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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "New/wanting to make other submissive friends" 1 2 3 4 New/wanting to make other submissive friends (31) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 2 Dec 08, 4:41 PM Masters_suki US(OR), 3 yrs Y! Oh my, i guess i shouldn't go to sleep...i seem to miss out on all the cookies! hehe. Andrin, i hope You are feeling better soon! suki Proudly owned by Master_RD 2 Dec 08, 4:44 PM Andrin DE, 3 yrs property_of_MacCain wrote: ...but as you got a token cookie, maybe i should just bring you soup and a crossword puzzle.... 635 thank you very much for the cookie, I start feeling better already. But p, you didn't read properly the thread on "Slavery and desire" from which it is clear that cabbage soup is the wrong treat! Andrin I ordered this fabulous troll warning device, really works great! What I don't understand though is, why it beeps and blinks whenever I come close? 2 Dec 08, 5:38 PM SixThreeFive SE, 5 yrs Ah, but wouldn't a hearty minced meat-soup be good? I make a wicked soup. About being out: Actually, I out myself quite a bit. There's two Swedish non-bdsm forums, where we've had discussions on M/s and I've told them about M/s and IE. They don't understand, but they usually go with "Each to their own" and ask loads and loads of interesting questions. One couple emailed me, and they were horrified because they *couldn't* understand, and thus asked bunches and bunches of questions, in order to understand. I know there are people thinking I'm crazy, but thankfully they've staid out of those threads. Some of my other friends know, as well. It's kind of hard to miss I hate being away from him, I talk about him, I like to share things about myself and sooner or later a friend needs an explanation to "I can't" and "I shouldn't" and "I'm not allowed." I prefer telling them as much as I think they can handle, which is everything from "Yeah, well, I like it when he chooses, I trust him" to "He owns me, I'm a slave." Various health-care professionals I see on a regular basis know too, in one way or another. I've said this before, but it always makes me smile: My Mother knows that he "wears the pants", she thinks this weird because one shouldn't trust a man. My littlesister, who's 17, *doesn't want to know*, because it's *sexual* and ... *yuck!* His mother knows that I like to sit at his feet when we're at their place and he's in the couch, that I service him and that I support him. It looks completely natural to her, and I'm just a supportive, loving, cohabiting girlfriend. I think. His brother has seen a collar with a huge padlock in one of our moving boxes, and me diving for it happily squealing "My collar! THERE it is!" That got me some odd looks, I tell you. So... yeah.. I don't really see what it is to hide. I don't tell people "I can't leave the relationship" or "Sometimes he fucks me when I don't want to fuck" or anything like that (unless they ask). Details are need-to-know. But the general picture? I dunno. I just don't see it as something that needs to be hidden in a drastic way. *shrugs* 3 Dec 08, 2:57 AM SeanT70 9 yrs anjuli wrote: There's a cookie monster too but he's not smelled them or heard the kettle whistlin yet... shhhh! I heard it alright anjuli; I'm just not posting for a while - other stuff to do, amongst other reasons. TTFN and be well all Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 3 Dec 08, 11:39 AM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs 000-874-172 wrote: TTFN and be well all Gotta love a guy who makes Pooh references. Your missed. p Please Do Not Feed The Trolls. It's the best way to get our board back on track. 4 Dec 08, 4:46 PM Masterspetdarkrose US(MN), 3 yrs hey i would love to make friends with other subs too. we could talk. Slave_of_Aaron wrote: New/wanting to make other submissive friends Hello! My Master and I have been trying out being a M/s couple, and so far things are working out pretty well. It's difficult because we have to change our whole relationship dynamic and I've been having wicked fearsome temper tantrums, but beyond that, we are making progress (whew!). So I'm looking to to find some female sub friends...you know, some good people who can support and advise and just talk to in general. I'm very "out" about my submission, but it's hard to continually say "No...Master said no, and no MEANS no" when friends want me to go out or somesuch. 4 Dec 08, 5:44 PM property_of_MacCain 4 yrs Masterspetdarkrose wrote: hey i would love to make friends with other subs too. we could talk. Hmmmm... then your gonna need to make cookies. (Yeah, i'm shameless) p Please Do Not Feed The Trolls. It's the best way to get our board back on track. 4 Dec 08, 6:57 PM 320-540-016 3 yrs Slave_of_Aaron wrote: New/wanting to make other submissive friends Hello! My Master and I have been trying out being a M/s couple, and so far things are working out pretty well. It's difficult because we have to change our whole relationship dynamic and I've been having wicked fearsome temper tantrums, but beyond that, we are making progress (whew!). So I'm looking to to find some female sub friends...you know, some good people who can support and advise and just talk to in general. I'm very "out" about my submission, but it's hard to continually say "No...Master said no, and no MEANS no" when friends want me to go out or somesuch. I am new to this site also,but have been a 24/7 slave for well over a year now. i have recently been aloud to use the computer while Master is away, strictly for friendship with other women like me happiness is pleasing HIM! 5 Dec 08, 1:06 AM 558-214-000 4 yrs Hi and welcome!! That is great that you are very "out" about your submission. i have a few select friends and family that know about mine. Some of them were surprised lol and most of them do not understand or agree with it. When i tell them my Master does not allow that or when i have to obey His rules they try to understand but just don't get it!! i do throw hints with other friends every now and then to get a feel of how they would be with knowing i am in a M/s relationship but find that they wouldn't be able to handle it so i don't tell them. i do not have any submissive friends but would love to have some. i do not go out to the local groups so the chances of me meeting some around where i live are slim. Anytime you want to talk just memo me. MasterBLUs_pet Written with permission of MasterBLU 6 Dec 08, 6:08 AM 662-935-655 5 yrs Slave_of_Aaron wrote: New/wanting to make other submissive friends Hello! My Master and I have been trying out being a M/s couple, and so far things are working out pretty well. It's difficult because we have to change our whole relationship dynamic and I've been having wicked fearsome temper tantrums, but beyond that, we are making progress (whew!). So I'm looking to to find some female sub friends...you know, some good people who can support and advise and just talk to in general. I'm very "out" about my submission, but it's hard to continually say "No...Master said no, and no MEANS no" when friends want me to go out or somesuch. as i like to say, quoting my late Master, welcome (B/both of Y/you) to O/our world! and i always like new female sub friends - or any other subs for that matter, even Owner/Doms if They can accept i'm not looking having pledged to never serve another. i can only say for myself after being collared ten years into our marriage for the last 4 1/2 years, quoting a song as i am wont to do, although i don't remember where this one comes from "Now i have had the time of my life, and i never felt that way before, but i swear, it's the truth - and i only want to live it with (HIM)" paraphrased, an oldie but goodie. i have no regrets for any of that time - at least not in regards to Him. Except of course that He passed on before me. if you're allowed to accept them and comfortable in doing so have some BIG FAT SLOPPY GAL-PAL ((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) - strictly platonic of course! (i can hear Master in the after-life almost saying AW SHUCKS! GRIN!) j/L Papa's owned always: still proudly wearing His Collar and Ring, rest in peace Beloved Master/Husband! alias "granny" matrika ye olde crone, blessed be! Next page