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	TSR : Web boards : M/s D/s O&P : "This slave is wondering..." This slave is wondering... (6) This post is on the M/s D/s O&P web board. Thu 13 Nov 08, 5:26 PM Amo_s_beauty 4 yrs If anyone thinks it is OK for this slave to ask my Amo for punishment when this slave has done wrong? Are any of the slaves here allowed to do that? 13 Nov 08, 5:33 PM Eclectic1 US(ID), 4 yrs I have done that myself. If the wrong is something I had not yet discovered, the slave could bring it to my attention in the proper fashion. The slave could even offer a punishment that was felt to be proper. However it was my choice to choose to to use it the recommendation, or use my own. Honor does have its rewards. But as always the final answer belongs to no one other then your Master so you need to resolve that with him/her for the final answer. Edited 13 Nov 08, 5:37 PM by Eclectic1 13 Nov 08, 10:39 PM 793-044-967 DE, 3 yrs for me it is a rule to ask my owner for punishment if i did something wrong in a time where my owner couldnīt observe me 13 Nov 08, 11:44 PM 655-147-966 US(IL), 4 yrs Y! this slave has never yet directly asked for punishment persae but this slave has been honest and admitted to/owned up to things when this slave has done wrong or broken a rule or not completed a task in time allowed etc..whether or not Master saw it or knew it or the likelyhood of Master finding out would be next to none... this slave and when this slave has told her Master this slave would say to him that she will except whatever punishment he deems appropiate or necessiary.. to answer your question if this slave thinks its ok for a slave to ask for punishment..yes this slave thinks so even though the final decision is up to your Master whether or not punishment is to be given..asking for punishment shows that you know that you did wrong/broke a rule etc. and that your sorry and willing to except punishment for it.. it takes a bigger slave to own up to there mistake and ask for punishment for it and except the punishment...rather than say nothing and hope your Master doesn't find out at all about it.. as slaves we learn from our mistakes, wrong doings etc. and although most of us slaves can say that we don't like to be punished anymore than this slave is sure our Masters would say that they don't like punishing us.. punishment is a necessary evil in helping and teaching us to learn from our mistakes and grow in our service to our Masters.. this slaves Master makes her laugh, cry, and smile..she is very happy to say that she is the owned property and devoted slave of MASTERKAM/SIRK this slave posts and emails with her Masters' permission. Master reads all postings and emails. 14 Nov 08, 12:56 AM little_linnet US, 6 yrs I don't think I've ever asked for punishment but I have, as my former mentor would say, "put it at his feet". That is, I deliberately pick a time when I can be as humble as possible, and I unburden myself of whatever's bothering me and let him decide what, if anything, to do about it. Krista It's like trying to correct the math of somebody adding two and three when they're working under the notion that two means six and three means paprika. 14 Nov 08, 12:57 AM 483-608-929 US(OH), 4 yrs Amo_s_beauty wrote: This slave is wondering... If anyone thinks it is OK for this slave to ask my Amo for punishment when this slave has done wrong? Are any of the slaves here allowed to do that? It is best to be totally honest and up front about all actions. I would not necessarily ask for punishment. I would just admit to what I have done and leave it up to my MASTER to choose to punish me for it or to take another course of action. It's easiest for me to leave those decisions in His hands and to abide by what is decided. He does know that I enjoy punishment and lack of it is often harder to accept than the actual act. Written by it with its Owner's permission. Thank you SIR. Ultimately we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a freedom. Marilyn Ferguson Duct tape is like the force, it has a light side and a dark side and it holds the universe together 14 Nov 08, 1:07 AM 119-812-164 US, 3 yrs i cannot speak for what i believe you should do, but only what i see in your situation. it would seem to me that out of respect for your Owner, you would want to trust your Owner to determine the consequences for your actions, instead of determining them, and requesting them, your self. in asking my Daddy for punishment, i would, in effect, be telling Him what i think i need ... and determining what i need is my Daddy and Master's job .. not mine. i disclose to Him anything that troubles me or that i have done that would displease or dissatisfy Him. He decides what to do with that information and what kind of redirection or punishment i might need, if i need anything at all ... The happiness of a man in this life does not consist in the absence but in the mastery of his passions.-- Alfred Lord Tennyson (1809 - 1892)