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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "Need a punishment" 1 2 3 4 5 Need a punishment (46) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. 9 Dec 08, 11:40 AM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs little_linnet wrote: I mean we all see what happens when people *do* ask. So many answers are from people clearly just itching to put their two cents in, either because they have a masturbatory agenda, or they want to prove they're a Real Master (tm) who's handled this a millyun billyun times before (or a Real Slave (tm) who would never ever do such a thing), or whatever. Krista Given what happens when people do ask, I am surprised to see it as often as we do. (Unless exposing the slave to the public ridicule of their peers is perhaps the point?) Since advice can be so far 'out there', it might have the effect of making whatever the Master comes up with look more compassionate by comparison. I suppose that might be useful in some situations or relationships? Selah There is no authority, only responsibility. 9 Dec 08, 11:52 AM anjuli UK, 4 yrs property_of_MacCain wrote: Master_Teel wrote: Granted, you are not my slave, and you clearly accept this punishment. However, I think I as a Master would have a problem internally administering punishment for a rule that I had not actively enforced for the past month, and then suddenly decided that punishment was deserved. I would have to set down a decree something along the lines of "ok, your free ride with the clothing after surgery has ended. strip them off." and then resume enforcement from that point. Wow. That seems sane and sensible. How novel. How will you ever make it as a Master with common sence? You might actually have an emotionally healthy slave. Sometimes i wonder why that is not encouraged more. Anyhow, good show. p Sadly, tho I agree with you p, in admiration of a real answer from Teel here... it won't get a minute's attention from the majority because it's not all exciting and skeery. I think we should assemble a hit-squad of the best sadists we can muster to mete out the exact punishments the one-handed-typers give... to their originators. What doesn't kill em might cure em. Meanwhile, we can all get on with trying to live our lives for real and working to improve ourselves so that our Masters don't need punishments that would put us out of action for a week to the detriment mainly of the Master concerned. Bleah! Krista, I don't think I could go on living without the occasional snigger at your one liners (altho it's always lovely to read the longer ones too!... she hastens to add ) You remind me to laugh instead of getting all fired up over something or someone that's not worth the energy expended. Odin, I have no idea why this one comes up so often aside from the obvious and rather jaded idea that it is in search of jerk off material. I'm sure the OP is often genuine tho and wish I could find a way of heading them off at the pass. It's like living on the set of 'Groundhog Day' here sometimes. So seriously, if we can find any clues, it would be wonderful. anjuli ~~~ “I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anais Nin ~~~ 9 Dec 08, 9:48 PM little_linnet US, 6 yrs Master_Odin wrote: (Unless exposing the slave to the public ridicule of their peers is perhaps the point?) Sometimes I'm pretty sure it is, and I find it distasteful for people to assume we're here to do their relationship work for them, you know what I mean? Plus, I have rarely if ever learned a valuable lesson about a mistake by being ridiculed by anyone. Not saying no one in the world could, just saying. it might have the effect of making whatever the Master comes up with look more compassionate by comparison. I suppose that might be useful in some situations or relationships? Hadn't thought of that. I suppose it could. Krista You oppress me with your lack of interest in my exhibitionism and various fetishes! 10 Dec 08, 12:16 AM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs anjuli wrote: Odin, I have no idea why this one comes up so often aside from the obvious and rather jaded idea that it is in search of jerk off material. I'm sure the OP is often genuine tho and wish I could find a way of heading them off at the pass. It's like living on the set of 'Groundhog Day' here sometimes. So seriously, if we can find any clues, it would be wonderful. anjuli I thought about this a lot today. I became a father at 19, sired five children, had step children, and most of my jobs have involved supervision of others in some form. Basically I have spent the last three decades considering how to get other people to do what I thought they should do. Part of that involved punishment and at this point in my life I am happy to keep my own council on such matters. But as I told my oldest, "I made my best mistakes as a father on you." Mistakes are a part of any learning curve. There are resources for parenting and supervision one can go to for advice. Where does the less experienced Master go to? Is there perhaps a real need ? I have read here that Raven Kaldera has written some pretty good books. If they are as good as his posts here I would like to get a hold of some. Has he or anyone of his caliber written on the subject? If so, perhaps these could be used to head them off at the pass? Just thinking out loud. Selah. There is no authority, only responsibility. 10 Dec 08, 12:22 AM Master_Odin US(KS), 3 yrs little_linnet wrote: Master_Odin wrote: (Unless exposing the slave to the public ridicule of their peers is perhaps the point?) Sometimes I'm pretty sure it is, and I find it distasteful for people to assume we're here to do their relationship work for them, you know what I mean? Plus, I have rarely if ever learned a valuable lesson about a mistake by being ridiculed by anyone. Not saying no one in the world could, just saying. Krista I have never been in a relationship where public ridicule would have been anything but harmful, but that is probably more a function of my choices in companionship than anything else. Selah. There is no authority, only responsibility. 23 Dec 08, 2:39 AM Master_SL CA, 5 yrs Well I logged onto read a couple of posts before retiring and I found this rather entertaining one. Amazing how there are complaints of how a one liner can cause such a disturbance to a post yet in rebuttal essays are written by others and three pages of distraction are produced, makes Me laugh. I have to agree with Teel, I would have never allowed something to fester for over a month. Even if I chose not to take action immediately I would make mention to My slave and then set her back on course. I also know that precious would mention to Me that she did not adhere to My wishes and would discuss the reasons why so as I could make decisions in her best interest. As for the "one liner wanker"...I am certain there is an array of sites that would be better suited to masturbation than this culmination of hen pecking chatter. SL 23 Dec 08, 3:26 AM 119-812-164 US, 3 yrs little_linnet wrote: ... I find it distasteful for people to assume we're here to do their relationship work for them, you know what I mean? Plus, I have rarely if ever learned a valuable lesson about a mistake by being ridiculed by anyone. Not saying no one in the world could, just saying. Krista i so much agree with what krista says here and while i pipe in and offer advice at times, i always pause and wonder why questions that seem to be of such import end up on an international M/s board of complete strangers. i feel bad for them and wonder why it ends up here, if there is really no where else to go, what they've gotten themselves into, and also hope that when there are even more dire questions that they seek REAL help or mentorship. it frightens me at times to think of the situations i've seen people post about knowing that they apparently have no guidance, no community, and no clue about the damage they can do to one another, physically and menatlly. i guess that's why i'm compelled to post to these threads when i see them, although it's also stupidly arrogant to imagine that my few words can make much of a difference. The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions.-- Alfred Lord Tennyson To live a creative life we must lose our fear of being wrong. --Joseph Chilton Pearce 23 Dec 08, 5:21 PM EvaMaria US(CA), 3 yrs Master_SL wrote: Well I logged onto read a couple of posts before retiring and I found this rather entertaining one. Amazing how there are complaints of how a one liner can cause such a disturbance to a post yet in rebuttal essays are written by others and three pages of distraction are produced, makes Me laugh. And: As for the "one liner wanker"...I am certain there is an array of sites that would be better suited to masturbation than this culmination of hen pecking chatter. I suppose it would go without saying that the conversation here held no mirth for me, and I would not be honest if I didn't tell that I resent the reference to it as "hen pecking chatter". Otherwise, it's a true thing re: the method of objection not being well suited to the defense of others. I wanted to voice my disagreement with something I saw as wrong. While it brought productive discussion 'tween Krista and me, it did derail the thread temporarily. But I don't think that was a bad thing - some discussions have meaning only when the subject is current. What still bothers me is the opportunity(?) given to the posting of even uglier remarks - even re: the lack of education and "handicap humour". As in, did my efforts not make matters worse for the person I was looking to support and therefore, which is the lesser of two evils. I wasn't happy to see he'd left the site. There was a lesson in it all that I'm still pondering. Camille 1 Jan 09, 4:19 AM 883-242-501 US(MI), 3 yrs little_linnet wrote: He should take away your access to the Internet. Krista I have to agree with this punishment, it works very well on me, needless to say, I am quick to learn with this method, but, it has been certain things on the internet, things i enjoy, not the whole www 14 Jan 09, 2:57 PM 503-726-381 UK, 3 yrs Y! to flash in public Next page