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	TSR : Web boards : Other Topics : "The elusive 3rd. Why is it so hard to find??" The elusive 3rd. Why is it so hard to find?? (6) This post is on the Other Topics web board. Fri 7 Nov 08, 1:30 AM 558-214-000 4 yrs my Master and i have been searching for another female for playtime, sexual encounters for a few months now to no avail. W/we have registered through many sites and sent out numerous emails. No one ever replies to these emails, a lot of them go unread. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to go about finding this elusive female for a threesome? Written with permission of MasterBLU 13 Nov 08, 10:02 PM Global_Domination UK, 7 yrs There have been several threads regarding the "elusive third" lately. Unfortunately I don't have any magic bullet solution to offer. As I pointed out in a similar thread, whoever figures out a solution to this dilemma will truly be both very popular and wealthy in equal measure. We still live in a predominantly mono society and despite much greater freedoms with respect to alternative family structures, there is still a very strong tendency to the mono family model. This is reflected in the apparent scarcity of potential poly fem sub/slaves. ~ Service isn't dead, it's just on holiday... ~ Stillness is an illusion. Every single thing in the universe, is constantly in motion. 17 Dec 08, 9:01 AM tails_SB UK, 6 yrs I would expect it to be much the same as finding someone to begin with, just look out for someone that seems to be compatible, and take the first step to contact them. If you do so online, make your message stand out and demonstrate that you've read their profile It won't be easy, but you will find the right one sooner or later! dmtp. ETA: you might want to change your profile a bit to say what you can offer this playmate too Edited 17 Dec 08, 9:02 AM by tails_SB 26 Dec 08, 1:38 PM 857-887-455 3 yrs Hello: no this one does not have the magic but would like to give an opinion from its personal thinking and seeking. this one hass seen that for a lot seeking the third to join. alot will say in Their profiles, that the first slave/Wife, in some cases will be placed higher, or the thrird will be less valuable to the Master. that to this one is a dure fire indicator that it is not for this slave. Alot are mono, but there are those that enjoy poly. this one knows several slaves seeking a poly life. but they will not join into one where one slave will be treated diffferently then she. they want to be treated as slave, but all in all want the others to be treated same. this one was contacted once, and the Master in the house said straight up He would treat the Wife/sub differently and better. that the third would suffer for the Wif's bad behavior. What kind of slave would want to come there? not this one that is for sure. this one agrees with the Master above, Reword Your profiles., Get rid of the favortism of one slave over the otherif Wife, then do not make new third be punished because Wife screws up or because Wife does not get into the pain side of serving as sub. That is a turn off to any slave. this one hates that the ones you try to send messages, to willnot reply at all. that is giving slave, a bad name and for this one it is showing straight up disrespect, which is not very good. And if the ones calling themselves slave refuse to respond to a message, then that one is not slave, and not worth the effort of trying to speak with anyway. juts a slave opinion and You can take it or not. Thank You. 29 Dec 08, 12:12 AM bareassetsuk 6 yrs interesting topic ,so thoughti would put in my tuppence worth in, i am a member of several swingers sites (oh god i hear you gasp, not one of those) if you am sure i cant mention the names but contact and i wll tell, but in the UK there was around 65 women who advertised themselves as BI. yet all these cpls were also seeking the elusive bi fems, they arnt elusive, they just dont fancy you or wont travel hundresd of miles. a percentage of them are lesbian and this is a cover story, not to put of women who may be curious about their feminine side. and i dont care if ppl agree with me or not, but all these married cpls with BI FEMS, i will bet 95% of them dont have a bicurious bone in their body, but would rather a man did not go behind the wives back and screw around and would "pretend" to be bi. yes of course thereare so bi women as there as bi guys, but think this phenonomen is part of the swinging culture so from 65 women, even less of a percentage will be interested in various d/s lifestyles dont you agree? and why do they have to be bi, i always prefer me to be the centre of 2 womens attentions 10 Jan 09, 10:32 PM 857-887-455 3 yrs bareassetsuk wrote: interesting topic ,so thoughti would put in my tuppence worth in, i am a member of several swingers sites (oh god i hear you gasp, not one of those) if you am sure i cant mention the names but contact and i wll tell, but in the UK there was around 65 women who advertised themselves as BI. yet all these cpls were also seeking the elusive bi fems, they arnt elusive, they just dont fancy you or wont travel hundresd of miles. a percentage of them are lesbian and this is a cover story, not to put of women who may be curious about their feminine side. and i dont care if ppl agree with me or not, but all these married cpls with BI FEMS, i will bet 95% of them dont have a bicurious bone in their body, but would rather a man did not go behind the wives back and screw around and would "pretend" to be bi. yes of course thereare so bi women as there as bi guys, but think this phenonomen is part of the swinging culture so from 65 women, even less of a percentage will be interested in various d/s lifestyles dont you agree? and why do they have to be bi, i always prefer me to be the centre of 2 womens attentions Yes that is very true as well. this one knows several who claim to be bi sexual, and are not even curious about it. They say the do it to please the hubby. thisone does love servicing other Women, as well asits Master. it also enjoys having Master as center of attention as YOu say Sir. this one does love to serve both though. it just does not think it right that a slave be punished because the Wife screws up, and does not "getinto pain" thatis a turn off for any slave. this one is now an owned slave, and no longer seeking to join another house. it does agree with You as well about traveling hundreds of miles for a "play session" that too is a little rediculous just for fun. this one again, only speaks itsopinion as one Who has been seeking the third, as well as considering being the thrd. it would not consider traveling hundrds of miles just for a session though. Sorry it just does not cut it for this one. 26 Jan 09, 4:50 PM FaolanUK UK, 5 yrs Well, you asked for an opinion so here is mine. lol In my experience most slaves want to be cherished, they want to be their Master's most valuable possession, his adored pet. It takes a certain type of sub to accept that she won't have His love, nor hers, but she'll, probably, be a domestic and second tier fuck toy. Considering that advertisements from slaves represent a small percentage of the general population, 90% of the advertisements are fakes anyway, many of them are geniune but too scared to actually go through with a meet because they are timid or may have had bad experiences, a proportion of them may have been collared, or under consideration, since they set up the advertisement; when you add the additional filter that you are looking for someone who will not be His only, it's not really suprising that you find few available but, best of luck.