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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "Real life and Second life" 1 2 Real life and Second life (16) This post is on the Other Topics web board. 19 Jan 09, 1:30 AM To_Garzo SE, 3 yrs Y! Hello! I'm active in Second Life as a Master and I have some subgirls in private training. Many of the subs i meet have some knowledge about the lifestyle. I normaly start with basic things like how to address and behave, later on I start to give them easy tasks both in SL and reallife. My experiance is that it's very hard to realy understand how the sub reacts and feel and if the sub realy perform the tasks. Because of that its hard to take the training to a higher level. I have been thinking about demand picture or something that realy proof that mission is compleated. I have meet many nice people and get some real close friends but its hard to keep a On-line relations for a longer term. 19 Jan 09, 10:13 PM Dreamshaper US(FL), 3 yrs michellemariev wrote: Real life and Second life Hi. I would like to ask you this. I am a slave, always have been in my real life. Am raised that way and i wouldn't know any different life. Since a few years i have been active in a chat world called Second Life. In there i started a school in educating D/s and BDSM to those who are interested in it. In this way i have found many friends, Dom's and submissives. And i feel like i am doing a good job in trying to tell them about my experiences. Still there is a big difference in submission on real and online. Although i am a slave, i try to keep up with all questions and opinions. Is there any sub or Dom in here who has experienced the same thing? I mean: trying to educate new life stylers online? And how did that work out? Thank you. michelle, we are all doing some of that here daily, you are just doing it in a 3D interactive environment like an online classroom (michellemarie submissive 101), personally I think you should be praised for your efforts, you may just be the one that keeps someone out of an abusive situation. Master Fred Am I Master because she is slave, or is she slave because I am Master? 30 Jun 09, 10:45 PM 113-351-492 US, 4 yrs I too am an sl resident who is locked into my heavy metal collar there and am my Master's there as i am in real life.Alot of rp'ers who are interested or curious have been able to open up and allow themselves to experiment and learn by doing different things in sl. Education is never a bad thing, especially when it comes to any aspect of BDSM, D/s, S&M, etc. The only thing that i have ever done was be exactly who i am in sl as i am in rl, and ask that anyone i encounter do the same. I always tell others NEVER .....NEVER, get too involved emotionally or allow sl to spill over into rl unless there is a deep mutual trust. And then you need to still protect yourself, more so emotionally than physically at this point. SAFETY FIRST ALWAYS. And yes i do chat on other adult sights as well, to be involved in conversations and gain others perspectives on the multitude of aspects of D/s and fetishes, etc. Gaining knowledge is never a bad thing. All you can do is give them the tools and hope that they have the sense to utilize what they have learned. Master Bobby's Princess 1 Jul 09, 1:09 PM 284-122-181 US(MO), 2 yrs Y! I am a RL slave and a slave in SL as well my RL Master is also my SL Master as well I met him in SL and moved to be with him almost a yr ago. My Master met a RL Gorean slave in SL and has been spending alot of time with her as of late. She knows about me and the other sub who lives here and she loves my Master dearly and wants to be with him in RL even though she is married. She sneaks behind her RL Masters back while he is at work to be online with my Master in SL. my Master even collared her in SL,she is not collared in RL. And lately they have started declaring their love for one another more,which has made it very hard on me,cause he has mentioned replacing me with her.So I know all about emotional attachment online especially when someone says the right things to u and makes u feel wanted and needed. 2 Jul 09, 5:22 PM matthewl US(VA), 5 yrs michellemariev wrote: In there i started a school in educating D/s and BDSM to those who are interested in it. If you don't mind my asking, what was the name of said school, Michelle? 3 Oct 10, 4:54 AM jilly_His_slave US(TN), 20 mths 113-351-492 wrote: I always tell others NEVER .....NEVER, get too involved emotionally or allow sl to spill over into rl unless there is a deep mutual trust. And then you need to still protect yourself, more so emotionally than physically at this point. SAFETY FIRST ALWAYS. i couldn't agree with this more, i too was also a Sl'er with my RL Master, W/we had not yet met in RL but was planning on me moving out here to be with Him as W/we both knew it was what W/we wanted more than anything, as i was a sub back then W/we agreed together that 'W/we' would have a 'pet' well this 'pet' turned out to be quite the '&@$%#' she would write messages to herself and send them to me and tell me they were from my Master, she would treat me like crap in private and make out in public that i was jealous because i didn't want her as 'O/our' pet. around this time i changed internet providers and was offline for a couple of weeks with no phoneline either, still lived 4500 miles away from Him while she was just a couple of states away, she tried so hard to poison Him against me in RL, luckily for me Master saw what she was doing and banished her from O/our worlds. She did alot of damage to me emotionally with the stories she would tell me, even tho i knew they were not true, thankfully i trust my Master more than i do myself, even tho it hurt me a lot at the time it also brighten a few horizons too, i know that i can trust my Master with my everything i have and that He will always look after and protect me with everything He has. Read & Posted with Permission of Master.... A slave is one who waits for someone to come and free her. Ezra Pound