out. At the time my name was Sylvia Camille and not until the next day's legalities did I realize this was no longer the case. Generally speaking, C doesn't explain why he does what he does unless he really has to, and in the case of those things of an emotional nature it's even less frequently if ever. But I knew his Oma's name is Eva Maria and I found out some months later Sybilla was the name of his great-grandmother. He loves and admires both women a great deal, so I know it's an honour as well as an expression of love. That I like these names as well as the others just makes it all the better. Still, most of the time he just calls me "Puss". Camille (Eva ) 18 Jan 09, 12:14 PM 119-812-164 US, 3 yrs what a great story, camille. thx. grl The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions.-- Alfred Lord Tennyson To live a creative life we must lose our fear of being wrong. --Joseph Chilton Pearce 18 Jan 09, 2:35 PM Lord_Shade AU, 4 yrs Y! I re-named my girl "fantome", due in part to her beautiful pale skin and because I wished to. I find that in giving her a new name it has defined her role in life, she is no longer Sarah (she never was called that but it'll do as an example), she is fantome my loyal, loving slave. In seperating her from her past by taking away her birth-name it has bound her closer to me and lightened her emotional load, fantome only answers to me, the girl was answered to society. I live within the weak and the wounded. By walking the razors edge we know true freedom. 18 Jan 09, 3:15 PM SixThreeFive SE, 4 yrs My Owner is the only one who's been able to use my given name without me cringing. Since the age of twelve, I tended to view myself as my screen-name or give another name for people to call me. I even asked therapists to not call me by name. But... when he came around, calling me by my name became something special. So he sort of... introduced me to myself. It rarely happens that we use each others real names, me saying "Master" and him saying whatever suits him at the time. I think some might've noticed I tend to use "my Owner" or "my Husband" online. I dunno why, I just have an adversion to saying someones name. I think it might be because I suck at remembering peoples name/face combinations, and out of insecurity, I skip the name completely. "Hey, you!" or catching someone's eye, works 90% of the time. Smile, it confuses people. 19 Jan 09, 2:12 AM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs 119-812-164 wrote: slave names ... beyond what a slave is named, how have Masters/Mistresses named their slaves and why? does He or She use your given name? is there any ritual or process by which Y/you gave or 'received' a name, or will. for slaves, are you nameless, and if so, why (in the dynamic of your realtionship specifically)? have you ever had a 'change' of name and how or why did that come about? I feel that formal names are important as they denote identity. In the vanilla world, surnames like 'cooper' and 'smith' originated as descriptive of a person's job or function in the community. In our relationship, cunt, slut, bitch, etc do not represent chosen formal names, but titles of qualities or activities that are expected or being expressed at the moment. I chose the name 'nebulina' for my slave for very specific reasons. It is descriptive of her in My eyes. A nebula is a very beautiful stellar phenomenon with a mysterious interior. There is also the term nebulous: cloudy, hazy, misty, vague, lacking form or limits. The “–lina” is feminine diminutive. Put all together this is very descriptive, it 'suits' her. Since we are not 'out', it has the added option of being used in vanilla company without too much explanation. I do not expect to change her name. Selah. There is no authority, only responsibility. 19 Jan 09, 4:23 AM Bella_Ragazza US(RI), 5 yrs Master said I could respond to this post...so I am.lol The story of how I received is simple, Master is Italian and so because he wanted to represent his Italian - American pride through me,he chose something form that. Also he told me that it just came to him one day while he was thinking of me, I don't believe he will ever change it. I am his Bella , his beautiful. So I don't see why he would ever want to change it. when he first told me that he was renaming me it was very simple and over the phone. I for some reason never expected him to change my name since he has always thought it was beautiful. But he called me up and said that He was changing me name to Bella since it came to him and he felt that , it was the name I needed to be called by. Bella 19 Jan 09, 5:05 AM Dreamshaper US(FL), 3 yrs Grl, I call mine pet, because she is a warm blooded creature and owned by another. And as anyone that loves animals as I do would know they are all pets to us, so that just seemed to fit. Master Fred Am I Master because she is slave, or is she slave because I am Master? 22 Jan 09, 9:21 AM Kazuko US(CA), 3 yrs Y! Master and I are currently working on naming me, actually. It has become very important to us. W/we are both very linguistically aware, and we each love language in all forms, so when the decision was finally made to give me a new name, one that would define me as His and His alone, to reiterate my thralldom, and generally define the rest of my life as His, W/we figured it was a big deal. Because of all that, the "quest" as W/we've taken to calling it has been going on for weeks, and great care is being taken in regards to both the meaning of the name in regards to its root, and the feel (by both of U/us) of whether or not it fits both me and O/our relationship. Coincidently, if someone is looking for resources, I've got quite a few by now. ^_^ 22 Jan 09, 10:21 AM Rolling_Wildheart 5 yrs I usually refer to giolla as pet. However, I did give her the name giolla. You might all think this line of reasoning screwy, but that's how I think half the time: In My search for a name for her, I started with the name Dom. Not only does it connotate Dominant, but it is also short for the Italian name Dominic. So, I went looking through Italian names and found Giolla, whch means "servant". It certainly fit, so that was the name I gave her. Generally I don't call her that. Mostly when I want her to get really submissive to Me really quickly or when she's getting chastised for overdoing some behavior that I want to stop. But sometimes I do look at her and say "I love My pet giolla". Wildheart Forsaken/I have come for you tonight/Awaken/Look in my eyes and take my hand/Give yourself up to me. - Dream Theater Edited 22 Jan 09, 10:11 PM by Rolling_Wildheart 22 Jan 09, 5:17 PM property_of_MacCain 3 yrs There have been quite a few great threads on this subject. The first time i saw a thread on slave names i asked MacCain if he intended on renaming me. He said no, he didn't see the point in that. To be honest it left me disappointed. Some time later i brought it up again and asked why he didn't want to rename me. He smiled and said there was no need to give me an autonomous name... he intended on keeping me. i am property of MacCain... with out him i'd be nothing. Now i get a great deal of satisfaction from that. To vanillas, he refers to me as his girl, to me he just glances at me. It works for us. i don't need a name. p i breathe because He allows me, indulging Him indulges me. Next page