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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Saying Hello" 1 2 Saying Hello (12) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 1 Jan 09, 3:01 PM The_Apprentice UK, 3 yrs As a newish member, I thought I ought to say hello. I've never really been interested in S/M, bondage etc. I always viewed the thrill of them as essentially non-consensual. I assumed people were turned on just by the freedom to hurt someone else, and that never worked for me. And then I came across some slave porn, and found it a slight turn on. Not a huge one, because I still worried about the non-consensual nature of it, but I was attracted because the submission seemed so much more voluntary than binding someone and beating them. So I dug a little more, coming across this board, and reading threads, and learning a whole lot. And as I read more, I realised it was possible to have a consensual, loving relationship based on domination and submission. And I became more and more interested... So I'll be hanging around, listening, asking stupid newby questions, and hopefully learning a whole lot more. If I get too anoying please tell me to shove off! 1 Jan 09, 4:06 PM ClairesCO UK, 3 yrs Hey Mark, It's a real eye-opener, isn't it. That there are intelligent,sensible and thoughful people who choose this way of life. I'm still trying to get my head around it myself, especially what makes someone submissive tick. I've always been a "treat someone as you'd want to be treated" type. I don't think I have a submissive bone in my body and I'd never go in for anything non-consensual so learning that some women not only want that but feel incomplete without it is a real shift in your thinking. It's tricky realising that a lot of what you've always assumed is wrong. Welcome mate Will 1 Jan 09, 10:07 PM anjuli UK, 4 yrs Excellent! Welcome M.Y. I'm glad you're finding it interesting and informative, and we busting a few myths for you... always nice. As you will no doubt have seen, there are several new dominants here of late and hopefully you can all learn together and get as much from SD! as the s-types generally do. Don't fret about newbie questions... we like people who ask questions... the dumb ones are the ones who arrive pretending they know it all. anjuli Happy New Year Everyone! 18 Jan 09, 10:14 AM Domone65 UK, 3 yrs Y! welcome from another newbie to this site. I am a lifestyle Dom of 25+ years , but enjoy swapping ideas on here and reading different perspectives, even after all these years i am still learning all the time. enjoy! Rick 19 Jan 09, 5:45 AM 427-222-624 5 yrs Hi there! Your post made me grin. It's nice to hear about another person having their eyes opened, so to speak. =P Don't sweat stupid questions. That's what W/we're here for! Hope you have a good time here! nicolette "Sometimes you wake up, sometimes the fall kills you, and sometimes when you fall, you fly.." 12 Mar 09, 10:47 PM 662-935-655 5 yrs as my late Master would have said: "Welcome to O/our world" and as a Master on another board signs off, "be good or be good at it, play nice!" j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! alias "GRANNY" Matrika ye "OLDE" crone, bright blessing! 13 Mar 09, 12:40 AM Eclectic1 US(ID), 4 yrs When time permits, you may find it of value to check the profile of someone that seems interesting and read their prior posts. It can provide a lot of insight and information about various elements of the life style. Enjoy yourself. 13 Mar 09, 9:56 PM dirtyclive UK, 3 yrs Hi there im dirtyclive I live in dunstable Uk and have always wanted to try out being a slave. the whole idea of someone using abusing my body really turns me on I have tried ball tochure and found that i love it i also love being spanked across my bare arse naked 15 Mar 09, 10:18 PM MasterCJ US(GA), 3 yrs Y! Another newbie here to say hello. My slave, 107-595-253 and I are new to this lifestyle. She is 18 years my junior and have been together for just over 9 months. Still VERY raw in the M/s slave area, but we are both greatly enjoying our newfound lives and are excited about the journey. I hope to learn a lot from the more experienced Masters so I may be the best Master to my kitten. kitten est , gratiae volo 15 Mar 09, 11:13 PM Master1Willcall US(FL), 3 yrs I am also new to this site. Being in a M/s is an ongoing experience. One day at at time it seems and some days have set backs. But the strive to move forward is rewarding to both M/s. I once said "I have a dumb question?" Well as I learned there is no such thing as a DUMB question, cuz if I had not asked that one question, the little plane might have crashed from running out of oil. So as to anyone that has a DUMB question....Please ask, we will all be educated. 16 Mar 09, 8:12 AM boston UK, 12 yrs May I point out the dedicated thread for hellos and introductions ... http://www.seekdiscipline.com/posts/178297/ If anyone else wants to say hi then feel welcome to do so there. Next page