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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Husband becoming Master" Husband becoming Master (10) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Wed 3 Dec 08, 5:13 PM 177-638-645 US(CO), 3 yrs this girl is wondering if anyone has had the experience of thier husband becoming thier Master or thier wife becoming thier slave? My Master(husband and i are new to all this and just starting out and any advice would be greatly apreciated sincerely kajira kitti 3 Dec 08, 9:38 PM Masters_suki US(OR), 3 yrs Y! my Husband is my Master and did not become so until after W/we were married. i have been involved in the lifestyle for a little more than 10 years and He is fairly new to it all, with the exception of the exposure that He has had previously from friends who are also involved in the lifestyle. O/our relationship is very secure and i trust Master with my life and so it was the next natural step to take for U/us. i'm not exactly sure what information you are looking for, but i would be more than happy to offer any advice to your questions as long as i have an answer. Please feel free to send me a memo or we can talk here if you like. Respectfully, suki Proudly owned by Master_RD 4 Dec 08, 4:36 PM Masterspetdarkrose US(MN), 3 yrs Master and I are married and eased into things. He is newer to the scene than I am. Its not that uncommon. Have fun and stay safe! 6 Dec 08, 12:32 PM Sgiandubhs_ceilidh US, 5 yrs Y! Master is my husband of 26 years. He introduced me to the lifestyle that i lived before W/we were married. i was very submissive and Master (just husband at the time)didn't believe that a woman should be that way. He changed me. Two years ago W/we became what was natural to U/us both and have never been happier. Love without rules. ceilidh 6 Dec 08, 2:44 PM 541-969-139 6 yrs £ so happy for both of you from a slave i became a dom master come slave girls join me in my slave harem 6 Dec 08, 5:08 PM slave_nebulina US(KS), 3 yrs Posted with permission of Master Odin. Master and i started O/our relationship as vanilla. He introduced me to the lifestyle as He saw the slave heart in me. As the children are now out of the house, my training is more consistent and more intense. Each day draws U/us closer together. It's a wonderful journey together. He is very attentive and can be demanding i am still learning (as i said it is a journey) W/we are establishing some routines to help re-enforce the M/s relationship. As most of the experienced posters on this site will tell you, each M/s relationship is specific and very personal. On this board you can expand your knowledge of the lifestyle and learn what works for others, then apply what works for you in your situation. W/we are very glad W/we found this board and it is a great enhancement to O/our relationship. congratulations to you and your Master Tortured by pleasure, Pleasured by pain, liberated by enslavement. 6 Dec 08, 8:52 PM 000-671-955 CA, 7 yrs Y! Being Master's slave and wife is the most wonderful relationship that i can imagine. i did not get into the Lifestyle until after we were married, it was something that i did not even know was within me. Master was in the Lifestyle for many years prior to us getting together, but obviously He saw something in me that He knew i wanted, and He was able to guide me there. It was only after a couple of years of being married that He made the decision that i would be his slave and his wife at the same time. We had some sessions as we were dating involving BDSM, and TPE, and i liked it, even though it was only for short periods of time, this seemed to make me see how far i was able to push into my limits. When Master announced We were going to be in this type of Lifestyle continuously, i was not sure that i was up to the task, but Master explained that Patience and Committment were the 2 key points, and that He would guide me down the path that He wanted our Journey to be on. i will admit, there were times that i thought i was not able to carry out some of the tasks, or was afraid that others who were not in the know would view me as weak for doing these things i was set forth to do. Instead, i saw that i was stronger for being able to push through the times i felt that i couldn't, and made my limits that much higher, and saw how much it pleased Master, which made the Relationship much stronger. Those in our group, have seen how much i have grown, as well as those who do not know of our special relationship. As Master guides us on our Lifestyle marriage, i feel that there is no better marriage then one of Master and slave. Master's "o" 671955 Edited 7 Dec 08, 11:32 PM by 000-671-955 6 Dec 08, 10:54 PM 662-935-655 5 yrs Wow -i didnt know there were so many of U/us out there! As the regulars know, i am a widow of my late Master, W/we went M/s after ten years, kind of my anniversary gift to Him, and for other reasons, W/we were M/s 4 1/2 years, the only things i regret is His death and connected to it, as well as that W/we didn't do it sooner. i am friends with a widowed slave, not yet on here as far as i know, although she's been invited, was married to her Master for 29 years before He died like 2-4 years ago. She says much the same thing - she only regrets His passing. Of course my late Master knew more about it -esp in theory - having been interested in this life previously and having a 2d wife that was a bottom but certainly not any kind of self-respecting sub or slave or even a decent wife from all i've heard. (Trying to poison Him with a white powder that turned out to be rat poison in his food and getting Him busted for something He didn't do 2-3 years after the fact and only doing so when He found someone else although she had divorced HIM. Then leaving Him alone until W/we married and filing papers on Him for non-support just so they were delivered while W/we were on O/our honeymoon to O/our neighbors - alhough the court ordered no support in the divorce because at the time He was destitute. But i helped Him get the best lawyer to squash it and she left U/us alone after - definitely not, to my mind, even a decent vanilla wife and i have the right to my opinions, although i admit they're not objective - GRIN) But even that experience was more than i had - i was a greenie to the max, as in green = no experience. i was originally not sure of it all and W/we both had a lot of "baggage" to deal with before the time was right, but when it was right, it was SOOOOO right. Truth be told, O/our marriage had a lot of problems until i surrendered and got collared - which seemed to disappear overnight once the dynamics of the relationship changed, when W/we were ready and able to do so. it's confusing at first, but enjoy Y/your journey - i have many precious memories and no regrets about the change in dynamics in O/our marriage at all, except W/we couldn't seem to do it sooner. Blessings Bright for the Holidays and a New Year in a New Life - Congratulations! j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! alias "granny" matrika ye olde crone, blessed be! 7 Dec 08, 6:45 PM Masters_chere US, 4 yrs Y! This is my first post. Master and i have been together as a couple for over twenty years, married for half of that. O/our relationship has naturally evolved into one of M/s over the past two years, however it has always been one of me having a submissive personality and he being dominant. W/we are learning and taking our time developing into Master and slave and have realized that what works for one couple may not work for all. This board has been a great source of information for both of U/us. chere **posted by consent and with approval of MC 8 Dec 08, 9:06 PM 355-059-637 US(TX), 3 yrs Posted with Masterelement's permission: My husband and I have been married for just over a year. We've both shown a great interest in D/s and have played with it for awhile now, but it wasn't until this one stumbled upon the term "slave" online that we realized what we were missing in our attempt at D/s. We've been in a M/s relationship since 11/21. It's a learning process for both of us, but we know that only good things will come of this. It's strengthening our bond as husband and wife as well. This one was very interested to learn that there are other husband and wife M/s couples out there. 9 Dec 08, 2:48 PM 000-595-947 UK, 11 yrs Other way round for me Master then husband, but still lovely