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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "New To This" 1 2 New To This (11) This post is on the Other Topics web board. Sat 8 Nov 08, 6:06 AM 441-453-042 US(NC), 3 yrs Hello, I have recently joined this site because my master wished it. I honestly have never been in this sort of relationship, and would like to know some views on it. I'm a shy person as it is. So all will be appreciated. (I really didn't know if this is where I'd post this or not. Because I don't live with him yet it's more an on-line thing at the moment.) 8 Nov 08, 12:47 PM MasterDralor US(OH), 4 yrs 441-453-042 wrote: New To This Hello, I have recently joined this site because my master wished it. I honestly have never been in this sort of relationship, and would like to know some views on it. I'm a shy person as it is. So all will be appreciated. (I really didn't know if this is where I'd post this or not. Because I don't live with him yet it's more an on-line thing at the moment.) welcome to the site. on-line relationships have certain advantages, as well as some disadvantages, but it is what you have so you make the most of it. 8 Nov 08, 2:52 PM MasterAlan79 AU, 3 yrs Y! welcome to the site, what views do you want, if you want to know something just ask. if you want views on online relationship, it depends on the person, some think its fake, some are more open to it and think love has no boundaries. if you want to know about no having any experience and being shy, it doesnt mean jack, everyone had to be a noob at some point. some masters even prefer it. Edited 9 Nov 08, 4:02 PM by MasterAlan79 8 Nov 08, 5:18 PM Mistress_Tiara 5 yrs MasterAlan79 wrote: if you want views on online relationship, it depends on the person, some think its fake, so are more open to it and think love has no boundaries. MasterAlan79 - Huh? That makes no sense. If these mysterious people you refer to (yet again) think of online relationships as 'fake' why would they be more open to it? I'm very confused by your comments. To the OP, there are lots of people here in online relationships and as you have discovered this whole board is dedicated to it so you should find plenty of people to talk to with expereince of online relationship matters. I'm sure you will find lots of good advice this way and there is also the search facility to enable you to read older threads so you can learn by reading up which you may like. If anyone tells you that people here consider online relationships 'fake' and that those in them are not welcome here, they are missing the point and being unnecessarily dramatic. As online realtionships are obviously different to live in relationships and have different problems and issues, people generally find that people in the same groups have experience and understand better than those who don't. Hence the thoughtful creation of the online and LDR board. That way everyone gets advice and feedback that is most relevant to them and doesn't give advice without experience which could inadvertantly be misleading. Welcome to the board *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 9 Nov 08, 2:30 PM SeanT70 9 yrs MasterAlan79 wrote: if you want to know about no having any experience and being shy, it doesnt mean jack, everyone had to be a noob at some point. some masters even prefer it. Mistress_Tiara wrote: MasterAlan79 wrote: if you want views on online relationship, it depends on the person, some think its fake, so are more open to it and think love has no boundaries. MasterAlan79 - Huh? That makes no sense. If these mysterious people you refer to (yet again) think of online relationships as 'fake' why would they be more open to it? I'm very confused by your comments. Hi MT, It's no wonder you had trouble deciphering a comment from a member of this community, whose comment undoubtedly made sense (to him) when he typed it, but partly in a language usually coined by online gamers, amongst others - the word nOOb (he chose to use noob, instead, referring to someone being new to what they're doing, sticks out a mile) We read posts from time to time, and they're a contradiction in terms; I guess we just read to much. The confusion is just too much for someone like me, whose daily condition renders that as a symptom in any case. I can do without adding to it, tyvm! Still, onwards, upwards, and perhaps to a board with less nonsensical posts I apologise for the detraction from the OP, but I really didn't see what 'that' had to do with anything at all; perhaps it was fake. Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 9 Nov 08, 4:02 PM MasterAlan79 AU, 3 yrs Y! Mistress_Tiara so should have been some. mysterious, funny i came across enough people saying it wasnt real when i was in an online relationship, didnt say here. ah sean, i see once again you have nothing better to do then run me down, you may as well give up your not getting the fight your so eager to get out of me. Edited 9 Nov 08, 4:03 PM by MasterAlan79 9 Nov 08, 7:36 PM Mistress_Tiara 5 yrs MasterAlan79 wrote: Mistress_Tiara so should have been some. mysterious, funny i came across enough people saying it wasnt real when i was in an online relationship, didnt say here. Again I simply say, 'huh'? I think you are saying that you once found people elsewhere that were judgemental when you were in an online relationship. This is good news if it means that this is not the case here. Hopefully this will be encouraging to the OP who may have otherwise been assumed you were talking about this board as it was the place under discussion, and been concerned she would find such a reception here, despite us having the online board. I am pleased that you report this is not the case. *~*Mistress Tiara*~* 9 Nov 08, 11:14 PM 201-997-618 3 yrs hello and welcome i've been in an online relationship for 6 years and recently owned by my Master. I'm sure you'll learn a lot here, as i have, about the lifestyle from both the 24/7s and the LDRs. As for views on this sort of relationship, i'm sure it depends on the personalities involved but as for me, all i can say is its awesome! its hard at times and confronting but balanced by absolute blissfulness i was shy and inhibited, nervous, found it extremely hard to open up to anyone, had no confidence in myself whatsoever until i became Master's slave - even during our long friendship i was a little slow to completely trust but since we began our this journey i have grown so much under his training and caring direction. I wish you all the best in your own journey - i dont give advice as such but am happy to share my feelings and experiences when i get time to be here 10 Nov 08, 1:03 PM SeanT70 9 yrs MasterAlan79 wrote: ah sean, i see once again you have nothing better to do then run me down, you may as well give up your not getting the fight your so eager to get out of me. One comment, one meaning; people DON'T presume to use my first name on this board MA, just because it's seen somewhere or I'm a sub-type. You don't have the right. Ever. I have a username, you'll be used to those on other forums, I suspect - USE IT Fight? Get off, will ya? I wasn't talking TO you, I was talking ABOUT you; note difference. ..when difference is noted, BE GONE! Lovingly Owned by ~Miss Phay~ 10 Nov 08, 2:52 PM MasterAlan79 AU, 3 yrs Y! Mistress_Tiara, i meant, where ever you go in life, some people will see online as fake, others are more open minded. and yes i also meant that, although it was more in real life i had people saying it was fake. ah sean, it would seem me leaving this thread, or even this site would make you happy and is obvious what you want. now, do you really think im going to do what you want. Next page